my wife she gonna kick me out of state

[rabasaki 0]

im good guy and my wife she depressed and she always tell me ( i brought you here and i'm gonna send you back to your country i want )

im cr1 visa holder and i didn't finish two years yet to get my 10 years visa ,

there is anyway that i can extend my visa without her or she is the one responsible for that

by the way i hve a good job and we been together for 2 years married and 3 years relation

please advise me so in case she wants to send me back i know what to do

[andy ngeci 18]

your wife is a cycle how does someone threaten another like that. am sure u have done her wrong but in either way she should not threaten you this way. and btw u shouldnt be afraid to go back your country.

[TBoneTX 43,058]

*** Thread moved from CR-1 Process forum to the Effects of Major Changes forum, which fits the OP's situation. ***

[destiny64 222]

Its too bad that she threatens you with that, seems you should be seeking marriage counseling not asking how to extend your visa?

[Ryan H 3,790]

im cr1 visa holder and i didn't finish two years yet to get my 10 years visa ,

there is anyway that i can extend my visa without her or she is the one responsible for that

You don't extend your visa nor do you get a 10 year visa. You file to remove conditions in order to obtain a 10 year green card.

If you get divorced prior to the time that you file to remove conditions and you can show that you entered into the marriage in good faith, then you can file to remove conditions on your own.

[BraveAmnay 56]

your wife is a cycle how does someone threaten another like that. am sure u have done her wrong but in either way she should not threaten you this way. and btw u shouldnt be afraid to go back your country.

how are you sure if he is wrong or she is wrong.i think you are female so u took her side.there are wrong in women & men.one thing there are some women even married from guys from other countries they think they have the right threath them and treat them like slave they expect their husband to say always yes ;yes you are right yes you can have all my money yes i'll not help family etc....sorry to say that i say that by experience and many stories i know ty

[Sandra G. 5,016]

Get divorced and once the divorce decree is ready just file form I-751 waiver based in bonafide marriage.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Get divorced and once the divorce decree is ready just file form I-751 waiver based in bonafide marriage.

OP, this is your answer right here. Anything else is just drama.

[rabasaki 0]

thank you soo much guys i really apreciat and as one of the guys said , women here they think we are slave and they bought us from our family so we shouldnt help or assist our family

im not sying she is bad or im good , im just traying to build confidence on myself by saying no when it should be , and i don't wanna divorce her because she is sacrificing with me ,

just for future reasons i wanna know what to do , because i wanna feel im safe that's all

and thank you again for your reply

[Golden Gate 530]

thank you soo much guys i really apreciat and as one of the guys said , women here they think we are slave and they bought us from our family so we shouldnt help or assist our family

im not sying she is bad or im good , im just traying to build confidence on myself by saying no when it should be , and i don't wanna divorce her because she is sacrificing with me ,

just for future reasons i wanna know what to do , because i wanna feel im safe that's all

and thank you again for your reply

FYI. There are a lot of women on here who love their husbands and care about the well-being of their extended families, who might find your generalization offensive.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

FYI. There are a lot of women on here who love their husbands and care about the well-being of their extended families, who might find your generalization offensive.

They shouldn't. It's easily understood that OP has a developing grasp of the English language.

I'm sure he meant no offense.

[Golden Gate 530]

They shouldn't. It's easily understood that OP has a developing grasp of the English language.

I'm sure he meant no offense.

It's a good opportunity to learn how to avoid generalizations in the English Language.

To the OP: Some women here may think we are their slave and they bought us from our family so we shouldn't help or assist our family

Edited July 28, 2013 by Golden Gate

[Jawaree 717]

Two sides to every story... but Y not try counseling....Funny it seem the same ppl

from the same place marry crazy ladies & ladies who want them gone...cultural

differences should be thoroughly discuss, or more & more it will seem like scams

to the COs in certain areas

[Darnell 8,478]

FYI. There are a lot of women on here who love their husbands and care about the well-being of their extended families, who might find your generalization offensive.

Luckily (FYI) that wasn't Rabasaski's generalization.

It was someone else's, and he was writing of it.

Just FYI, at the moment.

[Golden Gate 530]

Luckily (FYI) that wasn't Rabasaski's generalization.

It was someone else's, and he was writing of it.

Just FYI, at the moment.

Actually he was affirming what the other guy said. What gets my beef is as Jawaree stated - seems to be a recurring theme between certain Moroccan men and their American wives, and this becomes a sort of 'club'. There seems to be some big disconnect in the reality of marriage. Communication is key yet both parties seem to be living in an obscure reality.

Know the person you are marrying.

Edited to make my point more clear.

Edited July 29, 2013 by Golden Gate