SunnySanDiego

The gun nuts collectively suffer from severe paranoia and are severely delusional. That is why they are against stricter background checks including mental health. They couldn't pass them tests and they know it.

Old news. This is known as VPK or voluntary pre-Kindergarten in the sunshine state. I sent my daughter. She loved it and it did a heck of a job prepping her for K. It's good stuff.
And here I thought California was a leader.

maybe if dude had some common sense, he wouldn't have been napping with a gun laying around in reach of a toddler.

the children of career petty drug dealers generally have a hard time getting out alive..poor little boy.

Most of the time you just look like a bitter ex, not someone who was taken advantage of, one of the issues really.
First I would file for divorce. You obviously don't know where she is so you will need to talk to your attorney about putting a notice in the paper. She won't tell you where she is, and I wouldn't TELL her you want her address to have her served (sure fire way NOT to get it) so just do the best you can.
Once the divorce is final she's supposed to file for ROC immediately. I would email USCIS a copy of the divorce decree, as well as a letter stating her details (much as you have/remember) and that she moved out of the marital home after receiving the GC and that you now believe she only married you for a greencard. They may or may not listen but it will go in her file.
Technically she is in breach of the conditions of her GC by being divorced. She CAN be detained but it only happens sometimes and ICE doesn't usually track those people down. Eventually she'll file ROC or she'll forget about it and go out-of-status. Once you're divorced this is not your concern.
You actually did yourself a disservice by saying "yes" to the anger management counseling because she now has in writing you saying that you'll take it, which is tantamount to you admitting you need it. She could try and use this as proof of abuse. Hopefully you've kept all her emails to you and can submit them to USCIS/ICE as proof of ... well.. her being bat-###### crazy and you trying to get her home (of course the content of the emails matter).
Basically, once you went to that AOS interview all bets were off. She has her greencard, you're on the hook for the I-864 should she use benefits... Just divorce her and try and move on. Also, I do suggest getting your daughter into some counseling to make sure she isn't scarred from what she went through (I know I'd be hurt that my dad married an evil step-mother and how in MY house I got treated like ####### and like I didn't matter... as a kid, that's how it feels).
Good luck!

You married a brat, and she is nuts. You should apologize to your child for what she went through. Your child should always come first!
As soon your wife is homeless she will try to come back again.Do not answer her emails,phone calls. File for divorce or annulment and move on.Hug your child today like there is no tomorrow.

"I'd be surprised if this was true. The website has information for the 95% of cases; you're not in that 95%. Go down to the courthouse with your ID (passport) and other documentation; it's likely they'll be able to marry you.
Unfortunately, there is not. In fact, your spouse has to submit proof of being able to support you past a certain level. If your spouse cannot do that, you'll will need someone to be willing to take financial responsibility for you.Adjusting status or getting an immigrant visa are your only options. Both have similar requirements."
You are really shooting from the hip here. Bad advice all around.
You can't take a passport to any government office (Justice of the Peace) and get married. The same requirements are true for all - You must provide proof that you can legally marry - That requires government documents which she clearly cannot give because she is here illegally.
To the OP -- If you want to marry him, then he has to be the one to provide support for you. You are in love with someone who cannot support you in the eyes of the US government. He doesn't seem to have the ability, desire or determination to provide for you. He asked you to stay and you stayed, even knowing you would be breaking the law.
You are asking for a miracle when you are dealing with laws and procedures. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but you need to consider going back to your country voluntarily and by doing so, if he truly is the man you think he is, you two can work out a plan where he gets a good job, earns enough money to come to your country and begin the process of a legal VISA process - It will be tricky, but don't think for a second that getting married while you are here illegally will allow you to stay. They will deport you on the next plane and you'll be banned. Don't take that risk -

U.S. is not an ideal place to come.they have no jobs. monopolies are everywhere.they even don't accept our education.all you get warehouse jobs. GSI,or ZAPOOS.i don't know about u but my life was very good in my country.i am now panic here can't go back.racism is here also,lots of problem. this is not a place of to come any more.

It's usually a lack of control in their lives and a lack self confidence. Some like to find a bride that they can control so they fell better about themselves.

Rounding up the CABA girls right now!
OP, you sound dreamy. Please tell us more about how often you want sexytimes, and your wife's compliance with demands for sexytimes. Also, more about going to nightclubs on Ladies' Night and Walmart frozen dinners. Plus, I need instructions on showing off a ####### (just one) for access to more $$$$$.

another woman bashing thread...

What does same sex marriage and same sex divorce in Canada have to do with this school in Massachusetts and the treatment of its transgender students?
Are those issues the same thing to you?
Yeah, what she said.

I just wanted to say, that is a funny picture

i can tell you that in my 34 years on this planet as a woman - i have been in plenty of situations where i felt creeped out and on guard by the presence of men who never justified my suspect reactions. i don't think any man knows what it is to be a woman and to be raised to always be on the lookout for possible danger. girls are taught to be proactive when it comes to sexual assault - cover up, never go alone, watch your drink etc etc. do you think about such things every time you walk across a parking lot? stop for a bite to eat late at night? travel alone? again, this guy isn't saying anything about women who are trained in high stress scenarios to objectively use a fire arm - he's talking about girls in college.

I don't see him saying anything about "needing" a gun. I do not disagree with the fact that hes saying if you feel like you're in danger when you actually might not be, there's a chance you will misuse your weapon and innocent people will die. That's a fact.
Can you show me where he says this? It has nothing to do with intelligence, and nothing to do with "real rape" as you put it.
A woman who walks around constantly terrified she will be raped shouldn't be carrying a gun. Neither should a man walking around constantly terrified of every "suspicious" teenager walking through his neighborhood.

The income requirements for a household of three is about $24'000, but it sounds like this husband is living abroad with his family, so has no income.
OP: it is a hard choice, we understand that, especially when kids are involved. The easiest would be if your husband moved back and gets a job, especially if he has a reasonable chance of getting a decent job quickly in this economy. But also remember that the co-sponsor can be any US citizen or greencard holder living in the USA, they need not be a close relative. Have your husband reach out to neighbours, old co-workers, college friends, church family...

I think it's painfully clear which party is the stupid party. Need a hint? Elephant.

Thanks for, once again, failing to answer simple questions. You're becoming a pro.

I didn't imply that it was. I must have missed the rule where we're only allowed to reply to posts directed at us.

It is arrogant to outline the flaws of the Republican party. Please don't.
What does this post have to do with Democrats?

You could always start the divorce proceeding yourself and I think in many states for low income and domestic violence victims they will wave the fees.
I did the divorce myself with my abusive ex+husband and it was fairly straight forward.
Just don't take this man back no matter what he says or does. He can blame his culture all day and night, but a good man doesn't do those things no matter how he is raised and you can not make a bad person good.

The people you speak to are never anywhere near your petition and the person that actually processes it has no idea if you ever called.
Do not expect an answer. Continuing to call is a symptom of insanity. USCIS does NOT do business by phone and you will NEVER get a definitive answer.

You can't do anything and your calling is wasting everyone's time. The process is frustratingly opaque - you don't know who has your case, or what is happening to it until it is approved. Just wait. Trust that it will be approved at some time.

The OP has come asking for specific advice about filing to adjust her status. She has shared some of the extenuating circumstances that relate to questions she has filling out the forms. Thank you to those who have taken the time to respond to Murysa's questions. For those of you who wish to challenge her veracity, please keep your comments to yourself. Visa Journey is supposed to be a forum to provide assistance and support, not to make judgmental personal attacks because you don't like the circumstances that have been presented. If there is a problem with the truth, USCIS is the appropriate one to determine this. I have read over this thread and I have no difficulty in believing the truth of Murysa's situation. Some of us would perhaps manage things differently if we were in her situation, but that's the thing, none of us are and the best assistance you can offer is to help her with her questions - or not post in this thread at all.
Any further negative, critical or judgmental comments will result in a thread ban for the poster. I am leaving this thread open as Murysa still appears to have some questions with which she needs assistance. So, either provide the requested assistance, or do not participate.

Because the husband is in the military he deserves more leeway? No sale. Take half of what's been told as the actual truth and the husband is not acting like a decent person.