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The above will satisfy USCIS (petition phase). Those who will be dealing with tough consulates (visa phase) might front-load the petition package with a longer timeline of the relationship.

Is it really corrupt or the fact that we are speaking of a high fraud country? Just like high fraud country they are going to be tougher than any other country. Your love may be real and so are many others but on the flip side there are so many that are willing to commit fraud to get here. This is not an easy process for anyone no matter what embassy or consulate we are applying to. Everyone is fair game for a denial. OP I really hope you can get a second interview. It is sad that people have to be such a hard @ss. Good luck and if all else fails get married and after your visa approval write a nice letter to the embassy there for the COs wonderful treatment (insert sarcasm). Good luck!!

I am going to get one ready. I got a few samples on here...thanks for your story as long as i can fix it im happy to wait i rather wait a few more weeks rather than not be able to bring him

Actually i was denied in the past having had a baby with the person i was placed on review and during the DNA they requested which cost me $800 the person got another woman pregnant so i had to cancel and re start my life as a single mom. I would like to thank that CO she saved me from myself.
Hang in there dont give up sorry you have to go through thisits unfortunate! Very!!

On another thread? Nothing much here.

Why ask for suggestions only to mock them. ??? You and ebunoluwa should just pm and ignore the people on here who are just trying to help and understand your story.
You have a few options
1 re apply as his wife after you marry him
2 try and get a second interview
3 drop the case all together
What ever you may choose to do dont take your stress out on people on here even suggesting they are not educated.

No need to be so hostile people are trying to understand and help you. ??

You attended? I thought you were not allowed.

What the officer was referring is not because they are engaged and do not have kids, but because they are dating 4 years and didn't get married and had kids.They apply different standards regarding different cultures, why? for example, it's very common in India arranged marriages, not in North America or Europe, then if a couple says in the US Consulate in India we had an arranged marriage, the Consulate is ok with the arranged marriage. In many Muslim Countries there is no "dating" and if they say we met each other a few days/weeks ago and decided to get married the US Consulate won't see any problem with this either. In Ghana is not common a couple dating 3/4/5 years, like is common in the USA and many other Countries.

Load off my back hearing these two stories. I am so anxious waiting for the NOA-2 decesion.
Thank you sooo much and congrats on your happy union

We were in this situation, but it was 3 years later for us and we didn't need a waiver. I was engaged with a girl who ended up lying to me throughout our relationship, which thankfully I found out about before she went to her K1 visa interview. Cancelled it all and was done with it in 2012. In 2015 I applied for a K1 with my then-fiance (now wife) so I didn't have to fill out a waiver. As long as you fill out a waiver and answered questions 14a-14h on the I-129F and provided proof of the result that you didn't marry (in my case I got a letter from the Embassy in the ex's country saying I officially withdrew that petition and I sent a copy of that as supplement for 14h), then you will be fine.
If you did not send a waiver they could send an RFE for the waiver which would stall your process, or it could slide through as well. Either way if you didn't prepare a waiver for the application, get one ready now just in case.

I went through something similar but my ex did come to the US with the K1. I didn't complete AOS though and he is here illegally but thats not my problem. I just petitioned for my current husband and we were approved. Hardly no questions at all and he is here with me now happier than ever!
I also had a friend that had the SAME situation as yours happen to her. She did a K1 was placed on AP and they broke up. She is now happy and married to her current husband who she also petitioned for and was approved.
Needless to say you have nothing to worry about. If your current relationship is true than just focus on that because USCIS does not care about your past as long as you have been honest and communicate with them when.
Good Luck!

There is no way on this planet that you filed for a K-1 'by mistake'. First, if you intended to file for a K-3, then you would have filed the Form I-130 FIRST. If you would have gotten that process wrong by mistake, and checked the K-3 boxes without sending your I-130 NOA, your case would have been RFE'd and denied. In order to get your K-1 petition approved, you would have had to explicitly include documentation that:
You intend to marry within 90 days of your fiancé(e) entering the United States. You and your fiancé(e) are both free to marry and any previous marriages must have been legally terminated by divorce, death, or annulment. Do you mean by accident that you filed for a fiance visa because you weren't officially married? That I could see, but not being fully married and filing for a fiance visa. That requires intent.

nope, you cannot let them know it was "mistake" not sure how it could be an accident when you have to present letters of intent to marry and many other things proving you are not married.. Did they get you on a misrepresentation for lying? If so there is no overcoming material misrepresentation and there is a lifetime ban
If there is no misrep you have to start all over from the beginning with a cr1 visa

I kinda start to wonder how you can accidentally file for the wrong visa...

File for CR1, only option as I believe.

Cool thank you for the advice and info! Congrats!!!

Tell the border guard that you intend to violate the terms of the VWP and you will be put on a plane home. Preconceived intent to immigrate while entering on the VWP is illegal.

Please do explain, unless I am missing something what exactly he wrote (maybe he edited it) that says anything about sexual or domestic abuse? Not exactly sure how it would be super easy for her to claim any form of abuse. Having an argument through a text (keep in mind we don't know what was said other than she was going home) does not meet the criteria for domestic abuse. People have arguments in relationships doesn't mean he abused her. If you are referring to him saying she never "initiated sex" of course women don't want to be nagged but most people want to be touched and intimate with their spouse. At least, I have always learned that was a normal way of exchanging a certain level of intimacy. Again, does not meet the criteria for sexual abuse. Now if he did other things like touching, saying things, or trying to force her to have sex with him that is abuse and saying things to her to make her uncomfortable is sexual harassment.

Please do explain, unless I am missing something what exactly he wrote (maybe he edited it) that says anything about sexual or domestic abuse? Not exactly sure how it would be super easy for her to claim any form of abuse. Having an argument through a text (keep in mind we don't know what was said other than she was going home) does not meet the criteria for domestic abuse. People have arguments in relationships doesn't mean he abused her. If you are referring to him saying she never "initiated sex" of course women don't want to be nagged but most people want to be touched and intimate with their spouse. At least, I have always learned that was a normal way of exchanging a certain level of intimacy. Again, does not meet the criteria for sexual abuse. Now if he did other things like touching, saying things, or trying to force her to have sex with him that is abuse and saying things to her to make her uncomfortable is sexual harassment.

Please do explain, unless I am missing something what exactly he wrote (maybe he edited it) that says anything about sexual or domestic abuse? Not exactly sure how it would be super easy for her to claim any form of abuse. Having an argument through a text (keep in mind we don't know what was said other than she was going home) does not meet the criteria for domestic abuse. People have arguments in relationships doesn't mean he abused her. If you are referring to him saying she never "initiated sex" of course women don't want to be nagged but most people want to be touched and intimate with their spouse. At least, I have always learned that was a normal way of exchanging a certain level of intimacy. Again, does not meet the criteria for sexual abuse. Now if he did other things like touching, saying things, or trying to force her to have sex with him that is abuse and saying things to her to make her uncomfortable is sexual harassment.

Let's not be so quick to judge OP.
I am so sorry that happened to you.
Anything she can do, she will find out on her own and with the help and support of that family.
What you need to do is go to the police, file a report and go to a lawyer and divorce.
Seek support of family and friends to help you move on. I wish you luck.

Divorce and move on. Return GC to sender with ' person does not live here' and let her figure out how to retrieve it.
It is surprising how many threads pop up with relationship problems after 1-2 weeks.
Get to really know someone other than short chats here and here and if it quacks like a duck it is and always will be a duck.

i would report her missing to the local police in case she has issues at another residence just to protect myself

There's nothing wrong with asking questions. I mean from my understanding this is what these forums are here for. I get anxious myself at times, that's part of the process. Not being with your loved one, and knowing things are going faster for others around me, i'm sure that's difficult. Good luck, i'm sure you'll hear something soon.

Oh wow...don't ever feel low from posts on here. Everyone on here or almost everyone has gone or is going through the same process. This is a world wide interaction site you will get people that like to (Mod edit for language: not be nice)- if it don't apply let it fly. This is a great place to get helpful info and advice to play around with in your thoughts but no one here knows what the CO or embassy, USCIS, or NVC will say. Every single case is different and every person reading the case views things different. Congrats to you and good luck. I hope for you that he has the visa in 3 months. Don't let Debbie downers get to you.