need a help

[kozah 1]

hey there im a green card holder since june 2012

i left the us 4 months ago, after me and my wife had a fight , we not divorcing till now, but lately her mom she heard that im going back to the us to work there and study, she send me a message , ( before u loose your money go check ur status cause we they r not allowing you to enter)

so she makes me confused , i went to the american embassy in lebanon ( my country )

they told me however u not outside the us for more than 1 year u can go back anytime, but they said we dont know about your wife if she canceled your status , u need to do research with the uscis,

i called the uscis many times, they always take me from side to side on the phone with no good answer,

is there any way to know about my status before i book a plain and go back?

plzzz i need help

[Penguin_ie 5,994]

If you have a greencard, you are fine. Your wife cannot cancel your status or have you deported.

[kozah 1]

no i didnt deported, i came back home by myself 4.5 months ago,

but i already heard from her familly that she canceled my green card...

and i dont wanna go there with a risk , cause its like 20 hours flight,

is there any way to check my status

[Karee 4,190]

no i didnt deported, i came back home by myself 4.5 months ago,

but i already heard from her familly that she canceled my green card...

and i dont wanna go there with a risk , cause its like 20 hours flight,

is there any way to check my status

Your wife can't cancel your green card once it is issued. That's your green card, not hers. Their family is blowing smoke up your a$$.

[Caryh 5,206]

They're trying to scare you into not returning. She cannot cancel your green card. Its your green card. USCIS won't even tell her your current status on the green card unless you sign to make her your agent or are present when she calls.

[Brian1967## 119]

It is your green card, not yours and hers, you may come and go as you please. She is trying to scare you, pure and simple, there is not a USCIS bus that runs around and picks up people. When you get back here to the good old USA, talk to your wife, have you tried counseling? Immigration marriages are tough, I encourage you to do all you can to save tour marriage, think of good times you had with each other remember you love each other and this should get you through a tough time like this. Sorry for your troubles.

Edited July 8, 2013 by Brian1967##

[aaron2020 11,651]

As others have stated, the green card is yours. She and her family can not cancel it. They cannot even get information about your green card from USCIS. It is all yours and yours alone.

However, you have a conditional green card. That means, it expires after 2 years and you have to file to remove the condition. With you and your wife separated, you are not going to be able to prove that you have a bona fide marriage.

You should come back to the US, file for divorce, and file to remove the condition on your own based on entering a bona fide marriage. The more time you spend outside the US, the less likely you will be able to get a regular green card.

[Harsh_77 718]

The only thing I can think she can do is report the marriage as sham... she cannot get your GC cancelled but sham marriage can create enough probs.

[Brian1967## 119]

If your marriage was a sham and they report it, it can create real problems at interview times. You must show proof marriage was bona fide and real. Do you have joint bank statements? Property in both names or a lease in both names or maybe a joint tax return? These are VERY important along with other things if divorce is not filed try to come home and get some marriage counseling and work, in my thoughts a good marriage takes work, hard work sometimes I encourage you not to divorce until all options are used.