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[norcal_56 0]

I have noticed that many of the advice that is given on this site by people are often not true

at all. I would urge people to do a lot of research themselves into their issues and not believe blindly

in what is told here. I have myself gone through the k3/k4 process for

my wife and step daughter and I have found that many statements, even guides are completely wrong.

Example . I had problems with my wifes/daughters i-94 cards where they put the wrong date stamp, They had put 3 months expirations (as if it was k1 and not k3/k4) on the cards. Here I was given the advice that the only way to solve it was to for my wife to leave the country and come back.

I solved the problem myself by making an appointment at the customs and border patrol office in San Francisco. There they corrected the problem.

Another issue I have been given the wrong answer for is the adjustment of status process and work permit. It's not true at all like it says on here that you have to adjust status and then get the work permit. NO it's quite the opposite in some situations it's better to get the work permit before applying for AOS, otherwise it will take longer time to get work permit and social sec number. For my step daughter especially it was urgent to get ssn number as soon as possible because of her medical

condition. I did not even have to file for work permit. All I had to do was to go to the nearest ssn

office and they took care of it.

Bottom line ... Do research yourself, don't believe what they say. Read the documents carefully

and be persistent when you believe you are right.

[jundibasam 0]

I have noticed that many of the advice that is given on this site by people are often not true

at all. I would urge people to do a lot of research themselves into their issues and not believe blindly

in what is told here. I have myself gone through the k3/k4 process for

my wife and step daughter and I have found that many statements, even guides are completely wrong.

Example . I had problems with my wifes/daughters i-94 cards where they put the wrong date stamp, They had put 3 months expirations (as if it was k1 and not k3/k4) on the cards. Here I was given the advice that the only way to solve it was to for my wife to leave the country and come back.

I solved the problem myself by making an appointment at the customs and border patrol office in San Francisco. There they corrected the problem.

Another issue I have been given the wrong answer for is the adjustment of status process and work permit. It's not true at all like it says on here that you have to adjust status and then get the work permit. NO it's quite the opposite in some situations it's better to get the work permit before applying for AOS, otherwise it will take longer time to get work permit and social sec number. For my step daughter especially it was urgent to get ssn number as soon as possible because of her medical

condition. I did not even have to file for work permit. All I had to do was to go to the nearest ssn

office and they took care of it.

Bottom line ... Do research yourself, don't believe what they say. Read the documents carefully

and be persistent when you believe you are right.

I don't think any of the VJ members intend to give bad advice, but that is what it is...advice. VJ and its members never claim to provide legal advice or even advice that is accurate, and I think it is only common sense for someone to do their own research or pay a professional immigration attorney if they cannot navigate the immigration gauntlet themselves. For instance, viewing the FAQ on SSA website about getting a SSN and even reviewing USCIS website will show that k-3/k-4 visa beneficiaries are eligible for a SSN upon entry to the U.S. Reviewing USCIS website will also have revealed that an incorrect I-94 can usually be fixed by going to a CBP office or USCIS office. There are multiple sources of information out there that provide a wealth of information on the immigration process. This site is just one piece, thats all. But out of all the unregulated sites out there, I have found this one to be the most accurate and informative. They have been almost dead on with regards to the current processing times.

Also, people give advise on here based on their own experiences, and experiences can be quite different from member to member, but from my own experiences it has been mostly accurate and good advice given here. There are instances when the information is wrong or misrepresented, but it is what it is and you take it with a grain of salt. Personally, I research everything and that includes reviewing topics, guides, and posts on this website. The more people that have the same advice about a similar issue, the more likelihood it is accurate.

[sunandmoon 450]

I can agree with you that one should do their own research and not rely solely on advise given in the Forum. however your statement

I have noticed that many of the advice that is given on this site by people are often not true

at all.

, I do not agree with. are you saying more bad than good advise is given?

[jundibasam 0]

I have noticed that many of the advice that is given on this site by people are often not true

at all. I would urge people to do a lot of research themselves into their issues and not believe blindly

in what is told here. I have myself gone through the k3/k4 process for

my wife and step daughter and I have found that many statements, even guides are completely wrong.

Example . I had problems with my wifes/daughters i-94 cards where they put the wrong date stamp, They had put 3 months expirations (as if it was k1 and not k3/k4) on the cards. Here I was given the advice that the only way to solve it was to for my wife to leave the country and come back.

I solved the problem myself by making an appointment at the customs and border patrol office in San Francisco. There they corrected the problem.

Another issue I have been given the wrong answer for is the adjustment of status process and work permit. It's not true at all like it says on here that you have to adjust status and then get the work permit. NO it's quite the opposite in some situations it's better to get the work permit before applying for AOS, otherwise it will take longer time to get work permit and social sec number. For my step daughter especially it was urgent to get ssn number as soon as possible because of her medical

condition. I did not even have to file for work permit. All I had to do was to go to the nearest ssn

office and they took care of it.

Bottom line ... Do research yourself, don't believe what they say. Read the documents carefully

and be persistent when you believe you are right.

I don't think any of the VJ members intend to give bad advice, but that is what it is...advice. VJ and its members never claim to provide legal advice or even advice that is accurate, and I think it is only common sense for someone to do their own research or pay a professional immigration attorney if they cannot navigate the immigration gauntlet themselves. For instance, viewing the FAQ on SSA website about getting a SSN and even reviewing USCIS website will show that k-3/k-4 visa beneficiaries are eligible for a SSN upon entry to the U.S. Reviewing USCIS website will also have revealed that an incorrect I-94 can usually be fixed by going to a CBP office or USCIS office. There are multiple sources of information out there that provide a wealth of information on the immigration process. This site is just one piece, thats all. But out of all the unregulated sites out there, I have found this one to be the most accurate and informative. They have been almost dead on with regards to the current processing times.

Also, people give advise on here based on their own experiences, and experiences can be quite different from member to member, but from my own experiences it has been mostly accurate and good advice given here. There are instances when the information is wrong or misrepresented, but it is what it is and you take it with a grain of salt. Personally, I research everything and that includes reviewing topics, guides, and posts on this website. The more people that have the same advice about a similar issue, the more likelihood it is accurate.

One more thing, the AOS guide on here posted advice on filing the I-485 AOS petition, and it stated that you only needed to send the immunization records if the K visa was issued within the last 12 months and that was posted long before USCIS provided the same information on their website. Additionally, Jame's shortcuts when having a I-130 CR1/IR1 petition at the NVC have worked for countless people in shaving 2-4 months off the NVC processing times.

[Passing.star 0]

In my own experience, I think that VJ has given me a lot of help with regards to my journey in immigration. Of course you just don't have to rely to what people say here but do your homework by reading the USCIS sites.

[darkhorse 0]

Also, people give advise on here based on their own experiences, and experiences can be quite different from member to member, but from my own experiences it has been mostly accurate and good advice given here. There are instances when the information is wrong or misrepresented, but it is what it is and you take it with a grain of salt. Personally, I research everything and that includes reviewing topics, guides, and posts on this website. The more people that have the same advice about a similar issue, the more likelihood it is accurate.

I agree with you on this.

[sunandmoon 450]

Also, people give advise on here based on their own experiences, and experiences can be quite different from member to member, but from my own experiences it has been mostly accurate and good advice given here. There are instances when the information is wrong or misrepresented, but it is what it is and you take it with a grain of salt. Personally, I research everything and that includes reviewing topics, guides, and posts on this website. The more people that have the same advice about a similar issue, the more likelihood it is accurate.

I agree with you on this.

I second that

[EstebanTrabajos 7]

Doing research means that you have to look into different sources before accepting the hypothesis, well this is just like in science class. If life was as easy as getting the right response on your first try, well...all of us wouldn't need to put any effort into anything.

The easiest next thing you could do is to PAY a lawyer and avoid any issues...

I'm sorry but, personally, I'm truly grateful to VJ and I completely disagree with your statement.

Edited May 15, 2008 by GueraYTavo

[soulprovider915 4]

The easiest next thing you could do is to PAY a lawyer and avoid any issues...

I'm not sure if a lawyer is even a 100% guarantee. I've seen plenty of mistakes from them too.

[BMJ 0]

I am sorry you are not happy with the information you are finding on the forums and are not having a very good experience. For some of us however, who are very new to all this, this forum is an answer to our dreams. When you are the only person you know going through the immigration process and no one you know can give you advice it really helps to know there are others out there who are going through the same thing. It is encouraging to know that people who filed around the time you filed are starting to get responses. It is heartwarming to see when people finally get their visas and know that soon it will be your time and while it is hard there is hope and not to give up.

For me, this forum gives me a piece of mind. It gives me a starting point on things to look up, it gives me the chance to talk with others who are dealing with the same things I am. I am very grateful that this forum is here.

[EstebanTrabajos 7]

The easiest next thing you could do is to PAY a lawyer and avoid any issues...

I'm not sure if a lawyer is even a 100% guarantee. I've seen plenty of mistakes from them too.

Exactomondo! good point ecuatorian brother, even they make mistakes ohhh if they do. A quick search on this forum will bring plenty of examples indeed

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Only a fool would blindly take the advice of someone on a message board without researching it.

However, VJ has been a godsend for me, I wouldn't have been able to do it without a lawyer had it not been for this site.

[Marcus and Laura 4]

I would have to say that VJ and the people on it hae been very useful to me, but yes i certainly didn't use it as my only source of information on the process. For the most part I used one of the immigration guides that you can buy off Amazon and that proved to be most useful, having being compiled by numerous immigration lawyers.

[JandC 0]

VJ got me through my K1 and AOS without any problems....its pretty much all I used. Sure...some information given is wrong but the amount of right information out weights the wrong tenfold! This place is a gold mine....and i owe so much to the kind members who have helped me through every step of my journey so far.

[JeffMayeth 0]

All filers should do their assignment!!! VJ is a good place to share experiences..... you asked questions or share experiences, others do the same, somebody answers and share their own thoughts....whatever they knew about the topic.. but don't just rely on other people's experiences...

Read the guides here but also don't forget to read the guides in USCIS website and try to compare it.

In the end, judgement and decision is yours...

I owe VJ a lot! I'm thankful this site exist!

I'm sorry that you felt that way on VJ!