The S Factor

[Joel Halfwassen 0]

i see nothing wrong with the pole dancing or anything else that you and brent deem sexy behind closed doors ...

i also see nothing wrong with being a #######, #######, tramp or naughty girl in the bedroom. regardless of what you want to label it ... men LOVE it! it doesn't have to be all the time, but you should try to completely let yourself go once in a while.

i can tell you that women are extremely self critical ... most men wouldn't notice or care about half the stuff we worrying about (body-wise) ... how does my tummy look? do my thighs look ok? is my make-up smudged? does my hair still look cute/sexy/whatever? most men are stoked to be getting 'some'!

i agree with steven, slim, rob ... most of the guys club! sexiness is an attitude that you project and your husband will recognize it. i believe that foreplay is an all day affair ... from a hug, lingering kiss, grabbing his bum, a compliment, letting your hand softly slide across his groin accidently

pm me if you need anymore ideas!!

yes women are very critical. all it takes to make a guy happy is show up naked and bring beer

High end Canadian beer!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

i also see nothing wrong with being a #######, #######, tramp or naughty girl in the bedroom. regardless of what you want to label it ... men LOVE it!

Losing inhibitions, being overcome by ones desires, being totally lost in the moment - that's what drives me wild. You can still be shy - you don't have to be a tiger about to pounce on it's prey (see Wedding Crashers - the scene where Vince Vaughn is tied to the bed), just let go and let the moment write it's own script.

[*Robert* 2]

I think most guys want a lady in the streets but a ####### in the bedroom.

I just asked my husband if that was true in his case too and he just replied "I'm not answering that trick question!"

smart man

My exact thoughts when I read that!!!

See ladies, men CAN be trained!!!

[MrMrsKnight 0]

Too funny, very smart man. MrMrsKnight I to was 18 when I met my husband in person. 16 online. I'm 21 now, I'm still very shy though we've been together for a few years. Maybe it's self confidence I don't know *shrug* lol I've come a long way but still got a ways to go. I thought this could help and I hear it's an excellent work out if for nothing else!

Hey I'm 21 too.... and trust me.... the first time you do something like that is going to be the hardest. Then you'll see that he'll love it even though you thought you sucked. And then the next time you'll feel a lot more secure about the whole thing, which will make it even better. It's like a snow ball.

Know that you're beautiful, and that he thinks you're beautiful..... nothing else matters really!

You can pm me if you want to tlk more too

[gwenneh 7]

I'd do it. (Duh) They actually offer pole-dancing classes at my gym. They're *VERY* intense workouts, though-do NOT attempt it unless you are in FANTASTIC shape. If you can't find a local class (it is the latest, greatest thing at the gym, so they're being offered in a lot of places) I can recommend a few videos: The Art Of Exotic Dancing For Everyday Women is good-the first set works on building core strength and stability (your abs will KILL!) and the next few are on movements, getting progressively more difficult.

I do recommend it, though-highly. I also recommend The Stripper's Guide To Looking Great Naked, a fun read even if you don't pole-dance for a living!

Don't worry about being shy. And don't be overly critical of your body, either-women are their own worst critics! Stripping, whether in the club or in the bedroom, is all about self confidence. Have it, and the show is as sexy as can be; don't have it and you lose the edge. Try not to think about it too much, and just go into it with an attitude of fun!

Good luck!

"Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires." - Robert A. Heinlein, Notebooks of Lazarus Long

Edited July 9, 2006 by Gwen666

[Mandi+Ryan 0]

My fiancé found this site The Marriage Bed. It's a Christian site, and in part of it, it mentions things a Christian couple could do to boost their sex lives. And yes, one of those things are stripping. Hope this helps.

[CanGal 1]

Thanks you all for all the great suggestions, I'll look into them for sure!

[daisy16 0]

I think it would be fun and make you feel good about yourself, even a little less shy!

go for it!

[CarolineM 0]

I have Carmen Electra's striptease aerobics. Fun times.

[Peter Miami 0]

Go for it!

[Alex+R 0]

I have Carmen Electra's striptease aerobics. Fun times.

seriously? is that fun?

the longer this topic endures, the more interested i'm getting...

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Apparently not too shy to bring this up on a message board.

Lol i guess in some sense maybe but I can also hide behind my computer and not have a face to face with anyone :-p. I really don't think its a bad topic I just wanted oppinions. It's not too racy lol. or is it? I wasn't asking for peoples details of their private lives, just some input, am I the only one who thought it would be a good idea or is there others out there and if so are they shy about it as well but would like to pull something off as such. Thats all, I hope i haven't offended anyone by the topic of the post. If so I apologize .... I just wanted some input, that tis all

This is the perfect place really. Because no one knows you. Just don't hand out personal info (you know that).

[gwenneh 7]

I have Carmen Electra's striptease aerobics. Fun times.

seriously? is that fun?

the longer this topic endures, the more interested i'm getting...

There is nothing-NOTHING-more fun than to be able to shut off the tape, go into the bedroom, and put that look on one's husband's face...you know the look I'm talking about, the one we're all imagining the hypothetical man-in-a-strip-club in the thread next door to have!

And, as previously stated, it's a hell of a workout. Watch your abs! You'll find a HUGE difference very quickly!

[CanGal 1]

QUOTE(Alex+R @ Jul 10 2006, 07:31 PM)

QUOTE(karo112 @ Jul 10 2006, 12:43 PM)

I have Carmen Electra's striptease aerobics. Fun times.

seriously? is that fun?

the longer this topic endures, the more interested i'm getting...

There is nothing-NOTHING-more fun than to be able to shut off the tape, go into the bedroom, and put that look on one's husband's face...you know the look I'm talking about, the one we're all imagining the hypothetical man-in-a-strip-club in the thread next door to have!

And, as previously stated, it's a hell of a workout. Watch your abs! You'll find a HUGE difference very quickly!

For sure, and besides I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a club nor would I like him too so why not bring the club to him *Wink wink* lol per say. Lol ametuer night every night :-p .... Besides the more i've looked into it, I find that alot of women don't even do it for the stripping part really. They just do it for the moves and from what I've found out that alot of women get so caught up in the different moves they don't even think to strip that and it gets them into great shape and when you want to have a little fun with your hubby there's that aspect of it too.

[CanGal 1]

Oh and Mandi I want to thank you for that website