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This kind of "woman blaming" is part of what reinforces the gender inequality we see in our society AND Latin cultures. HUMANS are naturally flirty creatures. HUMANS seek attention. The MEN in Lati

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I'm sure everyone can distinguish your words and my words (on style and grammar alone), especially in the context of a message board. That's what the "quote" feature does - it means everything in the

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You were being very selfish and I say that with no malice intended and you asked for opinions. Women are naturally flirty and seek attention. There's nothing wrong that per see when you are single bu

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To the OP and to all: There is no need for ANY woman to put up with machistas.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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You made an ultimatum to someone all the while wondering if you could take it back.

That's more foolish than marrying someone you thought you could change.

Our journey together on this earth has come to an end.

I will see you one day again, my love.

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You said, cheating is very common in his culture. His culture is all he has seen so far. He couldn't trust women from what he has seen all his life. It's takes many years to change it and help a person, building up trust especially being in his situation. And you told him, he has to leave. Kicking him out & buying him a ticket?!? You knew, that he wasn't easy and you knew where he was coming from. I am sorry, but in my eyes, you didn't handle it right. You send him home?!? I see that way to many times that people who marry forgeins,send them home if something doesn't work out. It's wrong! If you would be married to an American you can't just send him home either. He's hurt and did exactly what you wanted ... went home. You shouldn't cry about it, it was you that made the desicion for both of you.

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