Me & D's Visa Journey....

[Krikit 1,163]

RebeccaJo... that was a lovely post. I had tears in my eyes.

Lisa.... it sounds like you are at peace. And peace is a very elusive, but wonderful, thing. All the best to you, my dear.

Edited February 29, 2008 by Crikey!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Lisa,

Hope you are doing ok sister. I'm thinking about you.

Lenina

[Ban Hammer 12,901]

i'll miss you on vj

[isleta521 5]

Hope the best for you and Dave. I am happy for you and I know that you will find happiness with His help.

[Mary Lou 677]

Lisa,

All the best to you in whatever life throws your way. Your a strong and determined woman, and it sounds like you are coping well and will be alright.

Take Care

Mary Lou

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

May happiness and joy be with you always.

Best of luck wherever life may lead you Lisa.

[GeordieWife 1]

Lisa,

There are people here who really care about you and personally...I love reading your banter with folks here. PLEASE don't let this be the end of you posting here. We've 'bonded' with you via your posts and to not have you post anymore would be a loss for us too. Check in now and again so we know you are OK. I'm glad you are well and sure in your decisions. I wish you much happiness, and peace too. See you around okay!

[LuzyC 0]

God bless you Lisa..I'm gonna miss you..

Gary and I wish you all the best always!

[munchkins 0]

Oh Lisa, I just do not know what to say, It has been so long since I have been on here with work and the house and the new rotty puppy that I could not believe what I was reading, my heart goes out to you, but knowing you as I feel I do I know that you have not taken this decision lightly and also how much you must be hurting right now.

I had pm'd you before I read this, so in case you read this I will call you this weekend, we'll still have that get together girl!!!!

Lisa you are such a vibrant spirit and you will bounce back and I know that you and D will remain friends, and I hope that one day, he will come to visit you, would love to meet up with you both

You are in my thoughts Lis, will call you this weekend,

To all who I have known on here and who remain to support "newbies" Hi and hope all is well with you and your loved ones. Me!! I am just great, best move we ever made, beautiful house, got the job I wanted, wonderful new rotty puppy clled "Morgan" what else ) a fitting tribute to a wonderful dog who did not make the big move over the pond with us as I am sure some will remember, we lost him to cancer the week before we flew. But this little beggar is as loved a he was )

You all remain in my thoughts, how you are all getting on, I hope that things are all you wanted them to be )

Val

[Jeraly 4]

*hugs*

I'm a firm believer in things happening for a reason and everything working out the way it is meant to. Be strong and know that whatever happens you always have friends here

(oh and it doesn't mean you get to go run away either - there is no point in leaving friends behind )

Aly

[eau_xplain 2]

Lisa,

Your last post was beautiful. I could almost feel the peace and sense of freedom that you talked about. I wish you the best.

-Xenia

[homesick_american 1]

Lisa, I'm pretty sure you'd have to be a monster to *enjoy* watching someone else lose something like that.

I'm so sorry, and I hope you will find a solution, if not now, then down the road.

Oh, I don't know; I got plenty of triumphant "I told you so's" when my marriage ended. Not saying who from; they know who they are.

Incidentally, the divorce is still pending but we're near to the end. We're not looking to screw one another financially, which is good because there's a substantial amount of payola involved. Luckily I persuaded him to do the divorce in Texas, so he can't ask for spousal support even though I make twice what he does.

I'd advise LisaD to NOT do a divorce in the UK.

There's life afterwards, by the way. I'm now engaged to someone else; the wedding is later this year.

Peace out.

[Marilyn. 340]

Lisa, I'm pretty sure you'd have to be a monster to *enjoy* watching someone else lose something like that.

I'm so sorry, and I hope you will find a solution, if not now, then down the road.

Oh, I don't know; I got plenty of triumphant "I told you so's" when my marriage ended. Not saying who from; they know who they are.

Incidentally, the divorce is still pending but we're near to the end. We're not looking to screw one another financially, which is good because there's a substantial amount of payola involved. Luckily I persuaded him to do the divorce in Texas, so he can't ask for spousal support even though I make twice what he does.

I'd advise LisaD to NOT do a divorce in the UK.

There's life afterwards, by the way. I'm now engaged to someone else; the wedding is later this year.

Peace out.

i don't think they were married....

I am sorry to hear of this Lisa.... glad things ended friendly though...

[homesick_american 1]

i don't think they were married....

I am sorry to hear of this Lisa.... glad things ended friendly though...

It's been so long since I've been here that I honestly can't remember who's applying for what.

In any case I'd advise anyone married to a Brit to check both sets of divorce laws. There are some definite stingers in British divorce law, one in particular that had the potential to screw me royally. In my case, Texas divorce law worked out to my advantage so that's the jurisdiction I chose. Just waiting on the final settlement doc to come back from him so I can prove it up in court and be done with him once and for all.

I've been back in America since late June and it's the best thing I ever did. No regrets. None. B)

[Ban Hammer 12,901]

i don't think they were married....

I am sorry to hear of this Lisa.... glad things ended friendly though...

It's been so long since I've been here that I honestly can't remember who's applying for what.

In any case I'd advise anyone married to a Brit to check both sets of divorce laws. There are some definite stingers in British divorce law, one in particular that had the potential to screw me royally. In my case, Texas divorce law worked out to my advantage so that's the jurisdiction I chose. Just waiting on the final settlement doc to come back from him so I can prove it up in court and be done with him once and for all.

I've been back in America since late June and it's the best thing I ever did. No regrets. None. B)

i've missed you on vj