from a moroccan forum discussing white marriage or marriage for papers

[Imua 0]

Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

Berguag: 31 | Fin saken daba?

Funny you mention this.When I was in college,I knew an Iranian guy.He was SMOKING HOT ! He was here on some kind of program but didn't want to go back to Iran after graduation.So all of a sudden,he started dating a girl who wasn't ugly but.......looked like a librarian.So everybody,including myself of course would ask why ? are you okay ? do you need glasses ? but Persian women are so beautiful....etc.etc. His reply to us was this,"After my whole life of eating filet-mignon, I just want to have a hot-dog."

As a librarian, I am a little offended...

Interesting how in this thread and others the danger of stereotypes and assumptions is brought up but this is a safe one to make...

Some guys are turned on by librarians BTW...

Edited February 6, 2008 by Pattu Rani

[Jenn! 918]

Yeah, I have my hair in a bun and glasses on right now so STFU!

LOL

[Imua 0]

Yeah, I have my hair in a bun and glasses on right now so STFU!

LOL

When I strip off my cardigan and take my hair down my hubby goes wiiillllld.....

[Jenn! 918]

Yeah, I have my hair in a bun and glasses on right now so STFU!

LOL

When I strip off my cardigan and take my hair down my hubby goes wiiillllld.....

Did you ever see that episode of King of Queens when Carrie started wearing her hair in a bun and Doug hated it because it reminded him of his high school librarian? So funny...

[SandyNJack 5]

Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

Berguag: 31 | Fin saken daba?

Funny you mention this.When I was in college,I knew an Iranian guy.He was SMOKING HOT ! He was here on some kind of program but didn't want to go back to Iran after graduation.So all of a sudden,he started dating a girl who wasn't ugly but.......looked like a librarian.So everybody,including myself of course would ask why ? are you okay ? do you need glasses ? but Persian women are so beautiful....etc.etc. His reply to us was this,"After my whole life of eating filet-mignon, I just want to have a hot-dog."

As a librarian, I am a little offended...

Interesting how in this thread and others the danger of stereotypes and assumptions is brought up but this is a safe one to make...

Some guys are turned on by librarians BTW...

Patti,

It is the same way for us BBWs.

[morocco4ever 63]

Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

Berguag: 31 | Fin saken daba?

Thats the beauty of this world. No matter what one person thinks of you there will always be someone who loves you for who you are. There are plenty of men that adore large women.

Funny you mention this.When I was in college,I knew an Iranian guy.He was SMOKING HOT ! He was here on some kind of program but didn't want to go back to Iran after graduation.So all of a sudden,he started dating a girl who wasn't ugly but.......looked like a librarian.So everybody,including myself of course would ask why ? are you okay ? do you need glasses ? but Persian women are so beautiful....etc.etc. His reply to us was this,"After my whole life of eating filet-mignon, I just want to have a hot-dog."

As a librarian, I am a little offended...

Interesting how in this thread and others the danger of stereotypes and assumptions is brought up but this is a safe one to make...

Some guys are turned on by librarians BTW...

Patti,

It is the same way for us BBWs.

Thats the beauty of this world. No matter what what person may think of you there is always someone out there that loves you for who you are. There are plenty of men that adore large women.

Edited February 6, 2008 by morocco4ever

[panamania79 2]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

[panamania79 2]

Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

Berguag: 31 | Fin saken daba?

Funny you mention this.When I was in college,I knew an Iranian guy.He was SMOKING HOT ! He was here on some kind of program but didn't want to go back to Iran after graduation.So all of a sudden,he started dating a girl who wasn't ugly but.......looked like a librarian.So everybody,including myself of course would ask why ? are you okay ? do you need glasses ? but Persian women are so beautiful....etc.etc. His reply to us was this,"After my whole life of eating filet-mignon, I just want to have a hot-dog."

I'm just telling a story about something that occured over 20 years ago.

Librarians ROCK !

[morocco4ever 63]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

Brown paper bag over the head perhaps?

[panamania79 2]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

Brown paper bag over the head perhaps?

And don't forget,turn off the lights and no kissing.lol

[doodlebugg 10]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

Who the heck's looking at his face?

[morocco4ever 63]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

Who the heck's looking at his face?

OMG you girls are sooo bad....I knew there was a reason I like you all!

[panamania79 2]

I would help him with a green card, but being married already might slow things down, but how could I not help a young man get his green card.

Yeah,but what if he's crosseyed and had brown teeth ?

Who the heck's looking at his face?

Not me.

[panamania79 2]

Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

Berguag: 31 | Fin saken daba?

Funny you mention this.When I was in college,I knew an Iranian guy.He was SMOKING HOT ! He was here on some kind of program but didn't want to go back to Iran after graduation.So all of a sudden,he started dating a girl who wasn't ugly but.......looked like a librarian.So everybody,including myself of course would ask why ? are you okay ? do you need glasses ? but Persian women are so beautiful....etc.etc. His reply to us was this,"After my whole life of eating filet-mignon, I just want to have a hot-dog."

As a librarian, I am a little offended...

Interesting how in this thread and others the danger of stereotypes and assumptions is brought up but this is a safe one to make...

Some guys are turned on by librarians BTW...

Patti,

It is the same way for us BBWs.

It sure is.I can vouch for that.

[panamania79 2]

It can go both ways, if you have enough money!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yep - just look at the 'best site to find your soulmate' thread - some of those Russian scammers make these MENA guys look like amateurs...

I have stories about both,do I dare tell them ?