What Kind of Adulterer Are You?

[Amby 490]

I think one of them went to a monday night football game and had box seats and then he took her to costa rica

I am sorry but my body is not wired to cheat on anybody....

I think everyone thinks about it if they admit it or not. Not all act on those thoughts though. That's the difference.

umm no, I don't event think about cheating..

you've never seen a really sexy man and just wondered what it might be like? or how he would be in bed?

[Marilyn. 340]

I think one of them went to a monday night football game and had box seats and then he took her to costa rica

I am sorry but my body is not wired to cheat on anybody....

I think everyone thinks about it if they admit it or not. Not all act on those thoughts though. That's the difference.

umm no, I don't event think about cheating..

you've never seen a really sexy man and just wondered what it might be like? or how he would be in bed?

nope.... I think my hubby is the sexiest man alive...

[Amby 490]

I think one of them went to a monday night football game and had box seats and then he took her to costa rica

I am sorry but my body is not wired to cheat on anybody....

I think everyone thinks about it if they admit it or not. Not all act on those thoughts though. That's the difference.

umm no, I don't event think about cheating..

you've never seen a really sexy man and just wondered what it might be like? or how he would be in bed?

nope.... I think my hubby is the sexiest man alive...

I guess I'm the only person in here with a mind like a #######. Oh well!

[Marilyn. 340]

for me it was kind of like a switch went off when I met my hubby.. I can't even think about any other men like that....

[morocco4ever 63]

I told my wife in a discussion about this topic a couple years ago, if she ever cheated on me "accidentally" (to use one of the terms above), I don't want to know!!!!

As long as it wasn't going to happen again, I don't want to know!!!!

If she kept "accidentally" cheating on me, then we would have to talk about it, but other than that . . . I don't want to know!!!!

Your wife pretty much has a ticket to cheat.

ok so what if this person does it because someone did something really nice/good/kind or whatever for them and they know that that person would like nothing more than to have sex with them and so they feel obligated to give it to them. then what?

eta: I know several women that have had sex with men because they feel obligated because of something they did for them. None of them were affairs.

This could be one of the reasons we have such a bad rep here. Thanks for the stick of gum, should I give you sex now?

I think one of them went to a monday night football game and had box seats and then he took her to costa rica

I am sorry but my body is not wired to cheat on anybody....

I think everyone thinks about it if they admit it or not. Not all act on those thoughts though. That's the difference.

umm no, I don't event think about cheating..

you've never seen a really sexy man and just wondered what it might be like? or how he would be in bed?

Not even curious. Why settle for hamburger when I already have steak waiting for me at home?

[tdegrenier 1]

I guess I'm the only person in here with a mind like a #######. Oh well!

That's OK Amby, I wish there were more women like you!!!

You fit bird!

[GabachaYucateca 0]

Fantasy is a wonderful thing...the prob is when we decide to act on it.

Yes, Amby...some of us have wondered the same thing. I know that my husband has (as have I), but I trust that he wouldn't act on it.

[Waiting4GC 0]

I think one of them went to a monday night football game and had box seats and then he took her to costa rica

I am sorry but my body is not wired to cheat on anybody....

I think everyone thinks about it if they admit it or not. Not all act on those thoughts though. That's the difference.

umm no, I don't event think about cheating..

you've never seen a really sexy man and just wondered what it might be like? or how he would be in bed?

nope.... I think my hubby is the sexiest man alive...

I guess I'm the only person in here with a mind like a #######. Oh well!

Add me to the list because I don't believe for even 1 second that a person has never fantasized about another man/woman. I am guilty of it. Will I ever act on it? I am not sure but I want to say that I won't do it. So far temptation has not been as strong as to act on it but "never say never".

Edited June 11, 2008 by Waiting4GC

[Marilyn. 340]

well, I hate to prove you wrong because I have never fantasized about another man or woman since I met my hubby....

[Ban Hammer 12,835]

well, I hate to prove you wrong because I have never fantasized about another man or woman since I met my hubby....

well that's cause you never met me

[Peikko 1,575]

The article isn't talking about 'fantasy sex'. I don't do it while awake (I am not a porn fan either), but I don't see any real harm in it unless it's indulged in because there is a problem within the relationship. That's really the key for me, the communication, thinking about 'what would it be like to have sex with x person I don't know but looks fit' doesn't equal 'I want to have sex with someone other then my partner' automatically, although there are circumstances when that is exactly what it does mean.

Emotional maturity is coming to terms with what a monogomous relationship means, both the benefits and the potential downsides. Some people do feel that loss of sexual freedom of acting out each passing desire, but that again is something that a mature couple will discuss, evaluate and come to terms with. Some people don't feel that loss at all and so being monogomous comes that much easier. If you are always prepared to discuss the difficulties that might arise with your spouse though, there will never be an affair. You may split up, people can and do grow in different directions, but to just lie to your spouse about your emotional circumstances is simply unacceptable to me.

[Amby 490]

marilyn you are an exception to the rule

[Pinocchio Liberal 268]

for me it was kind of like a switch went off when I met my hubby.. I can't even think about any other men like that....

Who did you fantisize about before you met your hubby? And now you dont? hahahahahahahahahahaha

[Dr. Obvious 49]

I told my wife in a discussion about this topic a couple years ago, if she ever cheated on me "accidentally" (to use one of the terms above), I don't want to know!!!!

As long as it wasn't going to happen again, I don't want to know!!!!

If she kept "accidentally" cheating on me, then we would have to talk about it, but other than that . . . I don't want to know!!!!

Your wife pretty much has a ticket to cheat.

Why?

My husband has said exactly the same things to me. That doesn't mean I have gone out and screwed everything with a ####### in my office. I have no interest in cheating even after he said that more likely than not, he would not leave me. Why risk calling the bluff?

[DeadPoolX 9]

marilyn you are an exception to the rule

I don't think she is, unless my wife also happens to be an "exception to the rule."

I really don't think that many people are interested in committing adultery. You might hear about it a lot, but like any piece of bad news, it's generally thought to be more interesting than good news. Even if half (that's 50%) of couples had cheated on one another at some point or are continuing to do so, the news would focus on the negative, pointing out how many men and women -- primarily men, however, since many still believe that women can't cheat on their spouse -- while completely ignoring the fact that there would be another 50% of couples who have not cheated, will not cheat and aren't interested in cheating at all.

Looking at someone of the opposite sex or imagining something isn't cheating; you can't be expected to regulate your thoughts and if nothing occurs, then adultery didn't take place. Besides, there's nothing wrong with admiring a good looking person. Problems set in once action takes place and what started out as mere admiration turns into physical play.

I will admit that I have stolen glances at other women -- both in real life and either online or in magazines -- but at the end of the day, I wouldn't ever want to be with anyone but my wife.