I need advice you all some VJ memberhurt me really painfully!

[Sprailenes 47]

Is this another blanketinthewater thread??

[Nessa 23]

i agree that you should leave your husband. i can't believe you're even asking... if someone online hurt your feelings and think u should leave your husband, you should definitely trust this person over your husband.

[Ban Hammer 14,275]

i wonder if this thread is related to this thread:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...1730&st=400

[sara..... 371]

im sorry but that is NOT ur friend ur husband needs to be number one in ur life and u have to be able to trust him with ur life.........if start believing what anyone will tell u ur marraige will be in big trouble just pay attention to ur husband and talk to him about ur own insecurities, communication is the biggest thing in a marraige that can make it work

sara

[AaronM 0]

If your husband really cares for you , you should know it . Real love does not feel fake , i think you have a bad friend . And you dont need her , a real friend would never say or do anything to ever hurt there friend . A real friend would be at your side , your friend is really jelous of you . And just has a problem in your marriage , cause you two are different races . You don't deserve to feel bad , and you should'nt alow yourself to get hurt . Find another friend that makes you happy , you are much better than her . Im sorry for what your going through

[chri'stina 190]

Ummm...well if this is a real person and not a troll, know that I am writing with good intentions so even if you are a troll, who cares.

Did your friend just say it out of being protective of you? Or just out of meanness? I am not sure throwing away a friend right away is the normal thing to do just because she said this. If she always makes you feel this way, then yeah you don't need that kind of friend. But is it the first time they said something? That makes a difference to me. If a friend sees another taking a risky step, they might say something even if they are wrong...if they keep at it, then yeah don't have them around you. If it's a one time thing, you have to show them they are wrong and not to worry about you.

That's my 2 cents for now.

[missmissy 38]

i wonder if this thread is related to this thread:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...1730&st=400

That made my head hurt to read.

[Jasman0717 9]

If this isn't a joke.....

That is the question My wife is a Filipina, my ex was a Mexican, I see nothing but beauty in brown skinned women

[rclouse 0]

I keep waiting for VJ to turn into 4chan on these threads...

[aching-pain-sad 0]

Thank you everyone who left caring and supportive advice. I am better today and this song is my new motto:

Don't look at me

Every day is so wonderful

And suddenly, i saw debris

Now and then, I get insecure

From all the pain, I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say

Words can't bring me down

I am beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can't bring me down

So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends, you're delirious

So consumed in all your doom

Trying hard to fill the emptiness

The piece is gone left the puzzle undone

That's the way it is

You are beautiful no matter what they say

Words can't bring you down

You are beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can't bring you down

Don't you bring me down today...

No matter what we do

(no matter what we do)

No matter what they say

(no matter what they say)

When the sun is shining through

Then the clouds won't stay

And everywhere we go

(everywhere we go)

The sun won't always shine

(sun won't always shine)

But tomorrow will find a way

All the other times

'cause we are beautiful no matter what they say

Yes, words won't bring us down, oh no

We are beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can't bring us down

Don't you bring me down today

Don't you bring me down today

Don't you bring me down today

Thanks everyone!

Edited February 13, 2009 by aching-pain-sad

[Sprailenes 47]

*waves a lighter in the air*

[Terri and Seb 0]

We get Spice Girls AND Christina?!

[Ban Hammer 14,275]

*waves a lighter in the air*

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Ok you all I need advice! My so-called friend has hurt my feelings very badly. I am sending this message anonymously because I do not want to let my identity be known but get advice from you all anonymously. Ok here is the story:

Ok, my so-called friend told me tonight that my husband may not love me because I am not his race. He is from another country and the women there are beautiful more than my race (she told me) and he must be using me obviously for green card. Ok, I am a woman of color, mixed race Cuban/Indian and African from the islands. I am not an ugly woman but since I am brown skinned it is a red flag that my huaband should have married a light skinned woman or a woman from his country. So, can you tell me what to do?

1. How can I know what to do? Should I leave my husband?

2. Is this person just being a jerk and should I just withdraw my friendship from her?

Please you all I keep crying. Do not judge me or think bad of me or make rude comments. I have been crying an hour. She really hurt me.

-Anonymous

Quit listening to people on the internet.

[Ban Hammer 14,275]

Ok you all I need advice! My so-called friend has hurt my feelings very badly. I am sending this message anonymously because I do not want to let my identity be known but get advice from you all anonymously. Ok here is the story:

Ok, my so-called friend told me tonight that my husband may not love me because I am not his race. He is from another country and the women there are beautiful more than my race (she told me) and he must be using me obviously for green card. Ok, I am a woman of color, mixed race Cuban/Indian and African from the islands. I am not an ugly woman but since I am brown skinned it is a red flag that my huaband should have married a light skinned woman or a woman from his country. So, can you tell me what to do?

1. How can I know what to do? Should I leave my husband?

2. Is this person just being a jerk and should I just withdraw my friendship from her?

Please you all I keep crying. Do not judge me or think bad of me or make rude comments. I have been crying an hour. She really hurt me.

-Anonymous

Quit listening to people on the internet.

but you're on the internet, does that mean the op should ignore your advice and listen to people on the internet?