separated since marriage after two years now wants a card

[Dark Knight 0]

I married my wife two years ago and since those two years we've been separated she claims that she change and wants to work things out but i don't believe her. My wife is a immigrant from Jamaica, we started as best friends but then became something more. In the end i was a nitwit for being blinded by love and i realize that, so i refuse to process her papers for a green card. My question is that it has been two years since our marriage and now she wants to make up with me after i was geared up for a divorce. I feel as if i do decide to continue with her process will i have to do the conditional green card process since we never did it in the first place. Or do she automatically gets her permanent green card without any interviews or immigration hassles. I mean how does that work for immigrants who been married for 2yrs or more and never have done the conditions in the first place, will it lead for her getting her citizenship too in her 3rd year as we reconcile. If It does work like that, i think a loophole hasn't been discovered. She says she wants a lawyer to do the process im ok with that but it will be a long time before i sign anything for her until i can really trust her again. Also isnt better that she finds someone else to marry since we never record our interviews and papers with USCIS. Last time i check we were just only married and never lived together. Plus, im a Floridian and im not a mean person but i am skeptical and confuse with immigration cases.

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

If you were to reconcile with your wife, you would still have interviews and have to show a lot of evidence/hassles to get approval. If approved, she would be eligible for citizenship in 3 years from approval, not one year from now (not 3 years of marriage only.. 3 years of marriage and 3 years of being a PR).

Tread carefully and work on your relationship first. If you think she is scamming you, she probably is.

You have not discovered a loophole.

[unlockingsky 94]

had you ever tried talking to your parents? they would provide some comforting guidance too.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Where is your wife living now?

[Dark Knight 0]

I also wanted to know the advantages and disadvantages im in. I have it in my mind to divorce her and report her to ice since she thinks it all right to play with peoples emotion but im to soft to do that. I try to beat the statics of 50 percent of marriage end in divorce but i cant believe she turnout to be a cold heart ice queen. When we argue im always on the defensive when i know im right. Till now she still haven't change.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

I also wanted to know the advantages and disadvantages im in. I have it in my mind to divorce her and report her to ice since she thinks it all right to play with peoples emotion but im to soft to do that. I try to beat the statics of 50 percent of marriage end in divorce but i cant believe she turnout to be a cold heart ice queen. When we argue im always on the defensive when i know im right. Till now she still haven't change.

You didn't answer ny question, is your wife here in the USA or JA?

You didn't answer ny question, is your wife here in the USA or JA?

If she came on a K1 or the CR1? If a K1, have you done the AOS yet?

[Dark Knight 0]

Where is your wife living now?

shes in florida. She also has her own place,job, and has a drivers licence. she started as a Fl student then we got married and that's when it went downhill. i dont know why is she asking me for to finish the process if shes fine on her own.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

shes in florida. She also has her own place,job, and has a drivers licence. she started as a Fl student then we got married and that's when it went downhill. i dont know why is she asking me for to finish the process if shes fine on her own.

You have really answered your own question, she wants you to finish the immigration process, it doesn't sound as if she is asking for a re-conciliations of the marriage. If you wish to do something that is not morally and ethical within your belief, we on VJ cannot answer that. Only you can decide if you wish to commit immigration fraud.

Also, that 864 finical statement is no joke. You will be responsibile for your wife for the next 10 years. Let that sink in.

Edited May 16, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

[Harsh_77 718]

You have really answered your own question, she wants you to finish the immigration process, it doesn't sound as if she is asking for a re-conciliations of the marriage. If you wish to do something that is not morally and ethical within your belief, we on VJ cannot answer that. Only you can decide if you wish to commit immigration fraud.

+1

OP from your post it seems all she cares play with your emotion and get a GC and stay put in US.

[aaydrian 479]

Do what will cause you less legal and financial trouble.

[Dark Knight 0]

You have really answered your own question, she wants you to finish the immigration process, it doesn't sound as if she is asking for a re-conciliations of the marriage. If you wish to do something that is not morally and ethical within your belief, we on VJ cannot answer that. Only you can decide if you wish to commit immigration fraud.

Also, that 864 finical statement is no joke. You will be responsibile for your wife for the next 10 years. Let that sink in.

Even though i love her it seems as if i should take it that she is using me.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Even though i love her it seems as if i should take it that she is using me.

Why are you asking me about love, I don't know you or her. If it's love then do what love dictates you to do. My comments are only based on what you have posted.

If it's love then seek marital counseling.

Edited May 16, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

[Dark Knight 0]

I guess my next question is will you call ice on a person that duped you into marriage.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

I guess my next question is will you call ice on a person that duped you into marriage.

This question has nothing to do with doing the right thing. If you are asking me would I call ICE if someone duped me into marriage. Nope, I am grown, I understood all that I was getting into before I entered into the immigration maized. But I wouldn't sign my name to a 864 if I had doubt in my mine this this relationship was real.

Edited May 16, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

[aaydrian 479]

If you want to call ICE then go ahead but ensure you have your evidence of this supposed fraudulent marriage otherwise divorce the girl asap and move on.