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Do not risk it. If during his entry the officials catch wind of it he can be denied entry. You yourself are calling it a traditional wedding ceremony. If anyone posts about it on social media and you know someone will. It's all game over. Don't take the risk. Go back later to do that and then you can enjoy it without worry.

~~Moved to ROC, from OAS Family K1/K3- as the OP was waiting on ROC and delivery of card~~

~~moved to Tourist Visas, from IR1/CR1 P&P - as the OP is asking about visiting and does not have a Pending I-130 in process.~~

There have been a many threads over the years. These are my thoughts and what I've read on here over the years. First your fiance was supposed to be sure before he uprooted and moved you to the US. He even made a statement of just that. It is always possible that when together full time that reality sets in and that is fine and dandy but you don't get to toy with someone life like that. You get honest with them and end the relationship and let them go home. You've been here a month and he already has changed his mind. Sure he says he doesn't want to break up but not ready to marry. It's not a try before yo buy visa he knew this full well. He's already telling you that he doesn't think he can make-up his mind in 50 days. Well too bad buddy he had nearly 2 years to make-up his mind and now all of a sudden he doesn't know. I call baloney he knew full well long before you came and was too chicken to tell you. You asked about getting married in 6 months. Does he expect you to stay in the US without any type of status and hoping he will marry you one day? While you are waiting for him you put yourself at risk for losing ESTA, getting a ban and even deportation. These are all real possibilities that can happen to you, not him but you. He has no worries at all, he doesn't even have to support you and can even toss you out to the road with no repercussions. The risk for you is too great, pack up and go home long before your 90 days are up. If you have to convince him it is not worth it. If you decide not to give up on this relationship, go home and really really work on your relationship with him. He is the one who needs to step up not you. Let him prove to you he is ready, but make sure he isn't doing it because you are pushing him. As for others stories like this, you can find many on here. The USC changes his mind, something is not ready, too much work, and many other excuses. Sometimes they do get married like day 95 then no big deal life moves forward, but the majority of those couples, the USC doesn't start off saying they don't want to get married. Something out of their control or an emergency. Now this is truly the worst of the worse that I have seen on here. USC convinces the foreign fiance to stay, while draining the fiance's savings dry, boots fiance to the road after, fiance now has a ban for overstaying. the abuse starts (no i'm not saying this is going to happen to you) without marriage the fiance also has no case for VAWA so they stay until they can't take it anymore or stays illegal always worried. If they leave they have incurred a ban. plays house making babies but never marry, kicks the other parent out, ugly custody battle begins, most are not lucky enough to leave with their child(ren) and then can't get back to the US to visit. Thanks to overstaying the 90 days. At the whims of the USC to talk,video chat with their child(ren). I'm also going to guess you have your own doubts about him moving forward to marry or you would not have been on here asking others their thoughts. Please follow your gut, it never lies. I also want to add you cannot come back later on with ESTA or a visitor visa to get married once you leave with the intent to adjust it doesn't work like that. He will have to start all over again with the spousal visa,

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from K1 P&P - The OP is now in the US entry with the K1.~~

~~One post in a zombie thread split off to its own thread.~~

It is super scary having BP that high. Yes hormones and blood calcium levels. There's more too all can be causes to HBP, so always good to check with them. Sadly it won't be fast enough to get your mom on track today.

I'm so sorry Tbone, that is a lot going on. I really hope they figure out your mom's BP and soon. Has she ever seen an endocrinologist? There may be other hormones and such that is causing the issue. Might be worth a shot. Hopefully Mini-B will not repeat that.

Took the kids to Homeschool Skating, first we did ice skating then roller skating, the Tornado decided to try rollerblades instead. She liked that better then the roller skates. Of course after 4 and a half hours of that we were all tuckered out. Totally forgot to get the garbage and recycling out Thankfully the recycling will go by once more before Christmas.

~~Moved to General Immigration Discussion, from K1 P&P - The OP is asking about the legalities of what a friend said.~~

I reread that, you might be right.

Adoption needed to be finalized before 16. Are you married to the child's parent?

Your case is not similar to the OP's. K2 must be done within 1 yr of the K1. Your K2's case was messed up being issued after the one year mark and this is why he was in removal. He should not have been issued a K2.. Please stop derailing the OP's thread with your case.

Sigh! Do what works with him. Once you find his currency you have it made. Seems you might have found it. Praising his good efforts like you do is also very good. Natural consequences are very good too. But Failing classes is a big one. For the Tornado it is losing her tablet. The Tornado doesn't do well with certain things. Like if I did what the MIL tried to tell me to do (toys not put away go in the garbage) the Tornado would say ok do it and state she doesn't play with them anymore anyway. That was when she was younger. I don't tend to threaten I just make her do it, it's a pain to be in there with her but it gets done. I'm positive she is ADHD, she can't unwind, she can't stop talking and so many more things that scream ADHD. SInce we homeschool it is no big deal I can work with her struggles.

Throw the book at her and strip her of her USC. We bust our butts off to do things the right way. THose who lie and cheat should be punished.

Moved to Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g), form General Immigration DIscussion.~~

Every time I have my adblock running I cannot use the multi quote option. As soon as I turn on the adblock the multi quote down on the bottom right pops right back up. Also my cursor disappears every single time on VJ and only on VJ. I have to randomly click around and hope it will pop back up on my chat box so I can use my arrow keys to move around my flashing (|) so I know where I am. THis has been going on for months and at first I thought is was just my computer, if it was then it would be the same thing everywhere I go.

Ok Multi quoting is not working for me the last few times I've tried to use it. Tbone I would have loved to have twins. It would have been one less pregnancy. But just not twins of the Tornado the other 5 would have been perfect. Those OB's should have been better with their money they made a killing off of me. As I mentioned before gaming addiction is a real issue with kids and adults. As mom of kids with learning disabilities you know much more early on then 7th grade. Mini-B has always been an exceptional student. Can there be something else going on learning disability wise, sure it's possible. I'm more certain that the attitude of 7th grade being sink or swim in school is what is really getting to him. They don't hand hold at all in 7th, they don't make it easy whatsoever. That is why they tell you 7th grade is the hardest year even way back to when I was a kid. I'm going to say unless you can get the ex Mrs-TB to listen and stick to no phone (calls only to the both of you) or games then it will just keep getting worse. He's clearly addicted to his games.

Congratulations. Good amount of time for twins. I kept OB's in business long enough. Poor baby. I always stuff pills in hotdogs. My dogs don't stop long enough to chew it. It goes straight down in one shot.

~~Thread has been derailed enough and is now locked to further replies. The OP has received the answer to the question. One inappropriate post has been removed. When commenting in another member's thread that comment should be about them not you. If you have questions of your own you need to start your own thread.~~

~~Thread moved to the PI Forum, form K1/K2 Progress Reports- The OP is asking a very Country specific question.~~

As mentioned above the F1 will be canceled when she gets the K2. She can still go to college with her K2.

~~Six year old thread locked to further replies.~~

I brought a easy dozen inhalers with me no issues when we moved. I have seen many USC in the Canadian pharmacies getting big bottles of cough syrup with codeine because they didn't need a prescription in Canada.

Depending on when the border guard did this (years ago pre 90's it was actually perfectly legal to do this), or other circumstances. Today entering with the intent to AOS is fraud and this can lead to a lifetime ban. Please do not do this. Also just a note for others, it would not be the first time border guards gave the wrong advice out. They have turned away many members telling them they cannot travel once their paperwork reaches NVC. We all know that is not correct but it happens.