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Amyyduck   20

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Thank you all for your kind words and support.

I tried to talk to him about it, I said everything I could think to say to get him to reconsider, to take more time and to talk it through with me. He didn't want to hear any of it. We were supposed to see each other in 3 weeks for Thanksgiving and he wasn't even willing to wait until then to see me in person and work through things. I even offered to give up my life here and move to England to be with him, but he didn't want to hear that either.

I guess I will call USCIS when I am calmer. I don't think they'd be able to even understand me right now through the sobs.

jrmejia, please don't let a small argument come between you two. Give her some space for a day or two and then apologize and talk it out. You'll get through it. Do everything in your power to make sure this is not the end. Hopefully you will be more successful than I.

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Rebecca Jo
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Amyydukk, I'm sorry this is happening to you. It can't be easy. As usual, Nik & Heather's advice is perfect. As she has said, don't do anything hasty. My next comments aren't just for you, but

Mel1990
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): I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate being in those situations myself. he hasn't even told you why?? Truthfully, i wouldn't withdraw the petition just yet incase this is some form coldfeet and last m

leahandlucas
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Hmmmm...i dont know what to tell you...but maybe there's more to the story than what he is telling you...or maybe you's both have had stress/arguements lately due to the whole distance thing... If it

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Nikki + Tomislav   7

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Oh Amy, I'm so sorry. My heart really breaks for you. I'd recommend you take a bit more time before you close the petition though. I'm so sorry :(

9/21/10--I-129F mailed to Dallas

9/29/10--NOA1 (email and text message)

9/29/10--Check cashed

10/1/10--NOA1 hardcopy received (dated 9/27 and sent to VSC)

10/3/10--Touched (everyone touched)

10/4/10--Touched!

04/19/11-NOA2!! (FINALLY! After 204 days)

Major change of plans - the wait was too long for us and I ended up moving to Croatia in June 2011.

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I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. D:

Much as I wish to ask what happened, I know it's a personal matter. It seems you already tried talking to him...): I wish I could say more of what to do.

I've had fights with my fiance where I wouldn't talk to him or ages, told him it's over. ect...but each time we both come around after the tears and anger. D: I pray you two might find someway.

08/31/10: Mailed I-129f package via Express USPS to Lewisville TX.

09/01/10: Forwarded to Dallas from Lewisville.

09/02/10: Delivered to USCIS and signed for by Ben Mcbride.

09/09/10: Check cashed!

09/11/10: NOA1 Hardcopy received, dated 09/03/10! & Touched!

09/13/10: Touched!

10/03/10: Touched!

02/28/22: NOA2

03/08/2011: NVC received

03/17/2011: London received

03/24/2011: Packet 3 received

05/25/11: Mailed part 1 of Packet 3

??/??/11: Mailed part 2 Packet 3

??/??/11: London logged packet 3

??/??/11: Medical

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jrmejia   31

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(F) a friendly one! since we are almost in same situation :(

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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♥Muslimqueen♥   2

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you deserve better hunny dont let it get you down.

02-14-10: Medical exam (Passed)

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12-01-10: Embassy Calls Husband To Send In Passport Finally After Almost 9 months Of AP!!

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jrmejia   31

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are you sure is over i mean couples always have there "dont talk to be anymore" or "dont ever call me again" but its just in the heat od the mommet, good luck

it is the final notice :(

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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thelastpetitioner   218

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i asked because if you know him well enough,if you know this is not like him,and if you think there is the slightest chance of things turning around i suggest you dont withdraw just yet.you are so far along,it would suck to close it for the sake of a mental break down and regret it later on.

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marklovetina   52

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Thank you all for your kind words and support.

I tried to talk to him about it, I said everything I could think to say to get him to reconsider, to take more time and to talk it through with me. He didn't want to hear any of it. We were supposed to see each other in 3 weeks for Thanksgiving and he wasn't even willing to wait until then to see me in person and work through things. I even offered to give up my life here and move to England to be with him, but he didn't want to hear that either.

I guess I will call USCIS when I am calmer. I don't think they'd be able to even understand me right now through the sobs.

jrmejia, please don't let a small argument come between you two. Give her some space for a day or two and then apologize and talk it out. You'll get through it. Do everything in your power to make sure this is not the end. Hopefully you will be more successful than I.

so sorry for what happened.. sad... but all of what u are experiencing right now has a reason, pray and move on... good luck and God bless..

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June 05, 2017: Biometric Done
June 19, 2017: Case is in Line for an Interview
June 25, 2018: USCIS Scheduled an Interview
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Aug. 09, 2018: Oath Ceremony

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Mel I would gladly tell you what happened, if only I knew for myself..

): I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate being in those situations myself. he hasn't even told you why??

Truthfully, i wouldn't withdraw the petition just yet incase this is some form coldfeet and last minute mental breaking. Considing he is seemingly speaking to you. try to find out at least 'what' happened. o3o

Best of luck. pm me if you need someone to chat with.

08/31/10: Mailed I-129f package via Express USPS to Lewisville TX.

09/01/10: Forwarded to Dallas from Lewisville.

09/02/10: Delivered to USCIS and signed for by Ben Mcbride.

09/09/10: Check cashed!

09/11/10: NOA1 Hardcopy received, dated 09/03/10! & Touched!

09/13/10: Touched!

10/03/10: Touched!

02/28/22: NOA2

03/08/2011: NVC received

03/17/2011: London received

03/24/2011: Packet 3 received

05/25/11: Mailed part 1 of Packet 3

??/??/11: Mailed part 2 Packet 3

??/??/11: London logged packet 3

??/??/11: Medical

??/??/11: Interview

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Sorry Amy......I hope things work out for the best for your sake. Like others are saying, most couples have these type of talks and disagreements and if he really loves you, he'll be back. You are in my thoughts and prayers..be strong!

December '09 - Met via Facebook

~ Fell in love just a few months thereafter

7/18/2010 - I flew to Trinidad and met for the first time

~ Spent two weeks, one of which was in Tobago

9/9/2010 - Mailed I-129F to Texas via Express mail

9/15/2010 - NOA1 Date

4/4/2011 - NOA2 Date

4/12/2011 - NVC received

4/25/2011 - NVC sent via DHL to consulate

5/2/2011 - Packet mailed

7/25/2011 - Visa approved

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leahandlucas   15

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Hmmmm...i dont know what to tell you...but maybe there's more to the story than what he is telling you...or maybe you's both have had stress/arguements lately due to the whole distance thing...

If its not the whole distance thing,...then something has happened on his end,that he has not told you because you said that you yourself do not even know.

So i hope that he will at least to the RIGHT thing and be HONEST with you so you can have some peace of mind,heart and tranqulity

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