Just a quick update:
We had our interview. We did spring for the certified translator. I think my step daughter used her once. My husband used her once.
We could have done without and been fine. C'est la vie.
Our interview was lovely. Very positive experience. I did have everything we had recieved from the beginning printed out and in giant binders for each of them along with original copies of birth certificates and ID's.
He asked for the IDs (my husband's license, both passports, step-daughters French ID card, my husband's SS card), our marraige license, the letters of employment from our sponsor and co-sponsor, the last 3 paychecks from them, photos that were not previously sent (we gave photos from how we met since our original file for the I-485 only included photos from his time here in US since he came on the K1). I also provided proof thay they are on my health insurance, bank statements for them, proof of our divorces and custody settlement with the bank statement proving child support. He asked for school records from my step-daughter, which we didn't have because we were never asked this before. It wasn't an issue. He was able to verify on his own after.
I don't remember that he asked anything else. They already had it all to be fair. He thanked us for coming prepared and having the neccessary documents.
He asked us back and forth questions about our relationship, our previous marriages, number of children, and why we had divorced from previous relationships.
He asked the legal questions about eligiblity from the form.
He asked step-daughter the name of her fathers parents, when she last spoke with her mother, what she did in France for her studies.
Mostly he seemed to be confirming the data he already had from our file.
As I said, it was a positive experience. He was polite and thorough. He gave us time to answer. He repeated as neccessary.
So now, It looks like the green card is good for two years. I know others have said to start the next step early, but the card is valid until April 2028 and the website says that Removal of conditions (that is the next step, correct?) can not be applied for before 90 days before this one expires so I don't see that it can be done earlier than that, please correct me if I'm wrong. At that point, it's 01/24/2028, and I think it's form I-751 and $700/each?
When and where do we do the FD-258 fingerprint cards?
Does my step-daughter file separately or with him? Any tips or links to how-tos are always appreciated. I've looked at the USCIS site just a bit.
They will both focus on getting jobs now. We never received Employment Authorization, but we have the green cards now, so I guess that's a moot point. My step-daughter also received her SS# with the mailed I-485 approval notice. I just want to be prepared so that we know when we need to move. I hate surprises.
FWIW: From what I've read on here, I think our personal experience of having everything go relatively quickly once we got our financials in order had a lot to do with our extensive history of having been together for 10 years and the ease with which would could provide proof of that (shared trips, meeting families, photos of these and other milestones...)
My guess would be that the less time a couple is together before the marriage, the more they want you to prove it's realy because there isn't significant evidence established. I could be wrong and maybe we just got lucky, but the interviewer seemed confident in our file.
Thank you all for the support, info and encouragement!
Purple & Paladin 💜