JERK FIANCEE

[luv2uallday 1]

Hey,

Bad luck I had to find the jerk of all jerks. All the visa processing was going ok and all of the sudden he flipped out, turned out to be a real piece of work!!! How can I do to withdraw his pettition and maybe take legal actions on emotional and physcological abuse.

Anyways, if you could please help me, and if I meet someone else, am I banned to go because of what this sensless man did to me?

Im desperate, please help me!!! Does he go unpunished and can do this to some other woman? I do not think all this is fair!!!

K

first rule of life nothing is ever fair. get used to it.

second, it is a God given right for people to be jerks or whatever they want. if he wants to be a jerk so be it doesn't mean you should be compensated or retribution in any way for your inconveniences. if he didn't beat you then just get over it and move on with your life.

only the petitioner can withdraw your petition just write a notorized letter to uscis with all the identifying info stating that you want to withdraw your petions be sure to write it for each petition you have submitted

if you don't go through with the petition it will not count against you in any future petitions.

good luck

[Nik+Heather 121]

Fortunately, the women of the world haven't created a global black list where we can swap stories about all the mistakes our exboyfriends made. Would you want all of your exes to try to ruin every one of your future relationships?

We do have that list...sad I know. dontdatehimgirl.com

Here is another one

thedatingblacklist.com

WOW!!

[Cdnwmn 0]

I'm sorry to hear what happened to you.

One lesson to be learned - don't sell anything or give up anything until you have Visa in hand.

Back in 2002 when my Visa was approved I had my adult kids and parents take my furniture, other stuff I got rid of that I had no use for anyhow. Luckily the job I worked at also allowed any employee to take a one year leave of absence for whatever reason. Even though my heart told me that things would work out, I still went for the one year leave of absence. I actually didn't inform my place of employment that I wouldn't be back until 9 months after I had moved to the U.S. My husband to be was all for what I had done.

[leapoffaith 0]

Many people who are used to living an independent life are afraid of taking responsibilities. Living alone and independently is itself an addiction.

Even though he loves her, he might still be very scared of taking care of day to day responsibilities and doing chores around the house. I guess that

is why many "couples" like to live together without marriage.

[kayandnigel 0]

Hey,

Bad luck I had to find the jerk of all jerks. All the visa processing was going ok and all of the sudden he flipped out, turned out to be a real piece of work!!! How can I do to withdraw his pettition and maybe take legal actions on emotional and physcological abuse.

Anyways, if you could please help me, and if I meet someone else, am I banned to go because of what this sensless man did to me?

Im desperate, please help me!!! Does he go unpunished and can do this to some other woman? I do not think all this is fair!!!

K

I am so sorry:(

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Fiance or fiancee?

Fiance is accepted spelling for either sex.

By whom?

by people in san fran?

That would be fairance'

Edited June 26, 2009 by Mister_Bill

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Looking at your timeline, when (if) the petition is approved, do nothing, and after 6 months the petition will be considered abandoned, unless extended.

The I-129F fiancé(e) petition is a single entry visa that is valid for six months from the date of its approval. If the petition expires, a consular officer may revalidate it for another four months (provided that both parties remain legally free to marry).

[Marina-Del 10]

Although some people in VJ strongly believe that once you propose or get proposed to and start the K-1 visa process, you are 100% committed to getting married

What?? Where do you get that from?

I think what you mean is that some people on VJ think that you SHOULD NOT GET ENGAGED OR START THE K-1 process until you are pretty dayum sure that this is what you want to do. But I don't think that the majority of people on VJ think that it's not okay to change your mind once you get started on the K-1. I would think that the vast majority on VJ are happy when people cancel their K-1 because the relationship failed. Better it happen now then when the beneficiaries are in the US, no?

Personally I think there are a lot of people on VJ who rush into applying for the visa and rush into getting engaged, but that's not the say that I think that once you start applying you can't back out. *cough* see my signature below *cough*

[Marina-Del 10]

Fortunately, the women of the world haven't created a global black list where we can swap stories about all the mistakes our exboyfriends made. Would you want all of your exes to try to ruin every one of your future relationships?

We do have that list...sad I know. dontdatehimgirl.com

Oh my goodness, I'd never seen that before. But really, that's stupid. I mean unless the guy actually stole your money or something, qualities that you hate someone else might like.

Del's ex-wife is crazy when you hear him talk about her, but I don't think she's crazy in real life! They just weren't right for each other.