For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!

[Ban Hammer 12,876]

let's stay on topic rather than using this thread as a way to bash other members.

[sandinista! 1,816]

I'll never understand women who troll public forums, chomping at the bit for the opportunity to question, criticize, and slam other women's choices in a pitifully self righteous manner. Isn't there anything more productive to do?

To the women who are concerned about their husbands' safety in Iran and Iraq, I hope you find the relief you seek soon. It must be really difficult to be constantly worrying about it.

yr so right about that! the non-pitifully self righteous thing to do would have been to just say, "omg, mine's the same way! it must be cultural for these men! it's sooo mena to have a 'strict' husband who likes to deny his wife normal interactions with other human beings while he's thousands of miles away."

my bad!

boy texting and IM has really butchered any kind of written communication.

i think the artist formerly known as the artist formerly known as prince is somewhat to blame as well.

[Tamara and Mehdi 0]

I cant even begin to understand what it would be like if I was already married and seperated for so long..my mother has been living here while my father has been between Iraq and Afghanistan for the past 7 years because of his work so I have so much respect for the strong people who can get through that...I am just really glad my job as an athletic trainer keeps me really busy while I wait for my fiancee to arrive...and I hold on to the thought that this hard time is going to make our marriage stronger because of it

[me_4_musa 1]

what about those of us who have our husbands here and still do that every day?

you're funny girlie!

yr so right about that! the non-pitifully self righteous thing to do would have been to just say, "omg, mine's the same way! it must be cultural for these men! it's sooo mena to have a 'strict' husband who likes to deny his wife normal interactions with other human beings while he's thousands of miles away."

my bad!

^^ yes and don't forget to include a rainbow (along with a tv guide):

[Darnell 8,478]

Stuff I do to pass the time -

1. garden. I've 2 acres behind the house. Keeps me busy.

2. WRITE - when it's cold or I can't sleep, I write. NoNo, not on VJ - for 'commercial use'.

3. volunteer . I do stuff with the food banks, the Rodeo, foot races, and my fraternity.

4. make a trip to see her. I spend 1 month each 3 months with her.

[msheesha 548]

yr so right about that! the non-pitifully self righteous thing to do would have been to just say, "omg, mine's the same way! it must be cultural for these men! it's sooo mena to have a 'strict' husband who likes to deny his wife normal interactions with other human beings while he's thousands of miles away."

my bad!

I'm not sure what you're talking about; I was referencing the member who posted about her fear that her husband would be killed in Iraq. The response was to criticize her typing, etc.

[msheesha 548]

Oh you want to be the sweet little lamb now – you’ve also questioned and criticized people on VJ.

On another note, you should be asking the ones that are waiting for their loved ones to arrive if they have anything else more productive to do instead of spending their life farting on the same pillow cushion day after day and spending their life watching the telly. Try and understand that situation not us.

You take this all so seriously! You really think you have the right to tell me what I should be doing!

[LaL 418]

I'm not sure what you're talking about; I was referencing the member who posted about her fear that her husband would be killed in Iraq. The response was to criticize her typing, etc.

Just for clarity sake - I was commenting how something has devolved written communication (one can see it everywhere here), and my supposition is that texting and IM are culprits. I was making no jabs at the writer. Poor placement, yeah probably.

Edited February 4, 2010 by LaL

[me_4_musa 1]

msheesha you're the one that who brought up that you didn't understand those that troll forums to question and criticize people's choices when you do the same exact thing yourself regardless if it's the way someone types or not.

[~Jackie~ 30]

[morocco4ever 63]

what about those of us who have our husbands here and still do that every day?

If I ever come to visit you will you please warn me about which pillow to avoid?

[sara535 15]

If I ever come to visit you will you please warn me about which pillow to avoid?

I'm saving it special just for you.

[morocco4ever 63]

I'm saving it special just for you.

[Ban Hammer 12,876]

let's stay on topic rather than using this thread as a way to bash other members.

ahem...........bueller?

[me_4_musa 1]

If I ever come to visit you will you please warn me about which pillow to avoid?

I'm saving it special just for you.