Problem My K1 visa applicant is here I suspect fraud

[Ban Hammer 12,878]

yeah i apoligize, but still it is something that should be considered in the future.

i'm sure if the shoes were on your feet you'd not appreciate such a comment. try at least to have some compassion. after all, he's one of us - a usc - trying to do what he feels is right.

Edited April 27, 2006 by charlesandnessa

[snz1802 0]

I am so sorry to hear this, I remember seeing your posts in the beginning phases....I hope you get things take care of and resolved in the best way you can, wishing you the best

~Stacey

[Vagina Journey 0]

Robert best of luck in whatever route you decide to take, ~Kelle

[Ladylethal 12]

Sorry to hear about that and hope you´ll be well after all this passes.

[David&Erin_Owens 0]

A wife who installed spyware on her husband's computer to secretly record evidence of an extramarital affair violated state law.

http://news.com.com/Court+Wife+broke+law+w..._3-5577979.html

Don't worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea

just make sure the next fish is within a decade of your age and you probbly won't have this problem next time.

That's just rude. You shouldn't make personal judgements on anyone else's relationships. He didn't ask for advice on whom he should marry, and so therefore you should keep comments like those to yourself.

[Robin28 2]

The reality is .. that it is never one persons place to judge another ! Life is filled with choices that need to be made .. and we are all human... we don't always make the right ones .. it's that simple. All of us have most probably experienced heart ache of some kind .. We grow and we change and we learn from our mistakes .. and from our pain without the added insult of being judged by a stranger with little information ........ You will remain in my thoughts

Robin ~

[markv 0]

I am embarressd to post time but my fiancee is here from Bogota and think here under false pretenses. I suspected something was up so I installed a software on my computer to track email and messenger. She is professing her love to someone and making plans to flee in the country. If I book here a return flight to Bogota do I need to escort her home. The flight has a connection in Houston. If her plan is to flee she could run at the airport or never make the connection in Houston is flying by herself. I can not belive this is happening but what is my responsibilty to make sure she leaves the country? Wow a almost a year to get a visa, and one week to find out it is all bogus.

Thanks for your help/advice

Robert

Robert I was wondering what made you think something was up in the first place.

Sorry things look bad,but you never really know why people do the things they do.

Better to find out now I guess then later.

[vickky 0]

sorry to hear this , what an ill feelin this might caused u, take time and follow ur heart, best of goodluck

vick

[dmartmar 1]

Not to be nosy or anything but; how did you guys meet? Did you get to know her well before you started the K1 process?

Hey, it doesn't matter how long he knew her for or didn't. My ex-wife tried to pull the same trick on me after 1 year and a half of dating IN PERSON! You just can't imagine how some immigrants are great actors and should be nominated for Oscars.

In my case, I got the 'CIS to send her packin' back home, empty-handed. Score one for the good guys!

Edited April 27, 2006 by dmartmar

[Jenn! 918]

Not to be nosy or anything but; how did you guys meet? Did you get to know her well before you started the K1 process?

Hey, it doesn't matter how long he knew her for or didn't. My ex-wife tried to pull the same trick on me after 1 year and a half of dating IN PERSON!

I think it's totally relevant. Of course there are exceptions, as in your case, but wouldn't you say that, in general, it's harder to keep that act up if you know someone for years before starting the immigration process?

[Matt_Stevens 5]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

[kaydee457 13]

A wife who installed spyware on her husband's computer to secretly record evidence of an extramarital affair violated state law.

http://news.com.com/Court+Wife+broke+law+w..._3-5577979.html

Don't worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea

just make sure the next fish is within a decade of your age and you probbly won't have this problem next time.

To all. My apologies in advance for diverting from topic but I cannot let this idjit's, ryecatcher, comments go unnoticed.

ryecatcher- You clearly have some issues to deal with as you are the worst kind of bigot. My wife and I are happily married with a 25 year age spread!

There are many others with here in these forums with similar age differences. Keep your twisted opinions to yourself from this point out, [please!

Back to the topic-

Robert, sorry to hear of your troubles. I think you know, intuitively what you need to do.

Good luck!

[Mand 1]

First: document, document, document. If you have evidence on the computer, record it. Print it out. Make sure it is datestamped. If there are phone calls on your phone bill, keep records of them. Do this on an ongoing basis, to build up as much evidence of what is going on as is possible. This is to protect yourself should she in future decide to claim abuse against you or some other method of legally staying in the US.

Second: Once you have no question of what is actually going on, confront her. Find out her intentions. You never know, she may decide to capitulate and stay with you - although whether or not you would want to stay with her would likely be in doubt.

Third: Contact USCIS. Tell them your situation. Describe to them the evidence you have. Tell them you expect her to flee and overstay. Tell them she entered using a fraudulent K-1, and that you are the unknowing USC petitioner. USCIS takes a VERY DIM VIEW of fraud. They will do one of three things:

- nothing

- deport her (probably expedited removal)

- charge her with fraud, and then deport her (probably expedited removal)

No matter what, protect yourself. Remember, you are the victim at this point, and you need to do everything you can to protect yourself. And the best way you have right now is to document EVERYTHING.

Sound advice there for you Robert. Chin up and hope you are doing ok today.

[kaydee457 13]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

Another one of those incredibly stupid comments!

Once again, bigoted opinon based on nothing more than narrow minded prejudice.

[tmma 467]

A wife who installed spyware on her husband's computer to secretly record evidence of an extramarital affair violated state law.

http://news.com.com/Court+Wife+broke+law+w..._3-5577979.html

Don't worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea

just make sure the next fish is within a decade of your age and you probbly won't have this problem next time.

How insensitive! Do you really think that comment helped in any way, other than to have a quick shot at making someone who already feels hurt and used more miserable?

Anyway-Robert-I am so sorry.

I am sure in your heart you know what you must do.

best wishes to you-take care-we are all here to support you in any way we can!

Michele.