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packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: China
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~Moved from K-1 Process to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

Completed: K1/K2 (271 days) - AOS/EAD/AP (134 days) - ROC (279 days)

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

Sorry, but it sounds like she's just not that into you. I met my wife in early 2007. We weren't permanently together until early 2011.

Met in Ormoc, Leyte, Philippines: 2007-05-17
Our son was born in Borongan, Eastern Samar, Philippines: 2009-04-01
Married in Borongan, Eastern Samar, Philippines: 2009-10-24
CR-1 Visa - California Service Center; Consulate - Manila, Philippines
I-130 mailed: 2010-04-13
I-130 NOA1: 2010-04-24
I-130 NOA2: 2010-09-30
NVC received case: 2010-10-14
Case Complete: 2010-12-01
Interview scheduled: 2010-12-06
Medical, St. Luke's, Manila: 2010-12-09 and 2010-12-10
Interview at US Embassy in Manila 8:30 AM: 2011-01-05 - Approved!
Visa delivered: 2011-01-08
CFO Seminar completed: 2011-01-10
My beloved wife Sol and my beautiful son Nathan arrive in the U.S. (POE San Francisco): 2011-01-26
Lifting Conditions - Vermont Service Center
Date mailed: 2012-11-01
Receipt date: 2012-11-05
NOA received: 2012-11-09
Biometrics letter received: 2012-11-16
Biometrics appointment date: 2012-12-10
Biometrics walk-in successful: 2012-11-20
Removal of Conditions approved date: 2013-04-27
10 year green card mailed: 2013-05-03
10 year green card received: 2013-05-06
Citizenship
N400 mailed: 2013-10-28
N400 delivered: 2013-10-31
NOA1: 2013-11-04
Biometrics: 2013-11-18
In Line: 2013-12-26
Interview scheduled: 2013-12-30
Interview: 2014-02-03

Oath ceremony queue: 2014-02-07

Oath ceremony: 2014-03-28 Sol is a U.S. citizen

Applied for expedited passport: 2014-04-01

Passport received, Priority Express: 2014-04-09 This is journey's end at last!

Naturalization certificate returned, Priority Mail: 2014-04-12

Passport card received, First Class: 2014-04-14

1457 days, I-130 mailed to passport in hand

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Wow, Im so Sorry u have to go through this. But be great full she broke it off now rather than going through the entire process and then she decides she aint with it. Honestly long distance relationships are really hard and if she really loved you she would stick by you no matter how long it took. Stay strong smile.png God bless


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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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Somewhat the same happened to me, albeit earlier in the process. If you want to save the relationship and believe that it's worth saving, beat it down there now, sparing no expense, to spend time with her. Rebuild things. In fact, reserve the air tickets (before purchasing them), call her, and tell her that you're on your way and here are the dates.

You said it yourself: It's very hard to be separated from the one you love. She might be feeling the same thing, which has led to her pullback.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Im not a relationship therapist but if she isn't worried about it and its so easy for her to give up then let it be. No need to waste more of u r money on the relationship by going down there. U did ur part just sad she couldn't do hers. Sorry aboyt the outcome.

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does she know that the interview can be within 3 to 4 months??? I mean it will fly by. I know it's hard a heck because we are all on the same boat and know how difficult this is. I've personally had bumps due to the distance and always smooth things out. If you honestly think she is in love with you and you're in love too, try to work it out. Don't allow anything to break the relationship!

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packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

how long have you been waiting??? if she cannot wait some months then where is the love. I have not seen my fiance in a year and 3 months and we have a child that is 10 months and he has not seen. So if the love is strong then you pull thru it. if not then it's not worth it... think about it....

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Now that the case is at the consulate, she is just scared. There are a lot of unknowns. Definitely have a heart to heart. This process is not easy. You still have a long road ahead of you

 

8/22/15 Received notice of interview "call in letter" for September 1st 8am

9/01/15 AOS Interview Houston-APPROVED!

9/01/15 Card in production, Welcome notice has been mailed

9/05/15 Welcome Notice Received

9/08/15 Greencard was mailed

9/10/15 GREENCARD RECEIVED!!!!!!!!

 

ROC

6/2/17 mailed I-751 to csc priority mail

7/1/17 I-751 returned rejected (multiple items)

7/3/17 I-751 mailed again with signature confirmation

7/6/17 second I-751 delivered and signed for by Daniel Manchaca

7/10/17  Check Cashed

7/10/17  NOA

7/22/17  Biometrics letter for 8/2/17

8/02/17 Biometrics appointment DONE

3/05/18 case moved to local office

8/25/18 Extension letter (18 months)

9/29/18 service request submitted

10/06/18 response to service request

10/11/18  approved. No RFE, no interview

10/16/18  approval letter received in the mail

10/19/18 greencard received

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Since you both are sharing this account, have you seen your fiance previous post before? Darnell showed you the link and there were a lot advises that you could take for your sake. I don't understand how people are now easily gave up for such small things like this.

I met my fiance back in 2008, met in person 2011, and imagine some other people on VJ have had endured long distance courtship much longer than what I'm having now. It is up to you for making decision and wish all the best for your future life.

Know your enemy and know yourself and you can fight a hundred battles without disaster.Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat

- Sun Tzu-

It doesn't matter how slow you go as long as you don't stop

-Confucius-

 

-I am the beneficiary and my post is not reflecting my petitioner's point of views-

 

                                       Lifting Condition (I-751)

 

*Mailed I-751 package (06/21/2017) to CSC

*NOA-1 date (06/23/2017)

*NOA-1 received (06/28/2017)

*Check cashed (06/27/2017)

*Biometric Received (07/10/2017)

*Biometric Appointment (07/20/2017)

 

 

 

 

 

 

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now I remember these post are from the same person...

Or is there any chance both of them are sharing this account? Previous post seems "a girl" and this post apparently is "a guy" or petitioner unless they are trying to "play game" on VJ.

Know your enemy and know yourself and you can fight a hundred battles without disaster.Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat

- Sun Tzu-

It doesn't matter how slow you go as long as you don't stop

-Confucius-

 

-I am the beneficiary and my post is not reflecting my petitioner's point of views-

 

                                       Lifting Condition (I-751)

 

*Mailed I-751 package (06/21/2017) to CSC

*NOA-1 date (06/23/2017)

*NOA-1 received (06/28/2017)

*Check cashed (06/27/2017)

*Biometric Received (07/10/2017)

*Biometric Appointment (07/20/2017)

 

 

 

 

 

 

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packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

Heyy look,tell your fraud girl to stop wasting her time because truly she dosent love you if she think waiting is too long...

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