Til death or citizenship, whichever comes first

[Joja 0]

I used this site faithfully during the process of getting my husband from Morocco to here in the U.S. I wanted to let everyone know that on Sept. 20, 2010 my husband received his citizenship. On October 24, 2010 he left me stating that I have trust issues. Our marriage was wonderful up until that point. We never argued and got along wonderfully together, or so I thought. Then I found a conversation on the computer of him talking with another guy in Morocco who were fighting over a girl. My husband fell in love with her and wanted to get out of the marriage. Our divorce will be final tomorrow. I have lived through a winter of hell with all of the blame for the breakup of our marriage on my shoulders. Moroccan men and women are notorious for duping people. They have no remorse for what they do, they live in a shame based society. Their family will not give you an sympathy because women are just bodies with no minds there. Why is this woman trying to rain on our parade you ask? I never thought that this would happen to me. I bet you think the same thing too. I asked all of the right questions and did a lot of research on the culture but nothing prepared me for the ruthless heart of one who is so desperate to find a way out of his terrible situation. I cannot explain how hurt I feel. It will be hard to trust another, especially someone outside of my own country. I will get over this but please be aware the grass is not greener there, they usually don't have any grass.

Joja

[Saddle Bronc 124]

Moroccans are (sadly) not exclusive in the marriage-fraud department. Also, this topic really doesn't seem like it should be in OT (so I've asked it be moved).

[no more 16]

I used this site faithfully during the process of getting my husband from Morocco to here in the U.S. I wanted to let everyone know that on Sept. 20, 2010 my husband received his citizenship. On October 24, 2010 he left me stating that I have trust issues. Our marriage was wonderful up until that point. We never argued and got along wonderfully together, or so I thought. Then I found a conversation on the computer of him talking with another guy in Morocco who were fighting over a girl. My husband fell in love with her and wanted to get out of the marriage. Our divorce will be final tomorrow. I have lived through a winter of hell with all of the blame for the breakup of our marriage on my shoulders. Moroccan men and women are notorious for duping people. They have no remorse for what they do, they live in a shame based society. Their family will not give you an sympathy because women are just bodies with no minds there. Why is this woman trying to rain on our parade you ask? I never thought that this would happen to me. I bet you think the same thing too. I asked all of the right questions and did a lot of research on the culture but nothing prepared me for the ruthless heart of one who is so desperate to find a way out of his terrible situation. I cannot explain how hurt I feel. It will be hard to trust another, especially someone outside of my own country. I will get over this but please be aware the grass is not greener there, they usually don't have any grass.

Joja

Sorry to hear about him doing this to you....diving into love is not bad..you took a chance. He will get whats coming to him....Good luck with everything..

[AYMAN_RINA 92]

Sorry to hear what this man did to you.Terrible thing to do to someone I believe in Karma...what comes around goes around

[Krikit 1,163]

(F) to you, Joja.

Moving from OT to General Immigration Discussion.

[tirzaray 4]

Joja

For what it's worth, I know your hurt! Move on with your life, do not have regrets, You know, he will pay and that pay will be ever so harsh, just you wait and see. Sometimes we do not want to see our loved ones hurt but you know, my motto is "what goes around, comes around." So hang it there, god has a purpose for you. You obviously are a good person because you were there every minute of the way and so, good things will come to you. I know it is easier said than done but have patience!!

I used this site faithfully during the process of getting my husband from Morocco to here in the U.S. I wanted to let everyone know that on Sept. 20, 2010 my husband received his citizenship. On October 24, 2010 he left me stating that I have trust issues. Our marriage was wonderful up until that point. We never argued and got along wonderfully together, or so I thought. Then I found a conversation on the computer of him talking with another guy in Morocco who were fighting over a girl. My husband fell in love with her and wanted to get out of the marriage. Our divorce will be final tomorrow. I have lived through a winter of hell with all of the blame for the breakup of our marriage on my shoulders. Moroccan men and women are notorious for duping people. They have no remorse for what they do, they live in a shame based society. Their family will not give you an sympathy because women are just bodies with no minds there. Why is this woman trying to rain on our parade you ask? I never thought that this would happen to me. I bet you think the same thing too. I asked all of the right questions and did a lot of research on the culture but nothing prepared me for the ruthless heart of one who is so desperate to find a way out of his terrible situation. I cannot explain how hurt I feel. It will be hard to trust another, especially someone outside of my own country. I will get over this but please be aware the grass is not greener there, they usually don't have any grass.

Joja

[Joja 0]

Joja

For what it's worth, I know your hurt! Move on with your life, do not have regrets, You know, he will pay and that pay will be ever so harsh, just you wait and see. Sometimes we do not want to see our loved ones hurt but you know, my motto is "what goes around, comes around." So hang it there, god has a purpose for you. You obviously are a good person because you were there every minute of the way and so, good things will come to you. I know it is easier said than done but have patience!!

Rose\Abkadar

Thanks for the encouragement. Everyone says that what goes around comes around. I am still having rage inside but I need to calm myself and let God talk to me. I just wish it was a year from now so that things will not be so painful. I have to take one moment at a time. I am overwhelmed with the encouragement on this web site. What a great support group. Who needs therapy?

[ceadsearc 516]

Sounds like you married a real jerk. Sadly, they come from all over the world, not just Morocco.

[Fandango 1,439]

Sorry you are going through this. Look on the bright side, at least you're out from under that I864

[Mrs O. 29]

Sorry you are going through this. Look on the bright side, at least you're out from under that I864

I like someone that finds the positive side to every situation.

[Joja 0]

Sounds like you married a real jerk. Sadly, they come from all over the world, not just Morocco.

There are good people and bad people from everywhere.

[Gypsyangel 11]

I'm sorry you had to go through this. It sounds so heart-breaking. (F)