WeAreTooCool

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

File for divorce, do not file the paperwork. He will leave you for the other woman once he reaches up here.

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

I am so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Take it from me though and forget about him. I'm not stereotyping or anything but most of these men do that down here. A leopard doesn't changes its spots. Thank God that you found out about it before you paid for the paperwork. Noone cheats "by accident" he knew what he was doing. It may hurt now but imagine if he had gotten to America and ran off with that other lady. Again I'm sorry to hear the pain you are going through but don't waste anymore time with him

In my opinion there is something wrong that K-1's are processed faster, spousal petitions and visas should take priority over k-1. Married couples are already married and should be reunited first. And if you were to actually do your homework you would know that spousal visas take longer

So had my interview today and was approved, and whilst obviosuly happy this post is not about that, I write this for all those still waiting at TSC, you are not forgotten my friends!
I know the disparity between TSC and CSC processing times isn't exactly the biggest injustice in the world, but it is staggering that an organisation with the funding and size of USCIS can't sort it's s**t out, processing some people in a month while others in a year, for no other reason that geographical location.
I've been through almost a year of hell waiting at TSC while others sail through at CSC in a month or two. And you can say well its over now, or it will soon be forgotten, but I don't forget, and it will take a while for the scars to heal.
Am i being dramatic, well yeah a bit, a lot worse happens in the world, but thats not the point. Being seperated from your loved one for a year while others only face a couple months apart, when those people are paying the same for the same process is ridiculous. There are STILL people waiting at TSC who applied the sae time as me, so this is for you, I feel your pain, I'm praying for you and you are not forgotten, apart from by those working at TSC. For those at TSC, good luck, and god bless, I made it, just, you will too.

Your comment bashing Chinese Nationals and other foreigners is small minded and against TOS.
This is an immigration site and nobody will stop their petition because you failed to adequately understand the culture of your wife.
I have not read one thing that says she scammed you, you had a big fight about her son moving in which should have been discussed
and agreed upon but to not picking him up from the airport and her walking in the cold to pick him up is lack of responsibility on your part
and plain childish.
YOU should never again marry a foreigner, because YOU don't get it.
Was I scammed before ? Yes, by Americans ! I am also a naturalized citizen and take it as an insult for you to say don't marry a foreigner.
Be accountable for your own poor choices and stop generalizing and stereotyping.
You should make sure your communication skills match that of your spouse when you chose one or have the patience to work on it with her
and understand the culture that comes into play.

I'm sorry you had a bad go of things but to categorize all non-U.S. women that way is kinda extreme, don't ya think?

yh we have decided to handle the rest of the case ourselves from here on out, especially since she got a cancer diagnosis now. I just wished she had sent everything, I mean better safe than sorry, right?

Sounds like she lied from the beginning and only told you the truth once she was sure she was moving to the US. Do consult with a lawyer and make sure to keep records of conversations etc. even if only written down.
You have no obligation to let someone live in your housr who treatens you, specially if he is not here legally. And if your wife believes otherwise than she might need to go as well. He is her family, but you are her husband and if she can't repect that than there is a problem. Do not file for AOS until you are sure that that is the way you want to go with the marriage, once you file lots of things can go wrong and she will be more protected.