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    Xanax reacted to AWAY in Put life on hold?   
    No one is calling anyone racist, Obama is not to blame for how slow Vermont is moving he dosen't work there does he?
    You are obviously one of those people who think that Obama was suppose to just come into office and fix everything that was already broken before he got there so your so called observations are of no value. Point is if OP isn't willing to have patience in the process it takes for he and his wife to be in the US together then he shouldn't bother going any further with it. If you want Bush to be president again why don't you go re-elect him? you are speaking about money value why don't you speak of all the Americans that bush sent to war? all the innocent lives lost? people with sons and daughters? atleast Obama fought to bring home those remaining soldiers to thier families. The man is not a superhero he can't fix everything overnight so stop dreaming. It takes time to rebuild things that have been broken!
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    Xanax reacted to AWAY in Put life on hold?   
    Wow you all need to stop blaming President Obama for everything, he has fixed more in this country than bush ever could have done so stop riding the man! i wonder why it is that u don't like him? because he is not a fake like romney? anyways if u don't like the President maybe you really do need to move back to wherever you are from and stop pointing fingers.
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    Xanax reacted to elmcitymaven in Put life on hold?   
    You're from the UK. You entered into a bona fide marriage, right?
    You'll be approved. Get on with your life.You have the I-797 extending the GC for a year. You can travel and work and EVERYTHING you could do before you started ROC. Sometimes ROC is fast and sometimes so slow people apply for citizenship before it's approved. Blame Obama if you like but frankly you look a little silly doing so.
    If you really want to move back to the UK, be mindful that the rules for immigrant spouses have changed recently. Lots of info here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/372449-before-you-permanently-move-to-the-us/
    Good luck, and be patient.
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    Xanax reacted to JUNE LAGUERRE in Put life on hold?   
    What does Obama have to do with this he does not work for USCIS!!!Now if you so by chance get approve what are you gonna say to Obama government..Wow everyone has to wait so don't point fingers.
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    Xanax got a reaction from C-ma'am in journey is over...he left me   
    Firstly, I am so sorry for the loss of your unborn baby.
    Secondly, you sound like you will be much better off without this man and I really hope you can in time move on and be happy.
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    Xanax got a reaction from Knope2012 in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    That is kind of naive, sorry No black person, ever has been racist towards an Indian or a Muslim?
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    Xanax got a reaction from Nica_In_Love in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    I don't think it's sad. I think it shows where ever Lillian came from was very progressive and that's great!
    Further more, I really do agree with Vanessa , at least 80%. I have read almost all of your topics and it seems there are huge disparities in your believes, ideologies and your basic wants and needs from a marriage. You said your husband doesn't even want to be in the US
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    Xanax got a reaction from del-2-5-2014 in K1 Visa with a substantial age difference   
    It is a bit different for you though as you are from the UK not a MENA country.
    MENA country applications are more heavily scrutinized.
    Similarly, most are not eligible for the VWP to make frequent visits which adds validity to the relationship. You lived together thus making the relationship evidence even stronger, you can also travel to the US for up to 3 months without a visa.
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    Xanax got a reaction from del-2-5-2014 in so called obama   
    Sorry, your fiancee gave up on your because it is going to take a little longer? Is that right?
    I feel so sorry for you , but for 1) VSC was slow before deferred action was introduced! and 2) Possibly this is a good thing that you found out now just how dedicated your fiancee is to you and your life together?
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    Xanax got a reaction from kytwell in US Medical Insurance/Pregnancy   
    I am pregnant. I am going back to Australia for the birth. It worked out cheaper even than using my husband's insurance OR paying out-of-pocket and getting a discount for self pay- our self pay OB visits just for the 9 months of pregnancy were $5000 or so + extra for some labs and special ultrasounds. Also as we may stay in Aus for a while we may be applicable for the baby bonus so, free birth/ in hospital care , $5000 which will cover our airfares. It worked out cheaper to go to Aus.
    Have a look here, this may also be helpful: http://finder.healthcare.gov/
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    Xanax got a reaction from Ivie & Eguagie in Woman with K1 visa wants to divorce and marry me   
    I really hope things work out for you.
    What did she say when you told her she had to go home and you would refile?
    People here are not trying to insult you or her , but here we see stories daily that mimic parts of yours and generally someone gets hurt and it sounds like if this went south, that would be you
    If this woman really loves you, great, but, in knowing her for only 6 months and only knowing her while she was married , how can you know her intentions were/ are pure? For myself, I would not talk to another man in an intimate way if I was married, even if I was unhappy. I believe it is not right. I also would not want to jump straight into another marriage if my first was failing, even if I had to leave the US. Marriage is meant to be forever. You are not supposed to be thinking, well I have a 50/50 chance... At least at the start, right? You are supposed to think, I am the 50% who will make it, without a doubt!
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    Xanax got a reaction from milimelo in Woman with K1 visa wants to divorce and marry me   
    I really hope things work out for you.
    What did she say when you told her she had to go home and you would refile?
    People here are not trying to insult you or her , but here we see stories daily that mimic parts of yours and generally someone gets hurt and it sounds like if this went south, that would be you
    If this woman really loves you, great, but, in knowing her for only 6 months and only knowing her while she was married , how can you know her intentions were/ are pure? For myself, I would not talk to another man in an intimate way if I was married, even if I was unhappy. I believe it is not right. I also would not want to jump straight into another marriage if my first was failing, even if I had to leave the US. Marriage is meant to be forever. You are not supposed to be thinking, well I have a 50/50 chance... At least at the start, right? You are supposed to think, I am the 50% who will make it, without a doubt!
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    Xanax got a reaction from LemonShortbread in My story. Advice needed.   
    It still says when you called and hung up even if you don't message!
    IE/ My skype:
    [9/4/2012 10:55:51 PM] *** Call to Mum home, no answer. ***
    [9/4/2012 10:56:19 PM] *** Call to Mum home, duration 00:32. ***
    [3:28:08 AM] *** Call to Mum home, duration 51:57. ***
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    Xanax got a reaction from LemonShortbread in My story. Advice needed.   
    You can get your skype logs; show messages from : yesterday, last 7 days ... pick which one and then crtl C +ctrl V.
    Chat logs are secondary evidences, some people send hundreds of pages, some send a few pages through out the time of their relationship, realistically that latter is the best option - the IO is NOT going to read 200 pages of chat. Just print a few, maybe one from every month you have been together or a few from the start of your relationship, a few from now and a few from the middle. These items aren't the most important in regards to the petition.
    Edit: Of course, all of this would need re-evaluating in ~ 3 years time.
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    Xanax got a reaction from mawilson in Democrats hate Jews, God   
    Lol.
    Lol.
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    Xanax got a reaction from JohnR! in Democrats hate Jews, God   
    Lol.
    Lol.
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    Xanax reacted to Mr. Big Dog in Democrats hate Jews, God   
    No facts in the RWN rant threads, please. They don't do facts. It's not only against their believes, facts are also destructive to their argument.
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    Xanax got a reaction from LemonShortbread in My story. Advice needed.   
    I don't think you get it back (could be wrong). Send copies not originals.
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    Xanax got a reaction from LemonShortbread in My story. Advice needed.   
    It seems you should be looking at this in about 3 years time.
    Both the K-1 and CR-1 visa take 6-12 months to be completed and it is then assumed you will live in the US.
    If you plan to stay in the UK and your fiancee plans to stay in the US then continue to visit and revisit these options when you plan to live together.
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    Xanax got a reaction from Nica_In_Love in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    That is kind of naive, sorry No black person, ever has been racist towards an Indian or a Muslim?
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    Xanax got a reaction from Krikit in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    That is kind of naive, sorry No black person, ever has been racist towards an Indian or a Muslim?
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    Xanax got a reaction from VanessaTony in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    I don't think it's sad. I think it shows where ever Lillian came from was very progressive and that's great!
    Further more, I really do agree with Vanessa , at least 80%. I have read almost all of your topics and it seems there are huge disparities in your believes, ideologies and your basic wants and needs from a marriage. You said your husband doesn't even want to be in the US
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    Xanax got a reaction from VanessaTony in does racism go away after moving to the US?   
    That is kind of naive, sorry No black person, ever has been racist towards an Indian or a Muslim?
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    Xanax got a reaction from C-ma'am in Lies and deception. Be aware, please!   
    If you are trying to warn people, help them understand what to look for, what the signs were etc (like the above poster said).
    I know you mean this as a warning and I am so sorry this happened to you but you haven't given any information, just a scary story.
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    Xanax got a reaction from Mithmeoi in Immigrant illegal mother....American child   
    I agree with this. I am sorry. I really think the best thing is to return to Italy where the child will have citizenship and the mother can work.
    I do not know of any path to citizenship or permanent residency that are available to your friend.
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