Shawn & Rizalyn

That’s why I live where I live in Arizona. We don’t have to really worry about that stuff. Just the accaisonal dust storm. 
 

Is anybody else having issues with the VJ forums? I check our June fliers forum several times a day! I feel like I know so many of you so very well:) At least 2-3 times a day, I click the link to open the forum or I hit the next page link and it sends me to a spam site that I cannot get out of when I try to backpage. I have to close the link and open it back up from scratch. I mostly use my iPad, so I know it’s not a virus or malware. Just curious.
 
its a shame that we are all spread out around the country. I think it would be really cool to have the ability to have some sort of gathering when we all complete the process. I think it would be pretty cool to meet all of you and celebrate the completion of this process. 

And WAC1790359704 was approved which is the number RIGHT BEFORE MINE UGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!  I have to be in that box Right????? RIGHT???????

Now this looks really productive, oh and so many approvals and not very many RFE'S.........awesome news  

case right before me and 6 after me approved  grrrr.
I have to be in one of those boxes Right?????

case right before me and 6 after me approved  grrrr.
I have to be in one of those boxes Right?????

Almost wet crazy when I saw the first number, but then.... oh wait i'm 359705  haha

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

I hear you, we were hoping for christmas when we applied. My kids said they don’t want to open presents until there mom and sisters come home. I even had stockings made months ago. So we’ll be having a late Christmas.

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

I totally  understand you, unfortunately. It depends on the day--sometimes I am optimistic and positive and telling myself to let go of what I cannot control and others I am an emotional wreck and my fiance literally doesn't even know how to help me anymore. It helps to know we are not alone. I wish I can say that there is a button in our brain we can just turn off and not care about any of this, but there is not. I think the best thing is to distract yourself from what is missing in your life, and focus on what you have RIGHT NOW. Family....a job you love.....a hobby you enjoy......exercise....meditation. Whatever it may be. Somehow I feel better when I am fully aware of my present moment and not thinking about what is missing. I know it's hard and it's hard because YOU CARE. If you didn't care about this person, the distance wouldn't matter. You are hurting because you care and love your fiance. 
 
Also, what I tell myself (I feel like 500 times a day to stay sane) is that there is a reason for this---think of the big picture. Somewhere down the line, this may be what strengthens your marriage and your bond. We are just not aware of it. 
 
Stay strong and know you are not alone....this is just a bad day/bad month/bad week....it's not a bad life. 
 
<3 Sending some love because we all need it <3

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

Ok so I’m here reading all the sad post😔. Yes this is a tough process. I know times get hard and your heart aches for your loved one. But you guys, we’re almost there! You have to stay positive!
I don’t know how many of you have kids involved in your case. But let me tell ya what I go through on  a daily basis. My fiancé and I have 4 kids between us. We have a have a 3yr old girl and 9 yr old boy here in the states and 5 & 8 year old girls in PH. Yes we are almost the Brady bunch. Haha. Our 3 yr old has a bear that her Ina spayed with her perfume and gave her on the trip that I proposed. She doesn’t let it out of her sight. Every morning she when she wakes up she asks if her Ina is coming home today. Then asks the same when I pick her up from daycare. Everyday I have to give her the same answer. And she gets sad. The 10 year old, his only wish is for his Ina to be at his first football game of the new year. Which doesn’t look like it’s going to happen.  Now our daughters in PH, i stay up late to call them every other day. And every call starts out, Daddy we miss you, kuya, and bunso (that’s what they call the 3yr old), when are you coming back. It breaks my heart every time, and yes as a man I have shed my fair share of tears.
BUT, what gets me through it? Seeing the 4 kids, how their faces light up when the video eachother on the weekends, the songs the 6 of us sing together in video chats, the dance parties we have through video, the stories we tell. When I’m missing my fiancé and I can’t talk to her, I go back through our old conversations, pictures, and videos we have together alone and with our children. I remember all the times we shared and think about the many more adventures we’re going to have together as a family. 
So when your feeling down and sad, Don’t think of the RIGHT NOW, reminisce about the great times you’ve had together, read those old love letters, look at those picture of you two happy together. AND THINK OF ALL THE WONDERFUL NEW MEMORIES YOU’LL SOON BE MAKING TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!!
 
Sorry for the long post. But people CHEER UP, they are on June cases, our time will come😊

We all know how your feel. I'm 7500 miles away from my fiance. and our communication the last few weeks has been very little because she has been studying her butt of for her final exams and practicals this week. And if I get an RFE, I pray not. But if I do, I know my case is being worked and our journey to home is coming to and end. Believe me, I have shed more than one tear through this process.  But we all go through these feelings at some point. But you have to keep fighting for it, your going to be with your soulmate, the love of your life, for the rest of your life. You will make it!  Your on day 177, i'm on day 174. We are so so close, and this is what we have been fighting for. So chin up girl, and keep pressing forward and before you know it, you'll be together again.
 
A couple things i do that also helps: I have a letter she hid in my bag the first time I met her in person, the only time I don't have that letter on me is when I am sleeping. But I always have something she gave me with me. Just my way of making her feel closer. These pics I keep on my phone. I read them when i'm having a hard day. But all in all, the only thing I really need to do to keep me focused and pushing forward is to look at our picture when we were all together me her and our 4 kids. Our first Family picture. I hope this helps a little. You are going to make it!

We all know how your feel. I'm 7500 miles away from my fiance. and our communication the last few weeks has been very little because she has been studying her butt of for her final exams and practicals this week. And if I get an RFE, I pray not. But if I do, I know my case is being worked and our journey to home is coming to and end. Believe me, I have shed more than one tear through this process.  But we all go through these feelings at some point. But you have to keep fighting for it, your going to be with your soulmate, the love of your life, for the rest of your life. You will make it!  Your on day 177, i'm on day 174. We are so so close, and this is what we have been fighting for. So chin up girl, and keep pressing forward and before you know it, you'll be together again.
 
A couple things i do that also helps: I have a letter she hid in my bag the first time I met her in person, the only time I don't have that letter on me is when I am sleeping. But I always have something she gave me with me. Just my way of making her feel closer. These pics I keep on my phone. I read them when i'm having a hard day. But all in all, the only thing I really need to do to keep me focused and pushing forward is to look at our picture when we were all together me her and our 4 kids. Our first Family picture. I hope this helps a little. You are going to make it!

We all know how your feel. I'm 7500 miles away from my fiance. and our communication the last few weeks has been very little because she has been studying her butt of for her final exams and practicals this week. And if I get an RFE, I pray not. But if I do, I know my case is being worked and our journey to home is coming to and end. Believe me, I have shed more than one tear through this process.  But we all go through these feelings at some point. But you have to keep fighting for it, your going to be with your soulmate, the love of your life, for the rest of your life. You will make it!  Your on day 177, i'm on day 174. We are so so close, and this is what we have been fighting for. So chin up girl, and keep pressing forward and before you know it, you'll be together again.
 
A couple things i do that also helps: I have a letter she hid in my bag the first time I met her in person, the only time I don't have that letter on me is when I am sleeping. But I always have something she gave me with me. Just my way of making her feel closer. These pics I keep on my phone. I read them when i'm having a hard day. But all in all, the only thing I really need to do to keep me focused and pushing forward is to look at our picture when we were all together me her and our 4 kids. Our first Family picture. I hope this helps a little. You are going to make it!

We all know how your feel. I'm 7500 miles away from my fiance. and our communication the last few weeks has been very little because she has been studying her butt of for her final exams and practicals this week. And if I get an RFE, I pray not. But if I do, I know my case is being worked and our journey to home is coming to and end. Believe me, I have shed more than one tear through this process.  But we all go through these feelings at some point. But you have to keep fighting for it, your going to be with your soulmate, the love of your life, for the rest of your life. You will make it!  Your on day 177, i'm on day 174. We are so so close, and this is what we have been fighting for. So chin up girl, and keep pressing forward and before you know it, you'll be together again.
 
A couple things i do that also helps: I have a letter she hid in my bag the first time I met her in person, the only time I don't have that letter on me is when I am sleeping. But I always have something she gave me with me. Just my way of making her feel closer. These pics I keep on my phone. I read them when i'm having a hard day. But all in all, the only thing I really need to do to keep me focused and pushing forward is to look at our picture when we were all together me her and our 4 kids. Our first Family picture. I hope this helps a little. You are going to make it!

The problem in the past (may filers at the very least) is that even if they filed that paper some didn't get any notification.
 
there are people at the interview stage their cases are still received  
 
so yeah lets think that way because we actually know it's real!