Usps or ups?. If it was by the post office, you won't get a tracking number unless you send it certified mail. Also did you pay by personal checks or credit card?. Has your card been charged or checks cashed?
Finally please create your timelines
Was the intent to marry before you entered the US? What was the purpose of the trip? If the purpose was to use the tourist visa for the sole purpose to get married and then adjust status, then that's not allowed. You must go through consular processing
On what basis is the extension for? To my knowledge, overstay starts after the I94 expires. If it's more than 180 days past , then reentry bars kick in. Other members may have more knowledge
Pay separately for each form. Use personal checks for peace of mind and tracking. Credit card payments often get declined despite having available funds
I just know that us requires presentation of us passport when leaving. Are you going to Philippines 🇵🇭? It's my understanding that Philippines citizenship is canceled when another is obtained and they have to reapply
You must include all pages of the form and answer all questions even if it doesn't apply. Also you must describe how you met in person within last 2 years.
Just be aware that the card could be declined despite there being enough credit available. Strongly recommend to use personal checks or bank checks for peace of mind.
Was the plan to immigrate all along? What did they tell cbp at Port of entry? It's fraud to adjust status if that was the intention from the beginning. They would have to go back and be petitioned and go through the embassy