The end of my journey...

[abezyo 35]

Hello VJ. It has been a while. Been going through a lot of things. Its a long story of I thought the woman of my dreams was all she is...but something changed. She didn't cheat or anything...but I guess we kind of mutually agree without communicating maybe we should go separate ways.

Thank you all VJ for your help and guidance. I def. help people out when they ask me questions about immigration and look on here. And Ill still be around here .

My question is:

We went through an immigration firm called Nahda in Jordan. Should I call them and ask them to cancel everything? We were at the part where I received 2 checklists about the AOS. And then im sure case would have been completed after. But what should I do next? And does she have any chance of finishing the whole process herself?

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from IR1/CR1 Progress to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

~Inquiry about next immigration steps after relationship demise~

[Hollyday 122]

Hello VJ. It has been a while. Been going through a lot of things. Its a long story of I thought the woman of my dreams was all she is...but something changed. She didn't cheat or anything...but I guess we kind of mutually agree without communicating maybe we should go separate ways.

Thank you all VJ for your help and guidance. I def. help people out when they ask me questions about immigration and look on here. And Ill still be around here .

My question is:

We went through an immigration firm called Nahda in Jordan. Should I call them and ask them to cancel everything? We were at the part where I received 2 checklists about the AOS. And then im sure case would have been completed after. But what should I do next? And does she have any chance of finishing the whole process herself?

How would she finish the process yourself if she was coming as your immediate relative? And also you have to prove the relationship to get this visa. What would be the purpose of issuing the visa to her?

[abezyo 35]

How would she finish the process yourself if she was coming as your immediate relative? And also you have to prove the relationship to get this visa. What would be the purpose of issuing the visa to her?

Well she thats the thing. Her uncle lives here in America and said he would co-sponser. Im wondering if they can group together and finish the process themselves and pay for everything without me acknowledging it and still coming as my wife. As you see we are deep into the process and was almost done. And also we go through this immigration firm that talks with her because she lives in Jordan. Im going to call them and cancel it. Just asking any advice?

[Harsh_77 716]

If you guys are no longer husband and wife she cannot get CR1 / IR1, her uncle cannot sponsor her for that if she still goes for her interview and claims you two are together that will be fraud.

If you guys have decided to end the process as a USC it will be your responsibility to inform USCIS about the change and withdrawal of your application.

The company is Jordan might / might not report it to consulate but it would be your job to inform them USCIS here and it would not be a bad idea to write them a letter as well so you would have proof and you cannot be held liable as her sponsor.

[jkedhd 5]

sorry to hear that man.. wish u all luck

[Cathi 5,624]

contact USCIS, NVC and the embassy to cancel, make sure all 3 know in case she decides to go to the interview

[Darnell 8,478]

are you seeking to divorce your wife ?

are you seeking to cancel spousal immigration process?

this 'crossing the streams' with an Uncle and unresolved divorce thing just doesn't wash, anywhere. Unless, of course, all parties seem willing to participate in Visa Fraud.

[TBoneTX 43,477]

*** Thread reopened -- it's been pointed out that the OP is seeking to prevent the soon-to-be-ex-wife from committing visa fraud. If this is true, the OP should proceed as recommended, as soon as possible. ***

Edited September 13, 2013 by TBoneTX

[Jawaree 717]

That's visa fraud dude and you are financially responsible for her

Re; affidavit of support...don't let them wood-wink u, cancel all so

if in the future U want to petition another it does not cause u probs

[stevie b 141]

basically everyone is saying NO you can not let her continue with her uncle on your petition.

last choice is to begin postponing the process to see if things can change and you keep your place in line.. you can do so for a year at nvc and then additional extensions at the embassy for another year, four months at a time just a thought

[abezyo 35]

Yeah I have talked to the place overseas and told them to hold everything for the moment. I have hired a lawyer over in Jordan and hes advising me on what to do at the moment. I was not trying to commit any visa fraud lol. I was asking how can I stop it? But i went ahead and got a lawyer.

[john gibbs 17]

Hello VJ. It has been a while. Been going through a lot of things. Its a long story of I thought the woman of my dreams was all she is...but something changed. She didn't cheat or anything...but I guess we kind of mutually agree without communicating maybe we should go separate ways.

Thank you all VJ for your help and guidance. I def. help people out when they ask me questions about immigration and look on here. And Ill still be around here .

My question is:

We went through an immigration firm called Nahda in Jordan. Should I call them and ask them to cancel everything? We were at the part where I received 2 checklists about the AOS. And then im sure case would have been completed after. But what should I do next? And does she have any chance of finishing the whole process herself?

sorry to hear that. sounds like you were a victim of marriage fraud, and she simply married you to obtain a visa and then left.

it has happened to a lot of people. you are not alone.

[Darnell 8,478]

for 'how to stop it'

that's easy.

currently - you have an checklist letter on the AOS - something was missing.

IMO - send off an email to nvcinquiry@state.gov

subject: <<consular casefile #>>, WITHDRAWAL, Supervisor Review

then in the body,

give the biodata on the case , (that's your full name, her full name, both DOBs)

and

a smallish paragraph detailing that you want to withdraw the I-864, and stop the visa application process due to imminent / eminent divorce .

Then ya wait until you have an email back from NVC.

Do nothing to respond to the checklist, btw.

[abezyo 35]

Thanks Darnell. Thats what ill do!