Maya&Matt

Hmmmm, definitely sounds like a red flag to me also. Hanging out with an attractive, new co-worker texting each other all night talking about music and religion. I'll give him credit for being open and honest with you, but zero for respect. It's one thing to have a social life with coworkers, but another to spend other "fun" activities with each other...alone. Should've thought about this before even getting married and the difficulties of the significant times apart. It is hard, I know.
I know sometimes talking on Skype can be boring and sometimes you run out of stuff to talk about, but one of the things I found out is to really incorporate your life and his life like as if you guys are actually together, but digitally. Use technology to its fullest...skype/msg each other wherever you go. Go on skype dates, celebrate different things - birthdays, monthly anniversaries, shopping, eating, heck, wrap your cellphone in a plastic bag and take him in the shower with you...just be creative!
Like some said here, try the best you can to keep the relationship alive and talk to each other. It would be such a waste to end it, with so much time and effort to be together. Gonna have to dig deep and figure out what both of you really want before throwing in the towel. Oh, and by the way, most relationships start out as platonic and feelings for each do grow deeper whether you want it or not. If you can get him to realize that he's totally disrespecting you for hanging out with his "attractive" coworker, then I would advise him to stop it and put more focus on this marriage. Just my two cents.

Many times platonic frendships evolve into a romantic relationship. Feels like more is going on. For me it is a big red flag as he is hanging out with another woman. He is too negative and is probably looking for an excuse to separate. Trust your gut instict. I had couple friends in similiar situation and did not end well. I really hope things turn out for the best, but just wanted to tell you trust your insticts. Good Luck.

This is the deal breaker, for me.
Whatever you decide on, good luck.

Good grief I disagree completely. His needs are not being met because his wife is stuck in another country and he's tired of waiting so he opens up emotionally to some other woman? I think he's realised there are woman on his doorstep right in front of him that he doesn't have to wait for and he wants out of the relationship so he can go play.
CanGirl you don't want to be married to a man who doesn't think you're the highest, most important priority in his life. Don't let him treat you like this and make you think all this is your fault.

I have no advice....but try...the worse they can say is no. I'm so very very sorry for the loss of your fiance's child She must be distraught and you must be out of your mind with worry for her.

Best bet sounds like to head back home, hopefully there will be no issue in taking your child.

You still came to the USA? Sorry, but, this story has a LOT of inconsistencies.
2.8 years of marriage - You already have 10 years GC. So, divorce the guy, go wherever you want to go and try not to make the same mistake again.
You need to see a marriage counselor.
And given the story you told, I'd say try to find a separate residence and file for a divorce.
GC is yours. If you don't receive it in a few days, check w/ USCIS.
In a month, if GC is still AWOL, call the police and file a lost GC complaint. Take the loss report and mail to USCIS. Again, you will probably need a different secure address to receive the GC.
That said, I do not buy your story at all. Seems to me someone just wanted to be in the promised land at any cost. Sorry to be blunt.

I have to completely agree with the person above me. You definitely knew what his intentions were when you met him and before you married him. You should have also known better when there was no affection toward you after the marriage. I would definitely report it to uscis, explain the situation, but I will say you definitely should have known. No matter what, they will investigate him because marriage shams are a big deal. I have never heard of anyone getting into trouble that was a citizen for a sham marriage, but it would look badly on you in the future if you do remarry another immigrant and want to be their petitioner. I would contact the office asap and let them know what's going on before he gets his 10 yr card.

This guy practically told you from day 1 that he only needed your help to get a green card. I mean his intention was very clear. There is no way in your narrative that he proclaimed any affection towards you. So, he must assumed that you understood what you signed up for when you filled his petition. This is nothing more that buyers remorse. USCIS takes 5-8months to approve petitions just to give all parties amble opportunity to reconsider or withdraw their petition. I suggest that petitioners use this period to reevaluate their relationships without sentiments knowing fully well that human beings only improve they do not change...i wish you well.

I suggest you call USCIS right now, but you can only make that decision. If you are going to keep giving him a free ride then I'm sorry. I'm happy your in school. Finally, you hid from your family but reporting it and speaking up you will have enough people on your side federal wise.

Yes. My advice is to quit thinking about Fraud.
End of discussion.

I would be more concerned dear that he did not disclose to you that he was previously married dear. You can hold off on processing anything further at this time. I highly suggest investigating things on your own before going any further. Just a word of advice. I'm sorry to hear this once again.

I don't have a real solution for you, but I want to let you know that I feel for you.
I think it is kinda sad that so many people are telling you to just be patient, your time will come, etc...
I know that if they had their petition lost between USCIS approval and NVC they would be nervous as well. It does not
take almost 3 months for it to get there. I know it didn't mine, and if you look at the timelines it doesn't take anyone else
that long either.
The only little advice I can give is to contact representives or maybe look into an attorney.
But....don't just wait and be patient like other people are saying. I know they wouldn't in your shoes.

I find it disheartening how many people show no compassion to others who were born into less than desirable circumstances. Every normal parent wants the best opportunities for their child, this is natural. How far would YOU go to get your child a better life if you lived in a country where their very survival was at risk? How many of you move to get into good school catchment areas and away from bad neighborhoods the second you can afford to do so?

Considering an accident of birth made you a citizen of a first world country, don't be so arrogant.

And I will ask, are YOU a lawyer? No lawyer can get her a green card, end of story. Under the terms of the aunt;s K1 visa her only option is to marry the man who petitioned for her or return home. Period. End of story. If she gets a lawyer what is a lawyer going to do? There is nothing to fight. She eithers marries her fiance or returns home.

If it was me I would go home.
She has been here a few months, it's more like a long vacation.
There is no solution. The K-1 is designed specifically to prevent someone who doesn't marry to not be able to stay here. Because there is no reason to stay. A lot of people have friends and family in the US, but they don't live here.
It is hard to break up, but the K-1 is not a ticket the US. Things will go back to the way they were, with her living abroad.
I am helping them by making them realize in plain language that there is no way for her to stay here legally.

I suppose you're right. It's still weird to me that people intentionally put themselves in the position of this process and actively seek people in other countries.
I found someone in another country, but that was pure chance and good fortune.

Well that's just bizarre then. It's hard enough to meet one right person in another country let alone 3.

The fairness of it is irrelevant. This is clear black and white.
Seems you're more interested in a visa to the US than a relationship, being 3 times around. Maybe the other two realized that before they got suckered.

Immigration is separate from a relationship.
If you two lived in the same town, people would raise an eye if you had only spent a week together in person and otherwise talked on the phone, and decided to get married. Obviously being a long distance relationship makes some sacrifices needed, but 10 days is not a lot no matter how you slice it.
People aren't going to understand the immigration part.
Best of luck to you.

Because the husband is in the military he deserves more leeway? No sale. Take half of what's been told as the actual truth and the husband is not acting like a decent person.

I'm confused... and I hope this doesn't sound rude... but you requested an Expedite for K-1 Visa because her sister who cared for her as a Mother all her life is in the last stages of dying from terminally ill cancer.... so your Fiance needs to leave her to come the usa quicker?
Or is this a family expedite for the sister and your now Wife is already here? And wanting to bring her sister to die in the USA?
Also in your attachment you might want to crop that image to actually protect your Sisters name and address as well as other personally identifiable data. The internet ain't what it's framers intended.... well maybe it is... and then some.. either way; you should remove that data. IMO

What exactly is "her illegal immigrant"? Does she own an illegal immigrant?

You think that he helping with his twins, while she is working and he is doing nothing is" behaving like a wife"??? Really??? I thought we were in 2014!! He needs to either work at home or work out of the home!! But he needs to work!!!