Hi all,
I joined this website today, and it's been incredibly helpful - so thanks to all that have been contributing!
After doing (A LOT!) of research, my partner and I have come to the conclusion that we need to decide between filing for a K1 visa, or getting married and then CR1. My main concern is that the evidence we have for CR1 is weak - more details below. I'd appreciate any thoughts / advice!
Our personal situation:
1/We are a gay couple in our early 30s. I live in London, UK and I'm a British citizen. My partner lives in NYC, and is a US citizen. We met in November 2019 while I was in NYC visiting friends. We have no evidence of meeting, but we can prove we were both in NYC that week. We both have our own careers in London and NYC, and there are no red flags in terms of background / age / financial situations.
2/ We have been in a long distance relationship since then. Mostly video-calling (we can produce logs/screenshots) and chatting on snapchat (which unfortunately doesn't leave any records - we are now switching to whatsapp!). We are planning to take a trip together in December, which we'll make sure to document.
3/ We recently came to the conclusion that the only way for us to be together is based on a family-based visa. I have several work connections in NYC and have had discussions about moving there, but getting a work visa ended up being an insurmountable issue.
4/ Whichever path we choose, neither my partner nor I are out to our families. I am aware this could be a red flag, however we can get letters from all of our close friends supporting our bona fide relationship.
K1 visa: I believe this would be doable, however leaving my job/career and moving with no work authorization makes me very nervous. In my field, staying out of work for 6 months+ would be seen very negatively.
I could reach out to my work contacts in NYC again: how likely is it we could expedite the EAD process if I were to get a formal job offer upon my arrival?
CR1 visa: would this even be an option in our case? Realistically, our only evidence would be a trip or two together + pictures from our wedding + videocalls + letters from our closest friends.
Also, the CR1 timeline appears to be very long (up to 24 months?). Which is why we are wondering if K1 + request to expedite wouldn't be the quickest / most realistic option?
Thanks everyone for reading this long message!