I'm having a dilemma

[Amby 490]

I'm having a dilemma...I have this person that is an internet friend that tried to get a B1 visa and failed to be picked. So he is not trying for a green card but he is in the US right now working for the company "for free" but they're paying for the green card in return for him working. Do I do something about this? On one hand I feel like I should and on the other I know how ####### the waiting process is. He has had many job offers in his home country but is not taking the jobs.

[yassmine2878 1]

Hard to say. I suppose alot of it would depend on his motives for wanting to stay here and not wanting to home. But that can be true of fiance(e)s, too unfortunately.

[Amby 490]

I forgot to add that he lied at his POE and said he was visiting friends. I don't know I feel bad but at the same time I feel like I should do something. It's not fun but everyone has to wait. He's from France it's not like he is from some horrible country

Edited October 25, 2007 by Amber&Neil

[Ban Hammer 14,398]

I'm having a dilemma...I have this person that is an internet friend that tried to get a B1 visa and failed to be picked. So he is not trying for a green card but he is in the US right now working for the company "for free" but they're paying for the green card in return for him working. Do I do something about this? On one hand I feel like I should and on the other I know how ####### the waiting process is. He has had many job offers in his home country but is not taking the jobs.

i'd say this is a mermaid question.

[almaty 19]

i would do nothing..i am sure he told this in confidence

[LoriLawless 1]

I'd stay out of it, I wouldn't feel it's my "duty" or really any of my business.

[♥JP♥ 5]

Only if you want someone to piss on your parade someday. I'm a strong believer in "what goes around, comes around"

[almaty 19]

i agree

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

He's from France it's not like he is from some horrible country

[Sister Fracas 5]

Nah, I'd stay out of it. Karma baby....somewhere along the line his lies will catch up with him. It's not comforting when you are in the middle of waiting, but in the end you have the satisfaction of not having to look over your shoulder ever and wonder if you'll get caught in a lie. He may have to.

[Amby 490]

yeah you all are right...I just had a moment of madness

[♥JP♥ 5]

yeah you all are right...I just had a moment of madness

I'm sure that was it. I'd bet that if you weren't going through this process the thought wouldn't even cross your mind.

[Nessa 23]

Nah, I'd stay out of it. Karma baby....somewhere along the line his lies will catch up with him. It's not comforting when you are in the middle of waiting, but in the end you have the satisfaction of not having to look over your shoulder ever and wonder if you'll get caught in a lie. He may have to.

I totally agree.

[Ladylethal 12]

I'd steer clear off of this.

[Mononoke28 137]

Only if you want someone to piss on your parade someday. I'm a strong believer in "what goes around, comes around"