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Dear VJ Members!
It has come to my attention that you've pretty much told and discussed with each other what a horrible person I am because of what i typed in this forum, So, so I really feel like I should apologize to you all cause I KNOW i owe you all a sincere apology for what has been said and done.
Well, SO, would you please allow me to apologize for what i said and wrote on that day, I can't deny that my behavior was extremely inappropriate, immature, and lacked the respect VJ Members deserved. It was a disruption really, It was not my intention to create such an awkward and embarrassing situation, It was embarrassing, I can’t say what made me do something so silly. Perhaps I just have a very flawed sense of humor or my terrible read of situations. Whatever the cause for my bad behavior, it was inexcusable.. I'm normally not like this. While I,m not excusing myself from my unprofessional actions, I believe I acted the way I did because of my fatigue, bad day and thoughts that consumed me after getting the 221 g. however I learned that nobody appreciated my poor behavior, Only SOME VJ Members did, the ones who still believe i'm not a scammer nor a bad person etc..
Anyways, In the future, I have every intention of curbing my thoughtless actions and learn to adjust my behavior befitting the environment and situation and If there was any good that came out of this unfortunate experience, it is that I have grown and learned alternative approaches to these situations.
Again, I'm sorry for my actions and I hope that we can put this matter behind us. As i hope we can continue to maintain this friendship. I look forward to keep in touch with you cause you became a bit part of my life and you will be a part of my life in coming years, Of course if none of you mind, If you don't feel that you wish to forgive me, or you don't wish to have any contact with me, I understand. However, please know that I am deeply sorry for what I have said to you all and would like to do whatever I can to repair this kind of friendship.
Hopefully, this will be one of things we look back to and laugh. Until then, I’m willing to do everything I can to make it up to you! So, If you would like to continue this conversation or if you have any thoughts in this, please feel free to share, Thank you.
Zyzz.

He tried marijuana once as a teen and now the urine test is positive? Uhm, I'm no doctor, but it seems like he has a lot of liquid retention...

That was utterly predictable given his manipulative past. Blame you.
Of course.
Withdraw the application and affadavit of support forthwith. Thank God you finally came to your senses. You can file for divorce too, but I would act on the visa and affadavit immediately.

Well...
I've deleted my FB and have been "deactivated" for more than 1 year now. I couldn't be happier! I had that addictive need to attend to FB'ing. Then it hit me, why is the owner a BILLIONAIRE. IF he wanted us to be on FB, we SHOULD be paid to be FBooking, JUST as a journalist is paid to post news. Make NO darn sense!
I do miss the old days of "sharing/chatting/chewing the fat".
It's a matter of perception.
Three people at my workforce have been fired for posting photos that MY boss deemed inappropriate even it was during their off hours.
I am NOT going to lose my job over FB. There are parts of MY life I don't want to air out my laundry or for the world to see.
It's not easy to part from FB, but there's a whole 'nutter world out there to be explored.
E

Get married in Canada, have your wife return the the US and file a cr-1 visa while you stay in Canada until the visa is issued.

I'm sorry but a spousal visa is your only option. They have accused him of immigrant intent. he is unlikely to ever be permitted to get another visitor visa.

Be very careful about such work environments...
Being a bartender does not pay enough and often you'll need 2 or 3 more jobs to break even.
I don't know enough the background about this woman in Montana, so I apologize if I put my foot in my mouth or step TOES on anyone. This is free advice AND you don't have to take it. However, be very careful about such work opportunities like that. It could be a disguise as Modern-Day Slave trade or Modern-Day Slave Labor. If it sounds too good or too easy to be true, then it is. Life in USA is NOT always glamorous. We are absolutely "OVER-privileged" here that we forget simpler things in life.
I went to Algeria and FELL in love with Algeria. I love their simplicity, the lack of novelties, and "NO Joneses to catch up to."
I wish you good luck. Allah will guide you.
Sincerely, E

I know this is a huge can of worms to open, but I can't avoid it.
You mention that you want to bring her here. Has anyone asked her what SHE wants? Your post is full of me, me, my family, me.
Quite apart from any legal considerations of age, etc ... the K-1 visa requires declarations of intent from BOTH parties. She will be the one interviewed at the consulate (assuming you even get that far). Maybe she does want to marry you ... but maybe she would like to finish school, or even go to college, or make her own choices in the world. Have you asked her?

not sure about it man but I always wanted to marry a 16yr old girl sadly it never happened
Is her age an issue in syria for marriage? I am thinking its not. Then you should get married and file I130 petition. That is high fraud place and 16 yr old girl who is distant relative doesnt stand a great chance getting fiance visa anyways.

Man proposes, God disposes.
We got married on the day we NEVER planned or never entered in our thoughts, never had any reservations or made any deposits.
Now, we are married for 2 years!
Hey... the visa process is VERY unpredictable. Anything can happen to you or your fiance in between.
Suggestion:
Make reservations and deposits that YOU can change without additional fees.
Hope that works for you.
E

There is no reason to feel like dirt.
Do you have a lawyer? Why have you paid $2500?
The fact is that you were not prepared, and didn't read the instructions. Thats not to make you feel bad, but all of these problems could have been avoided in the first place.
Some people here are telling you that you can file taxes and send the receipts of filing now to avoid having your case denied.
Vanessa& Tony, intent by itself does not lead to denial, even if it is known. You are wrong on that fact, you say it is presumption of intent, but knowledge of it is the same. Say a person doesn't know and is asked if they intended to do this, and they say yes, their case will not be denied. I don't want to argue with you about this, and especially not here, but the OP is only in danger of denial due to improperly responding to a RFE.
Worst case scenario, your case is denied without prejudice and you can refile. In fact, the I-130 should not be denied, it would be only the I-485 you'd have to pay again.
You need to get a tax professional to file the taxes ASAP, send proof of filing, and hope for the best.

IF I was the female CO and some arab was oogling at my chest... "DENIED" would be stamped in RED on file.
I will NOT tolerate someone's fiance looking at my breast while I try to gauge the authenticity of this relationship. Professional female CO's and holding professional jobs DESERVE utmost respect from men of all walks of life.
Respect:

Not oogling at women's breast Calling her by her chosen/given name seeing it from her perspective discussing and supporting her input, not downplaying it Acknowledge that she is a HUMAN not a sex object. admire her brains, not her breast.
You are a poor example of your countrymen. It's a shame that more Moroccan men will be affected by your disgrace.
It's time for you to grow up, man up, and move on to someone who can put up with you.

~E

IF I was the female CO and some arab was oogling at my chest... "DENIED" would be stamped in RED on file.
I will NOT tolerate someone's fiance looking at my breast while I try to gauge the authenticity of this relationship. Professional female CO's and holding professional jobs DESERVE utmost respect from men of all walks of life.
Respect:

Not oogling at women's breast Calling her by her chosen/given name seeing it from her perspective discussing and supporting her input, not downplaying it Acknowledge that she is a HUMAN not a sex object. admire her brains, not her breast.
You are a poor example of your countrymen. It's a shame that more Moroccan men will be affected by your disgrace.
It's time for you to grow up, man up, and move on to someone who can put up with you.

~E

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Zagray,
My sincerest apologies that your application has been refused, however.
A while back, do you remember stating that you were oogling at the agent's breast during YOUR interview? Even momentarily you said.
................................PAUSE.............................................
There you go.
Payback or at least Karma is a PITCH.
Let this be a lesson to other beneficiaries when they come for their interview.

Um?
I did provide you support and information. The Capt. Kirk thing was a joke not an insult of your grammar, it's how I read your post.
Also, I do happen to be a very nice person. I took time out of my day to answer your post and provide you with helpful information.
So, again, good luck on your journey and hope all goes well with your fiancee's HBV treatment

Youseff,
If you really love her, then just love her like a MUSLIM.
If she is going to church, then ALHUMDILLILAH! She is GOING to church and she is not partying, drinking, doing drugs, etc.
She sounds like a GOOD woman. What is REALLY your problem?
Have you tried to look in the internet - www.jesusinthequran.org?
It's a wonderful resource tool.
You will always be a muslim and yet you can follow Jesus' principles and teachings.
For Jesus was born sinless according to the quran.
Jesus was the only prophet, Messiah that is made of flesh by the holy spirit,.... ACCORDING to YOUR Quran!
Go home and love your wife. Be patient.
Allah will reward you - Jazak-Alllah Khairn!