Pls somebody help

[shoe 0]

Im in the US my family is back home thousands of miles away. My mother died 6yrs ago after that my dad got with some woman who is upto no good.I have 3 siblings one of which is by the "witch". I found out she is cheating on my dad and me and my siblings have proof of it but we are contemplating telling our dad coz he is head over hills for this witch. We are definatley going to tell him but we cannot make him do anything. He is our only parent and we dont want to loose him over AIDS or any other STD. What Im I to do? Im slowly loosing my mind coz Im far away. Pls offer me some sane advise I plan to go home but its so expensive Im working on airfare. Damn life is a **bithc** :crying: :crying: :crying: Im not normally this emotional but the pain of loosing my mum was so bad I cannot imagine loosingmy dad especially coz of this lying cheating witch.

Edited May 20, 2007 by shoe

[hmm1 0]

Im in the US my family is back home thousands of miles away. My mother died 6yrs ago after that my dad got with some woman who is upto no good.I have 3 siblings one of which is by the "witch". I found out she is cheating on my dad and me and my siblings have proof of it but we are contemplating telling our dad coz he is head over hills for this witch. We are definatley going to tell him but we cannot make him do anything. He is our only parent and we dont want to loose him over AIDS or any other STD. What Im I to do? Im slowly loosing my mind coz Im far away. Pls offer me some sane advise I plan to go home but its so expensive Im working on airfare. Damn life is a **bithc** :crying: :crying: :crying: Im not normally this emotional but the pain of loosing my mum was so bad I cannot imagine loosingmy dad especially coz of this lying cheating witch.

Just make sure that it is rock solid proof...ie video of her auditioning for porn...sorry, but if your dad knows how you and your siblings feel about her, then you need it to be bullet-proof...I would tell if that were the case, but I am an honest broker...good luck with your decision...

[Ban Hammer 12,861]

Im in the US my family is back home thousands of miles away. My mother died 6yrs ago after that my dad got with some woman who is upto no good.I have 3 siblings one of which is by the "witch". I found out she is cheating on my dad and me and my siblings have proof of it but we are contemplating telling our dad coz he is head over hills for this witch. We are definatley going to tell him but we cannot make him do anything. He is our only parent and we dont want to loose him over AIDS or any other STD. What Im I to do? Im slowly loosing my mind coz Im far away. Pls offer me some sane advise I plan to go home but its so expensive Im working on airfare. Damn life is a **bithc** :crying: :crying: :crying: Im not normally this emotional but the pain of loosing my mum was so bad I cannot imagine loosingmy dad especially coz of this lying cheating witch.

Just make sure that it is rock solid proof...ie video of her auditioning for porn...sorry, but if your dad knows how you and your siblings feel about her, then you need it to be bullet-proof...I would tell if that were the case, but I am an honest broker...good luck with your decision...

i fully agree. i've run into a similar situation with my stepmother, where what happened changes to frequently portray her as the victim, not the aggressor.

[sereia 0]

i agree. he may end up angry at you instead of his wife.... have proof to make it easier... good luck!

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

[kitkat1 5]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

[shoe 0]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

I know my dad is a big boy and he can be with whoever he wants I just dont want to loose him on the withces count like I said HIV is the real deal and he is the only parent we have left.

Edited May 21, 2007 by shoe

[kitkat1 5]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

I know my dad is a big boy and he can be with whoever he wants I just dont want to loose him on the withces count like I said HIV is the real deal and he is the only parent we have left.

What on earth leads you to believe that your father is going to get HIV? Has she been diagnosed as HIV-positive? If not, it seems you might just be overreacting a bit on that part.

[Ban Hammer 12,861]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

kez, i've not seen anything that indicates he knows such is going on. ergo, how can he see what is not visible?

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Your dad is a big boy let him live his life...... if he chooses not to see her cheating on him then thats his choice.....

Kez

I know my dad is a big boy and he can be with whoever he wants I just dont want to loose him on the withces count like I said HIV is the real deal and he is the only parent we have left.

Then send him some info on safe sex and let him sort out his own life.... who he chooses to be with is up to him... it is obvious from your comments that do not approved of his choice... but just remember it is his life and you have no right to put your feelings before his....

Kez

[raymaga 25]

I agree that it is your Dad's life, and he should be allowed to be with whoever he pleases. He most likely knows about the cheating and chooses not to do anything about it. He may not want to be told about it because then he may feel that he needs to do something about it.

If you are absolutely positive he is cheating, you could tell him that you are only telling him because you care about him, and then, if he decides to stay with her, you will have to accept his decision. It will be much better for him to decide to leave her when he is ready.

[rebex05 1]

Of course it is your dad's life like so many have said, but honestly since you really do care about him I would say delicately tell him. You can present the proof and say it is being told to him because you care. I think that for myslef, were this me I would be more hurt finding out later that my family knew about it but said nothing to me. That is just me and clearly this will be your own decision. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you.

[shoe 0]

Im in the US my family is back home thousands of miles away. My mother died 6yrs ago after that my dad got with some woman who is upto no good.I have 3 siblings one of which is by the "witch". I found out she is cheating on my dad and me and my siblings have proof of it but we are contemplating telling our dad coz he is head over hills for this witch. We are definatley going to tell him but we cannot make him do anything. He is our only parent and we dont want to loose him over AIDS or any other STD. What Im I to do? Im slowly loosing my mind coz Im far away. Pls offer me some sane advise I plan to go home but its so expensive Im working on airfare. Damn life is a **bithc** :crying: :crying: :crying: Im not normally this emotional but the pain of loosing my mum was so bad I cannot imagine loosingmy dad especially coz of this lying cheating witch.

Never mind some of u dont even read to understand u just judge boy Im I glad none of this is true. hahaha my bad :wacko: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[mRx 16]

[JoeMama 0]

What was the point of starting this thread in the first place? To waste people's time for your enjoyment?