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brnidokiegurl Grand Master

brnidokiegurl   1

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my x come home to a empty house (i did leave him a bed), everything i took was mine sooooooo. :whistle: But this also did happen to someone that had lived here for awhile, he was always forgetting to sign off, so the messages popped up, i just wrote back to them and one did take the archive and send the complete conversation back to me. He was so full of it with her..but there were others also and he was soon gone. If it had been a old friend he would have already known the phone number etc and she prob doesnt know hes married, id clue her in. With him you know better than anyone what to do just stay safe...lifes to short to have to look over your shoulder

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TracyLuis Proficient

TracyLuis   0

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How is this in any way about beating up the OP over whether or not she should read this butthead's email?

She was away and the guy met up with another chick. Duh. Who's guilty here?

Personally I'd print out the offending email and leave it on the kitchen table with a good bye note.

I second that! Don't confront him if you're afraid of his temper.

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Nanusia & Lukaszek   0

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I agree with the previous posters, print out the email (if you can), leave it on the kitchen table with a note... and get outta there if you know his temper is that bad. Wait for him to calm down, or for him to call you & talk over the phone, not face to face.

Personally, I'm a bit confrontational, so I'd start up a yelling & screaming fight... or better yet, if I could calm myself down, I'd set up a myspace account and put up my picture with the name Trina and ask him to add me to his friends list with a comment of "I heard you like girls named Trina so I changed mine, is that ok?"

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broma25   2

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Whatever you choose to do, and how you handle this will be up to you. But you have to remain safe and also keep the pets (that he has already threatened safe).

I wish you luck whatever you decide to do.

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Ladylethal   12

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How is this in any way about beating up the OP over whether or not she should read this butthead's email?

She was away and the guy met up with another chick. Duh. Who's guilty here?

Personally I'd print out the offending email and leave it on the kitchen table with a good bye note.

I would do the same.

And if I saw the MSN open and suspicious e-mails I'd read them as well.

Of course hubby and I do have each other passwords for everything, not 'cus we said "hey, let's give each other passwords so we can track what the other is doing" but for convenience due to needing to use each other's e-mails in the past (like he calls me and needs me to send his resume 'cus some co-worker saw an ad that's great and it needs to be sent asap, so send through his e-mail since it's business and it's for him, or when I was computerless at my farm for a month and I told him to please check my e-mails and reply if anyone needed me or something, etc). We still use each others accounts, forums, etc.

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wong_watkins   1

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Thank you very much for asking...I just got home from work so that's why I was away for a while.

Yes I did confront him in much peaceful way as I could. Nothing crazy happened. He was already home when I got home from work...I went and gave him a hug and kiss..and here is briefly what our conversation was about:

Me: Do you love me?

Him: Of course!

Me: Am I the only woman in your world? No body else?

Him: Of course! What are you talking about?

Me: Then who was that girl named Trina you were hanging out with when I was in HK?

Him: Oh that was Jeron's girlfriend! Jeron, his girlfriend, and Ian came over to my dad's house that weekend and they all spent a night at my dad's house! You can ask my dad if you don't believe it!

Me: Why did Trina have to be there?

Him: Because that's who Jeron was with!

And now he thinks I'm being weird.

So I suppose that person that he was talking with was actually Jeron??

I'm feeling a little better now but still there's a small part of it I don't believe...

Thank you so much for you guys concerns I hope I can really sort this out as time goes on...

broma25 Proficient

broma25   2

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Perhaps you need to look into his myspace account and see if that adds up!

Unless you are prepared to accept the explanation that he gave you.

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Ladylethal   12

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I'm a suspicious person so I'd confirm his story.

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deemabrouk   0

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06.14.2006 - Got Married in Alexandria, Egypt :) :) :)

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*** Interview is a SUCCESS !!!! *** now for a speedy AP!! inshallah...

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It doesn't matter what you say

I just can't stay here every yesterday

Like keep on acting out the same

The way we act out

Every way to smile

Forget

And make-believe we never needed

Any more than this...

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one...two...tree Grand Master

one...two...tree   2,762

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Thank you very much for asking...I just got home from work so that's why I was away for a while.

Yes I did confront him in much peaceful way as I could. Nothing crazy happened. He was already home when I got home from work...I went and gave him a hug and kiss..and here is briefly what our conversation was about:

Me: Do you love me?

Him: Of course!

Me: Am I the only woman in your world? No body else?

Him: Of course! What are you talking about?

Me: Then who was that girl named Trina you were hanging out with when I was in HK?

Him: Oh that was Jeron's girlfriend! Jeron, his girlfriend, and Ian came over to my dad's house that weekend and they all spent a night at my dad's house! You can ask my dad if you don't believe it!

Me: Why did Trina have to be there?

Him: Because that's who Jeron was with!

And now he thinks I'm being weird.

So I suppose that person that he was talking with was actually Jeron??

I'm feeling a little better now but still there's a small part of it I don't believe...

Thank you so much for you guys concerns I hope I can really sort this out as time goes on...

:) That was a great way to confront him. I would accept his explanation and trust his words.

Here's something on the Signs of a Cheating Spouse

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_tell...use_is_cheating

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chri'stina   190

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The only thing weird is him asking Jeron's (supposedly a friend of his) girlfriend for her number? I wouldn't ask my friend's girlfriend for her number. :no:

I was thinking the same thing.

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

Ban Hammer   14,286

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The only thing weird is him asking Jeron's (supposedly a friend of his) girlfriend for her number? I wouldn't ask my friend's girlfriend for her number. :no:

I was thinking the same thing.

agreed - it all just seems very odd.

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