I am denied

[chikings 27]

Sorry for the wait.. but it's a no for us... Yes.. my kingsley is highly upset. I can't get through to him bad connection.. but what he managed to say before breaking down on the phone. Was everything was fine then she kept going back to the file, and focusing on my sons father. She was trying to get him t believe that we are still together.. That the reason I never took the job in Qatar(how kingsley and I meet) Is because I must still be in love with my son's father. Even though, though I included a copy of my promotion and promotion pay in the file as to why I turned down the job. and even though My sons father is engaged and slated to be married in the spring.. I'm hurt the most because of all the things the could have flagged me for me being older, a short window to have more kids, or etc. The trumphed up some bullshit excuse... Sooo I'm not sure what to do know.. I have no problem marrying him now, but feel that it won't be the same..Like I'm doing it to prove to "them" we love each other.. Not sure if I can appeal, or write to congressman, or what.. Sooo goodluck to the next ones in line... By the way my school blocks face book so please feel free to post in the African married groups we are a part of..

Peace,

Chi

[pieroot 43]

That's horrible...horrible. You will find a way to be together. Don't despair.

[feli114 65]

Wow! I am truly sorry about this my sister. I was expecting to see a big yes from you. I'm fresh at the game, but I am sure someone on here will know what you can do. There's gotta be a way. I willl be praying for you.

[hamigirl710 112]

I am very sorry and hope you can find a way to be together soon!

[bigdog 376]

Best wishes.

[OneLuvv 0]

Hi Chi....we are also denied. My fiance is also highly upset...as he said he answered every questions they asked him. He said after the guy asked his questions, he walked out and returned with a letter in his hand and handed it to him. Basically, it states that our case is being sent back to where it was approve for review. That if we have any questions, direct them to that office.

[chikings 27]

Sorry for the wait.. but it's a no for us... Yes.. my kingsley is highly upset. I can't get through to him bad connection.. but what he managed to say before breaking down on the phone. Was everything was fine then she kept going back to the file, and focusing on my sons father. She was trying to get him t believe that we are still together.. That the reason I never took the job in Qatar(how kingsley and I meet) Is because I must still be in love with my son's father. Even though, though I included a copy of my promotion and promotion pay in the file as to why I turned down the job. and even though My sons father is engaged and slated to be married in the spring.. I'm hurt the most because of all the things the could have flagged me for me being older, a short window to have more kids, or etc. The trumphed up some bullshit excuse... Sooo I'm not sure what to do know.. I have no problem marrying him now, but feel that it won't be the same..Like I'm doing it to prove to "them" we love each other.. Not sure if I can appeal, or write to congressman, or what.. Sooo goodluck to the next ones in line... By the way my school blocks face book so please feel free to post in the African married groups we are a part of..

Peace,

Chi

oh forgot to mention that she kept asking who put this file together, it must be a lawyer involved. he kept saying no we did,, she said no way to detailed. Then when going through our pics. she kept asking why did you take this picture there, or why here.. It makes no sense.. #######!!!

[chikings 27]

Hi Chi....we are also denied. My fiance is also highly upset...as he said he answered every questions they asked him. He said after the guy asked his questions, he walked out and returned with a letter in his hand and handed it to him. Basically, it states that our case is being sent back to where it was approve for review. That if we have any questions, direct them to that office.

Thanks for that advice I will ask him what type of letter did he get!!

[KayandJunior 4]

I'm so sorry that your Visa was denied, Hopefully there is something you can do to appeal. My prayers are with you both..

[Kayode&Ginie 11]

I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel. The CO also gave my husband a hard time about my ex. Our congressman wrote to the embassy and other departments, but we got conflicting reasons to why he was denied. He was handed a blank paper that just stated his case was being sent back. If you need to talk, I'm here for you. I will be home on Sunday. Keep your head up, they can't stop true love.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Lagos at it's finest. You are through California with a K1 so the standard operation procedure is that is will be declared expired and you are free to file again which will not give you a chance to fight it. From what you posted they probably declared the photos staged and the relationship non bonefide, there may be more clues. I would go K1 again as you can strt the package today.

[reese1 68]

I am so so so sorry to hear this. I wish you the best of luck on your continued journey.

[onye uwaoma 131]

Oh sorry for this sister...you know if the co assumption is that you may still be in love with ur ex then I guess they have not given him a complete denial, maybe they want more evidence to be sure...relax your nerve at the moment and then get full details of the interview and whether he was given a 221g request for additional evidence or something else...you've been such a strong person so gather more strength in this because it's your life... May God strengthen you in Jesus name amen!

[Justud 42]

Sorry to hear this. But thanks for sharing your experience. True LOVE will prevail!! keep pushing.

[tru_loves_journey 117]

I'm so sorry to hear he was treated this way..Stay Strong and Keep the Faith