Kwiecia

My husband and I met through an online game and we just got approved, my visa is on the way. It does not matter how you met, what matters to them is how much time you have seen each other and spent together. What country are you from?

I'm guessing anyone who doesn't care hasn't been the victim of identity theft.  Sign of the times, really.  Doesn't effect me = don't care.

The fact that many people do it doesn't mean that it's by any means right or LEGAL.

You are trying to justify illegal action because many people does that in New york ? Your comment is offensive to legal immigrants who follow laws and do the right things.

Not one of those reasons makes it ok to use a stolen or fake SSN. Just because people don't have a legal option to come here doesn't mean we should turn a blind eye to their illegal path here. Immigration is a privilege, not a right. 

Perhaps you should offer up your SSN to these good people to help them out.

You obviously have not been a victim of having your SSN used by someone else. Many children have had their identities stolen. Imagine being 18 and trying to get a job, car, phone, ... and be refused because you are accused on lying because another person - an adult no less -  has used the SSN you received shortly after birth and really screwed up your life and finances. I know; it happened to my son. His SSN was used for years while he was younger than 18.
 
She (and you) should stop using a sob story to justify her behavior. A lot of people in similar situations did not act as she did. She needs to be honest. You do not seem to understand the severity of the problems that are created by a person using a SSN that is actually or potentially another individual's. You do not seem to be sorry for the problems she has caused herself and others. If you did, you would not have stated she was a "good" person; you would have said she was "wrong".  I hope she is more contrite. People who have not had to deal with the issues created by identity theft do not understand how it affects a person's life.
 
As for the helpful advice you are seeking, she should get an attorney. IMO, one a person has committed an illegal act, they should use an attorney for all immigration filings. She has demonstrated the lack of understanding the consequences of breaking US laws; she cannot afford another mistake. Your attempts to justify her conduct makes you a poor candidate to provide her with good legal advice.
 
FWIW,  I am as frustrated and angry by you justifying what she did as much or more than her doing it in the first place.

I have waited for 224 days so you are not the only one that waited longer than most people here.

I would send the application ASAP and the moment he will get deployment order, send that to USCIS or NVC depending on which stage you guys will be on to expedite the case.

"I am offended" in other words mean "I don't like what you said" these days. 
But two can play this game. I am offended because you found my comment offensive. 

I would send the application ASAP and the moment he will get deployment order, send that to USCIS or NVC depending on which stage you guys will be on to expedite the case.

I have been waiting almost 2 years just to get the I-130 and because USCIS mess up my case I have to refilled again now. I had been patient for too longer now.

You know, it's hard to be patient seeing everyone around being approved but not yourself. I'm from December and January are getting approvals. This is just annoying and simply unfair to the people who applied and are waiting for their turn. So telling us to be patient while we are clearly just bypassed is a stretch.
 
I'm sorry you got into Potomac, they are slow as hell! And it's just as unfair for you guys to be thrown back couple months behind compared to the other service centers.
 
So to sum it all up. Guys, stop telling people to be patient. It's only making us upset. We have one life and we are forced to live it apart from the people we love.

You know, it's hard to be patient seeing everyone around being approved but not yourself. I'm from December and January are getting approvals. This is just annoying and simply unfair to the people who applied and are waiting for their turn. So telling us to be patient while we are clearly just bypassed is a stretch.
 
I'm sorry you got into Potomac, they are slow as hell! And it's just as unfair for you guys to be thrown back couple months behind compared to the other service centers.
 
So to sum it all up. Guys, stop telling people to be patient. It's only making us upset. We have one life and we are forced to live it apart from the people we love.