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This ^^ You will need to physically evict him if he receives his mail there. 
Please check your state laws to see if it’s the same in your state.  
I had to write a letter of eviction and send it to my own home and my x had to sign for it. 
He would dodge the mail and then had to send it to his work to be signed by a officer  and we were never married nor did he pay any bills. 
I also had to give him 120 days to move out by law. 
In the meantime, it was not a fun 3 months and I went and stayed elsewhere. 
After, move on and file for divorce. 
Unfortunately, sometimes the law makes us involve the courts if they don’t want to move out.  
Good Luck. 🍀 

incorrect ? I wonder if  you know what is the spousal visa application I-130 and K -3  fiancé visa and K-1  fiance visa differences .
K-3 is filed with I-130  application  because K-1 is just a fiancé visa and its valid only 1 single entry into U.S and the couple must marry within the 90 days ( not 3 months- 90 DAYS ) 
On the other hand K-3 is the same process of I-130 and  K-3 intended  to improve the speed of the waiting time for I-130 while abroad . also the spouse  can make multiple trips to U.S during the I-130 process and to get a K-3 visa you must be able to prove that you have an approval on your I-130 and pending .
so the only difference  between K-1 and K-3 the K-3 is litte more costly than the K-1 
Besides you got married in Hong Kong and you just used a Mexican permanent residency which was a smart act and registered your wife as a Mexican resident and that way you made your I-130 process faster  as the next door country and was done in a shorter period of time so  your wife got a conditional GC.  so  if Cathy or her u,s citizen finance would have a Canadian permanent residency and they would be in the same shoe with you and do the same thing ,
but unfortunately they dont... 
True 

yes true  thats what I said.. a  K-3 can not be issued without an approved  I-130 but  not everyone is approved of their I-130 for  Cr1 or IR1 and once they are denied  they re in deep xxxx  .you used  the mexico connection right ? why didn't you wait in Hong Kong (where I lived in the 70s. 80s and 90s)because it would take way longer and maybe denied .. than what ?
 
 

I dont think or advise but I am just another guest here ,but if you are in xxxxxxx I  would not have any emotional content but just  follow the orders.
Therefore a legal marriage taking place in a country where the couple wish to reside  is always better, for example  if you marry in japan to a u.s citizen it will say that  if you are married in japan your are married in the u.s .YES  but  NO.... 
if you have an international marriage and plan to marry and live in Japan you should do that marriage in Japanese jurisdiction and live there but you can also use that to move to u.s or elsewhere but the marriage will always be recognized as Japanese marriage. it will work ,YES  but it will work better in Japan.
but if you plan to live in the U.S than its always better to let that marriage  take place in U.S jurisdiction and that will always be recognized as  a U.S marriage by all means . people dont do that and its not they dont wanna do that its because THEY CAN'T DO THAT ,because the person who are  their spouse to be  IS NOT ALLOWED ...unless they go thru that long  painful visa process
So thats why most without a choice  marry in overseas and try to use the immigrant visa to get to U.S otherwise their spouse would have no way or chance or  they have to use the K-1 ,K-3 or other visa rides  to let the finance  enter the U.S and apply for her/him here in the U.S .So either way its all pain in the xxx ....
Also thats one of the reason foreigners using the U.S birthright citizenship to gain an instant citizenship for their foreign kids because if they do that outside of U.S and are foreign nationals  their kids would not become an instant citizens  . would they .

Cathy 
You re very welcome , yes everyone else is right because as I mentioned you have to go thru almost to same thing so instead of I-129F  I-130 is better  except if the application is denied you cant appeal the decision .
if you are in Toronto yes  Buffalo NY is the best and closest city but Detroit or  Chicago is also same ,
yes you dont have to go to his hometown just to get a marriage licence so  you both can marry in any state and city.
 
by the way. as you may know there are three different ways for you to do this 
1- Getting the I-130 immigrant relative visa and entering to u.s and receiving a conditional card followed by a LPR card 
2- Getting a  K-1  and enter the u.s  and marry within 90 days and apply for Adjustment of status 
2- Getting married in that country and obtaining a  K-3 visa and entering to U.S and applying for Adjustment of Status 
As far as marrying outside of his home state concerns maybe  there will be some other extra  paper works  about him as non-resident of that state where marriage took place  and the taxes and all that questions will arise 
but it can be done..
 

Hi Cathy
YES , I definitely think its much better and looks and works better and that is not only for legal purposes but for all other reasons.
According to the law it'll say that it doesn't realty matter where the marriage took place so it all legal  and YES
BUT  if the marriage takes place in the U.S jurisdiction its much better BECAUSE   if you both were U.S citizens that would be easier to marry in Canada or elsewhere and maybe less paper work but you are an Ireland citizen and he is U.S  so  that would bring some extra paper work, questions and  stuff like that. so if you go and get the marriage licence in his state and city  that way you are in better hands because the documents will work better. if you know what I mean .
I just noticed that you plan to go for I-129F Fiance visa and  its ok but I would say dont do that because after entering to U.S you have to go thru the Adjustment of Status hustle and that is nowadays is like a hell. so dont do that and  just  go for I-130  immigrant relative visa 
that way you maybe wait little longer in Canada but if you do I-129F you have to prepare almost the same documents , like medical exam and enter to U.S with the same closed envelope and the U.S immigration interview at the POE and  start for AOS process ..so  why do that ? just go for I-130 and you ll be done sooner.
So I would still say go  together to his state and city and do the marriage and fly back. As you know applying for I-130  used to be directly thru the embassies but no more  so you have to apply thru the NVC and after you apply you ll have  your fingerprinting first and that follows the interview in the embassy and than receiving the immigrant visa and the POE and receive your residency in a matter of weeks  . so if you ask me that is better because you ll be living in the U.S so why go thru all the hustle and questions , like why in Canada, have you travelled to u,s with him and buncha other questions by USCIS ,so if you do it in the U.S thats it  its a matter of U.S  ..DONE

what do you care brah..withdraw it and let her go .. she was into her gc and stuff like most fakers .. get rid of her now.... you ll  be happy....

YES.. its true that a GC must be valid  but  a  GC maybe expires but a residency wont.  if not they would not have a thing called  returning resident .. would they ? 
The old GC s from the 70s till late 80s  had no expiration date  until 1989  but that changed and they were allowed to come back after  20 years but even if that is passed now  they can still come back to U.S and enter and change it to 10 years LPR cards.
So yes  an invalid GC is not good but  not all airlines check that and if they do shes got a stamp in her passport showing that she s got an IR1 stamp and she can board a plane bound for u,s , besides a GC validity  is really any concern of a foreign country  but an invalid passport.
like you can have a valid GC and invalid  passport would they let you board a plane ?
NO.... 
so  a valid passport and invalid GC is way better chance for her to get back to U.S  and thats what I was saying 

First of all LPR- Green  Cards  NEVER EXPIRES. . dont let her go to u,s embassy for SB1 n stuff, . she can just  fly and enter to u.s at the POE  CBP  will question her but she  can explain her reason so they ll let her in and she can apply for a new one,. 
easyyyyyyy...

Hi 
Dont feel bad, that K-1 visa now is useless and just forget about it  and if you wish to return to u,s just engage or marry someone else  
BUT the previous K-1 visa  without even being processed and not  your fault  will hunt you down as a problem  so you can simply report that to u.s embassy where you received it  in order to clean up your name and record or you can just ignore it and face the circumstances.
I 'd say go and explain to the embassy so you dont fall into a bad position because you never did apply for an immigration benefits so its ok but just make sure that embassy knows about so they dont suspect and target  yours a fake marriage as it would affect your future ones because K-1 visa can be cancelled by them and you dont need to act like you lost your passport and get a new one, because its in embassy records... so 
GO TELL THE EMBASSY what happened...
 
He ? dont worry  he ll pay for that ..god is watching all  and what goes around comes around ...
 

Hi 
Dont feel bad, that K-1 visa now is useless and just forget about it  and if you wish to return to u,s just engage or marry someone else  
BUT the previous K-1 visa  without even being processed and not  your fault  will hunt you down as a problem  so you can simply report that to u.s embassy where you received it  in order to clean up your name and record or you can just ignore it and face the circumstances.
I 'd say go and explain to the embassy so you dont fall into a bad position because you never did apply for an immigration benefits so its ok but just make sure that embassy knows about so they dont suspect and target  yours a fake marriage as it would affect your future ones because K-1 visa can be cancelled by them and you dont need to act like you lost your passport and get a new one, because its in embassy records... so 
GO TELL THE EMBASSY what happened...
 
He ? dont worry  he ll pay for that ..god is watching all  and what goes around comes around ...
 

Hi Cathy
YES , I definitely think its much better and looks and works better and that is not only for legal purposes but for all other reasons.
According to the law it'll say that it doesn't realty matter where the marriage took place so it all legal  and YES
BUT  if the marriage takes place in the U.S jurisdiction its much better BECAUSE   if you both were U.S citizens that would be easier to marry in Canada or elsewhere and maybe less paper work but you are an Ireland citizen and he is U.S  so  that would bring some extra paper work, questions and  stuff like that. so if you go and get the marriage licence in his state and city  that way you are in better hands because the documents will work better. if you know what I mean .
I just noticed that you plan to go for I-129F Fiance visa and  its ok but I would say dont do that because after entering to U.S you have to go thru the Adjustment of Status hustle and that is nowadays is like a hell. so dont do that and  just  go for I-130  immigrant relative visa 
that way you maybe wait little longer in Canada but if you do I-129F you have to prepare almost the same documents , like medical exam and enter to U.S with the same closed envelope and the U.S immigration interview at the POE and  start for AOS process ..so  why do that ? just go for I-130 and you ll be done sooner.
So I would still say go  together to his state and city and do the marriage and fly back. As you know applying for I-130  used to be directly thru the embassies but no more  so you have to apply thru the NVC and after you apply you ll have  your fingerprinting first and that follows the interview in the embassy and than receiving the immigrant visa and the POE and receive your residency in a matter of weeks  . so if you ask me that is better because you ll be living in the U.S so why go thru all the hustle and questions , like why in Canada, have you travelled to u,s with him and buncha other questions by USCIS ,so if you do it in the U.S thats it  its a matter of U.S  ..DONE

what do you care brah..withdraw it and let her go .. she was into her gc and stuff like most fakers .. get rid of her now.... you ll  be happy....