Withdraw Petition or let it Expire

[anthill 5]

Hi Everyone,

Well, looks like I picked another lemon to fall in love with. This is my second approved petition that just did not work out. I really want to find a Filipina who is not after my money. I know they are out there. Just bad luck on my part. My question is should I withdraw my petition or just let it expire which is Aug 20th. I have learned a lot from my two experiences. I know now who to look for. I know there are IMBRA issues now if I petition for another Filipina. I have no criminal past. I'm just a nice guy looking for a sincere relationship. What should I do? Withdraw the petition or let it expire? Thanks.

[canadian_wife 1,791]

I would withdraw it.

good luck

[Anh map 2,098]

Withdrawing it means there is nothing left to "clean up" if you want to file a petition at a later date.

[mike42979 57]

I seen this one coming, no offense but why do you insist on finding a filipina and why so much younger than yourself? Maybe finding a Filipina more mature with commonalities would help? I understand why you dont want an American woman but theres plenty of foreigners in the U.S to choose from and you can probably save a fortune in not having the expense of flying half way around the world. IDK Just some suggestions, yes im with a Filipina but i didnt go looking for mine i was sent to work in the Caymans and met her that way.

35 years age difference?

Edited July 24, 2011 by mike42979

[dindo and patty 20]

Withdrawing it means there is nothing left to "clean up" if you want to file a petition at a later date.

I am truly sorry you're going through this again. I really hope that one day you will find that special someone whether she is from the Philippines

or another country. Good luck and God bless you!

[marklovetina 52]

don't u think u have a problem too???

just noticed this is not the first time u posted a thread like this one... from ur previous K1 and i think several times for this 2nd K1... remember u did sent a withdrawal too to USCIS but still the petition got approved, right??? just wondering.... can't u make a final decision...?

[HotPinay-KoolKano 10]

Hi Everyone,

Well, looks like I picked another lemon to fall in love with. This is my second approved petition that just did not work out. I really want to find a Filipina who is not after my money. I know they are out there. Just bad luck on my part. My question is should I withdraw my petition or just let it expire which is Aug 20th. I have learned a lot from my two experiences. I know now who to look for. I know there are IMBRA issues now if I petition for another Filipina. I have no criminal past. I'm just a nice guy looking for a sincere relationship. What should I do? Withdraw the petition or let it expire? Thanks.

Better to withdraw it!

Edited July 24, 2011 by Leo&Rea

[anthill 5]

don't u think u have a problem too???

just noticed this is not the first time u posted a thread like this one... from ur previous K1 and i think several times for this 2nd K1... remember u did sent a withdrawal too to USCIS but still the petition got approved, right??? just wondering.... can't u make a final decision...?

To You and anyone else passing judgement on this relationship: You don't know anything about the circumstances and I don't feel obligated to explain. I just asked a simple question. Please keep your opinions to yourself if you have nothing constructive to say. What does age difference have to do with anything????

[anthill 5]

I seen this one coming, no offense but why do you insist on finding a filipina and why so much younger than yourself? Maybe finding a Filipina more mature with commonalities would help? I understand why you dont want an American woman but theres plenty of foreigners in the U.S to choose from and you can probably save a fortune in not having the expense of flying half way around the world. IDK Just some suggestions, yes im with a Filipina but i didnt go looking for mine i was sent to work in the Caymans and met her that way.

35 years age difference?

To You and anyone else passing judgement on this relationship: You don't know anything about the circumstances and I don't feel obligated to explain. I just asked a simple question. Please keep your opinions to yourself if you have nothing constructive to say. What does age difference have to do with anything????

[anthill 5]

I am truly sorry you're going through this again. I really hope that one day you will find that special someone whether she is from the Philippines

or another country. Good luck and God bless you!

Thank you for your kind words.

[marklovetina 52]

To You and anyone else passing judgement on this relationship: You don't know anything about the circumstances and I don't feel obligated to explain. I just asked a simple question. Please keep your opinions to yourself if you have nothing constructive to say. What does age difference have to do with anything????

well FYI, don't forget u had a K1 withdrawn before and now ur still asking the same question.. don't u get a good answer the 1st time u posted about withdrawals...???? and i can answer u back a very constructive answer if i know ur not been here for a long time and not posting thread like this one again!!!!

[anthill 5]

well FYI, don't forget u had a K1 withdrawn before and now ur still asking the same question.. don't u get a good answer the 1st time u posted about withdrawals...???? and i can answer u back a very constructive answer if i know ur not been here for a long time and not posting thread like this one again!!!!

Wow! I finally know someone who hasn't made mistakes in their life! I didn't think that was possible!!!! Good for you!!!!!

[Dante & Geor 36]

No need the sarcasm. Maybe you just need to stop looking for and just wait for someone to come to your life...

Just a thought no need to be rude if you don't like it.

Good luck, and I really hope you find someone that truly loves you. But trust me, it'll come, no need to look for it!

Edited July 25, 2011 by Dante & Geor

[anthill 5]

No need the sarcasm. Maybe you just need to stop looking for and just wait for someone to come to your life...

Just a thought no need to be rude if you don't like it.

Good luck, and I really hope you find someone that truly loves you. But trust me, it'll come, no need to look for it!

No. There is room for tons of sarcasm here. I just asked a simple question. I thought this forum was to help each other. Not pass judgement!!!!

[Dante & Geor 36]

I'm not judging you, I'm just giving you an advice, and my best thoughts for you. And I'm sure the others guys were doing the same.

Best wishes for you and I wish you find true love, no matter where it comes from!