Anitafeliz

It's also not country dependent that K1s are left to expire and CR1 are sent back to USCIS for NOIR/NOID. Ebunoluwa is knowledgeable in this area of immigration.
It's not uncommon for others to comment regardless of country origin. It's also impossible to discuss reasons for denial and your individual issues of the process without devulging some personal info.

So what's your question and what is your situation?

Aww thank you

Congratulations

It is clear to me that they got married going by his post stating " we got married". Past tense. It appears OP is confused about the return process in Ghana thinking that they still have a chance to get the K1 approved but as I said Ghana has not returned it nor notified NVC and USCIS. That's what Ghana does, they keep the case collecting dust instead of returning it in a timely manner which leaves everyone confused including NVC and USCIS. OP genuinely thinks that even though they married he can still be issued the visa. I don't think there is willfull deceit. OP can't enter the country even if the visa would be approved now that they "got married."

Yey baby ????

It's not crystal clear from your other thread, but have you gotten married? Apparently the reason for the K-1 denial was that the CO thought you were married.
The only way to remedy the situation in a case like this is to actually get married and file an I-130 for a spousal visa.

OP stated in his previous thread " we got married"
OPs wife now states they have a date. Let's keep it real here. A k1 even when issued or hung up in AP can not be used to enter the US when the couple has married before leaving his country.

Why are you still chasing the K1 ?
You are married and need to file a I-130. http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/601826-denied-k1-petition-now-what/
The reason NVC and USCIS don't see a returned case is because it has not been returned YET.

Ghana will sit on it for about 6 months before they return it to USCIS and once there it will die the death of expiration.

You are married now and the whole K1 is mute.

File a I-30 to start over.

Your post actually sounds pretty hostile and threatening. Like, you want to know that woman name and do what?
And yeah, I'm pretty sure she feels pretty good. People are being denied all the time. I'm sure there were some flags in your case that got you denied/AP/whatever happened.

Ah, so you're married, making you ineligible for a K-1 visa, but still find it to be the C.O's problem. The entitlement here is strong.

Ignorance of the law is EXCUSE.
Breaking the law YET again entering illegal....does not look good. especially since you know you are banned...

OP's wife for the info from NVC. So y'all should quit with the meanness.
I would be confused too if I was told my case was not denied even though I was told I had been denied.
Pursuing it may be futile at this point since OP has since married. But it should be something for us to learn from.
If an applicant is denied, doesn't the record get entered into DOS system? Does the case has to be physically here for USCIS and NVC to know it wasn't issued?

Awwww.. That is great news, happy for you and I'm wishing you all the best. Happy Thanksgiving to you both. Have fun

How's that different than my girlfriend, wife, husband, cousin, sister? They're all words, it's doesn't mean anything....

OP has married. I posted the link to his other thread. K1 is null and void.
I call my husband 'my man' too. He is my man. I am his woman, I don't see it as a possession and it's very acceptable
as a lovey dovey term in different cultures.

Hello!
Noom & I were married on Friday morning, November 18th. It was the happiest day of my life.
Our wedding was so wonderful. We were married in a lovely old house surrounded by the closest friends and family who gathered to witness the Christian religious ceremony and to enjoy a champagne lunch afterwards. Floral arrangements of white roses and white hydrangeas along with violin & guitar music helped to create a sweet and romantic atmosphere. And our wedding cake was delicious...chocolate cake with chocolate icing!
Our priest sent an email later in the day saying he has officiated at a lot of weddings in his life time but none was sweeter, more loving, and more sincere than ours.
My family, friends, and co-workers have accepted Noom with open hearts and have found him to be as sweet, charming, and adorable as I do.
Noom has adjusted so well to life in America. He's studying English, eating well (yes, he likes farang food), cooking Thai food, and learning his way around. He's very happy and hasn't been homesick at all.
All that waiting has been so worth it! And now for adjustment of status.
All the best,
David & Noom

Honestly trust your gut...if you have a doubt then maybe your answer lays there....

I think you are sorting this all out and giving yourself the answer you need.
Have faith.
Sometimes god puts people in you life to learn a lesson.
If he and you stay together forever great but if not enjoy the time you have.
Personally i dont make future plans live day by day enjoy your partner.

Biggest tips I can give are:
1- definitely understand his culture and understand his religious beliefs. Even if you share the same religion, you can find some large differences in interpretation.
2-spend time with his family. You will get the true sense for how the treat each other and you can see how they treat you.
I will say personally I do not find it as a red flag at all that you have already been discussing marriage. That is not culturally strange for him.

correct, because moderators can't be suspended due to the settings of the board.
however, if you have an issue with moderation on this site, you may take it up with the admin
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as this thread continues to have back and forth bickering between members, it is now closed.
do not restart this thread.

you're on VJ complaining about your treatment. you're new, this happens a lot. it hasn't changed yet here and likely wont

I think people need to learn that people can only upset you if you let them in.
If forums upset you use the guides and search tools.
I dont think anyone sets out to be mean to anyone. But sometimes telling someone what they thought was right is wrong can upset people....
Also take into account alot of people here are from other countries and take things personal others wouldnt and vise versa.

thank you for teaching us all how to visajourney