Olomi_811

Ummm...I read your post 2x and the responses. This person didn't force you online in Dec. 2009. She didn't pay for the flights in March or Nov. 2010. You were not held at gunpoint to proceed with a wedding. She didn't file CR1 by herself. You had to fill out a majority of the paperwork to get through NVC including entering your routing and bank acct numbers. Now you write asking if it's bonafide and making it look like you are helpless? If you didn't want to do any of this all you had to say was NO. None of us were online when you started this relationship, we didn't go on the trips, never spent time with you or her, & and don't know what promises you made or didn't make.

Ummm...I read your post 2x and the responses. This person didn't force you online in Dec. 2009. She didn't pay for the flights in March or Nov. 2010. You were not held at gunpoint to proceed with a wedding. She didn't file CR1 by herself. You had to fill out a majority of the paperwork to get through NVC including entering your routing and bank acct numbers. Now you write asking if it's bonafide and making it look like you are helpless? If you didn't want to do any of this all you had to say was NO. None of us were online when you started this relationship, we didn't go on the trips, never spent time with you or her, & and don't know what promises you made or didn't make.

Ummm...I read your post 2x and the responses. This person didn't force you online in Dec. 2009. She didn't pay for the flights in March or Nov. 2010. You were not held at gunpoint to proceed with a wedding. She didn't file CR1 by herself. You had to fill out a majority of the paperwork to get through NVC including entering your routing and bank acct numbers. Now you write asking if it's bonafide and making it look like you are helpless? If you didn't want to do any of this all you had to say was NO. None of us were online when you started this relationship, we didn't go on the trips, never spent time with you or her, & and don't know what promises you made or didn't make.

Ummm...I read your post 2x and the responses. This person didn't force you online in Dec. 2009. She didn't pay for the flights in March or Nov. 2010. You were not held at gunpoint to proceed with a wedding. She didn't file CR1 by herself. You had to fill out a majority of the paperwork to get through NVC including entering your routing and bank acct numbers. Now you write asking if it's bonafide and making it look like you are helpless? If you didn't want to do any of this all you had to say was NO. None of us were online when you started this relationship, we didn't go on the trips, never spent time with you or her, & and don't know what promises you made or didn't make.

Ummm...I read your post 2x and the responses. This person didn't force you online in Dec. 2009. She didn't pay for the flights in March or Nov. 2010. You were not held at gunpoint to proceed with a wedding. She didn't file CR1 by herself. You had to fill out a majority of the paperwork to get through NVC including entering your routing and bank acct numbers. Now you write asking if it's bonafide and making it look like you are helpless? If you didn't want to do any of this all you had to say was NO. None of us were online when you started this relationship, we didn't go on the trips, never spent time with you or her, & and don't know what promises you made or didn't make.

Because this is not about the love of any woman; it is about the love of what is believed is in AMERICA. I like to say the quality of life may be different, but the quantity you pay is the same.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718
Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.
The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718
Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.
The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718
Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.
The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

I don't know if the OP is actually still reading the responses here or not . The last thread he is shown to have been reading here is one with the charming title:
Required Documents at Visa Interview - CR-1 Visa.
Seems to me the plan is to soldier on regardless. To lie at the interview, and attempt to get what he wants regardless of whether it is legal, or even possible, or not.
I take a little comfort really, in the knowledge that he is going to be interviewed at a very tough embassy in a known high fraud country. With even a modest amount of luck on behalf of those of you making a genuine effort to successfully obtain a Visa out of this place, it is my profound wish that they catch him outright lying to them. I hope they toss his behind into infinite AP. I hope he gets denied, and revoked.
It wasn't a week before. He was posting and asking similar question in early February.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718
Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.
The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718
Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.
The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

If I knew who he was, I'd report him myself, si man.

Possibly the worst bit of advice I have ever read on VJ. Possibly.

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!
Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

You could have stayed illegally. Would you rather be deported after some years and you've started a family or have a chance at doing things the proper way without living in fear? It does appear that someone reported you, but you brought that on yourself and created a solid case to lose your B2 PRIVILEGE. Now you ask for help from people who aren't going to encourage misrepresentations while we are waiting months and some cases years to be with our spouses.

When you extended your stay from 2 weeks to 3 months that was a major flag that you provided misinformation. Did your ex bf telepathically sense that you were coming to the states and the day/ time to be at the airport. And of all places to "visit", you just happened to pick a city near him. Stop it!

When you extended your stay from 2 weeks to 3 months that was a major flag that you provided misinformation. Did your ex bf telepathically sense that you were coming to the states and the day/ time to be at the airport. And of all places to "visit", you just happened to pick a city near him. Stop it!

When you extended your stay from 2 weeks to 3 months that was a major flag that you provided misinformation. Did your ex bf telepathically sense that you were coming to the states and the day/ time to be at the airport. And of all places to "visit", you just happened to pick a city near him. Stop it!

When you extended your stay from 2 weeks to 3 months that was a major flag that you provided misinformation. Did your ex bf telepathically sense that you were coming to the states and the day/ time to be at the airport. And of all places to "visit", you just happened to pick a city near him. Stop it!