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You NEED to be at least financially stable to have and raise a baby. Do you want to live on welfare? If you don't have a good stable job you won't have insurance that covers pregnancy and maternity, also babies need insurance so adding them to your insurance will require you to pay more. Also, if you work to support the fatherless baby, who will watch the baby? Babies cost a lot of money, how will you budget for that + wedding + apartment/furniture. Please keep in mind that babies are not puppies. Please sign up at a pregnancy or motherhood forum and read what they go through financially and emotionally. Being a mom is the hardest job in the world. This world is not IDEAL that's exactly why you need to be financially stable.
I know that you've the best intentions and you really want to be a mom and you love kids, all of those things are beautiful, but please take all our advice into consideration and remember that you won't have that determination every single day. You don't want to deal with pregnancy, child birth and taking care of an infant + job + visa/green card headaches. When my sister in law was pregnant she couldn't get out of bed because of fatigue and nausea.

I see you don't really need any advice, so I'll make sure to never try to give advice on any of your future posts. Good luck.

Oh but it is tied to experience and development, and those are hard if ever won by the young. And we have seen it countless, innumerable times, right here on Visa Journey. This very question is asked a lot, and it is often tried, with sad results for the future of the child. It is clearly your decision. You've made it, whatever anyone with experience, or common sense has tried to advise you. By all means, proceed.

Speaking from experience as one who petitioned while pregnant, I'd recommend you wait until your spouse is in the US to get pregnant. Anything can happen during a pregnancy, and even a normal pregnancy is miserable to go through alone. It may seem to you now that you can handle it with him being several thousand miles away, but once those hormones start coursing through you, feelings change. Don't overwhelm yourself needlessly. Good luck.

You'd be surprised at what people would do to have their hands on that magical green-card. If you can deceive and marry for love, what's one night of pleasure that results in a child?
A child together will not swing the CO's decision, one way or another. A child proves that a couple had sex without contraception -- it doesn't add or detract from the legitimacy of the relationship.
As Nermeen pointed out, it's the intending immigrant's motives that are being questioned, not the USC petitioner's intent.

The only thing you need to think about when bringing a child into the world is if you are providing the absolute best possible environment for this child to enter the world in. Clearly your love is strong, that will be there now, in 2 years, in 4 years, ...
Ask yourself...are you? Is having your husband away for an undertermined amount of time, in debt, and unemployed the best possible envirnment for your baby?
If yes, then only you know. Bur don't do it to 'prove the relationship' I am sure you have plenty other evidence to do this correct?
Good luck

Cut her some slack please, it's not just the cold, it's also how dark it gets so early ad how gloomy it gets, she's probably used to warm days with sunlight until 7 pm.
I moved to Chicago from FL 6 months ago and it's not even winter yet but it's hard to get used to, I hear from native mid-westerns how they've lived here all their lives and still not used to the winter here and every winter they complain about, so be understanding if she's out of her comfort zone. I experience some depressed feelings because of how cold and dark it is and a lot of people go through that (Seasonal affective disorder). I know a friend who moved from LA to Chicago and after 4 years reached her breaking point and moved back to LA.
Some people are just not cut out for the winter.

Cut her some slack please, it's not just the cold, it's also how dark it gets so early ad how gloomy it gets, she's probably used to warm days with sunlight until 7 pm.
I moved to Chicago from FL 6 months ago and it's not even winter yet but it's hard to get used to, I hear from native mid-westerns how they've lived here all their lives and still not used to the winter here and every winter they complain about, so be understanding if she's out of her comfort zone. I experience some depressed feelings because of how cold and dark it is and a lot of people go through that (Seasonal affective disorder). I know a friend who moved from LA to Chicago and after 4 years reached her breaking point and moved back to LA.
Some people are just not cut out for the winter.

Even most Americans just stand with their arms by their sides, not on their heart and not singing. Do whatever you want.

Visiting a country as a tourist is nothing like living in it as a resident.

To want to live in a perfect country, you yourself would need to be perfect and I can't promise I'll ever be. If someone doesn't like any place they're living in, definitely move, don't live somewhere you hate. That's not smart.

So then if you're not happy living in the best country in the world then leave. There's nothing worse than people living here and not appreciating its greatness. Thank God my fiancé knows this is the best country in the world and appreciates it!

This is the lamest post I've ever read here, seriously. How teeth look like are first of all genetic, stupidity on the other hand, isn't.

The doctors in Egypt don't even tell you if you tested positive or negative cause they assume you know yourself better than they do! The embassy has no interest in lying to you, plus they have supervisors and colleagues, they won't just change his result. Looking tired or not, ALL people waiting at the embassy look very tired, I had to wake up at 2 am to drive from Alexandria to Cairo cause my interview was at 7 am, had no breakfast and I looked awful, they didn't assume I was on drugs.
I'm so so sorry, I'd be devastated and feel cheated on, but it's obvious that he is lying to you, I've never heard of a story like that honestly, trust your American embassy employees, they did good by putting him in AP.

You didn't think he was using you when he asked to marry you right after the court ordered to have him departed? It's obvious that he USED you, I'm very sorry to tell you that I don't believe he married you because he loved you, or your life would be so much different right now and you'd have had a husband who loves you, and respects you. Please, wake up. I wish you the best, don't let anyone take advantage of you, and your son, please think of your son as well, it's not just you.

You didn't think he was using you when he asked to marry you right after the court ordered to have him departed? It's obvious that he USED you, I'm very sorry to tell you that I don't believe he married you because he loved you, or your life would be so much different right now and you'd have had a husband who loves you, and respects you. Please, wake up. I wish you the best, don't let anyone take advantage of you, and your son, please think of your son as well, it's not just you.

You didn't think he was using you when he asked to marry you right after the court ordered to have him departed? It's obvious that he USED you, I'm very sorry to tell you that I don't believe he married you because he loved you, or your life would be so much different right now and you'd have had a husband who loves you, and respects you. Please, wake up. I wish you the best, don't let anyone take advantage of you, and your son, please think of your son as well, it's not just you.

I'd make an appointment and go to the embassy and check this thing out, I know it sucks but what other options you have? Better than being at the border and get denied. I'm sorry you're going through this, but what happened has happened and you can't go back in time, just try to find out how to salvage the situation... I hope it'll be resolved and I don't think you need to re-do the whole thing. I know when some people mistakenly rip their brown envelope they take it to the embassy and they fix it for them.

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!

I'd make an appointment and go to the embassy and check this thing out, I know it sucks but what other options you have? Better than being at the border and get denied. I'm sorry you're going through this, but what happened has happened and you can't go back in time, just try to find out how to salvage the situation... I hope it'll be resolved and I don't think you need to re-do the whole thing. I know when some people mistakenly rip their brown envelope they take it to the embassy and they fix it for them.

You're a very very weird person, everyone here keeps telling you contact the darn consulate by phone or e-mail and you refuse to and keep panicking, what do you want us to do?? Go and get you a new visa?? Call them!!