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Well on Sunday they found a heartbeat and the "fetal pole" so my "blighted ovum" turned out to be a baby. My fee bills got all messed up so no packages have even started to be generated even though I finished USCIS November 26th and I have been at NVC since December 11th.

I am starting to get really depressed about the process and alot of other things. I do not know how much of it has to do with I am pregnant the monster long drug out process at NVC. My husband seems all calm ( I am pregnant so he is not real jealous about me now or worried Ill give up or go anywhere. I am just freaking sick and tired of immigration, sick and tired of waiting. Sick and tired of my lawyer making mistake after mistake ( he could have called and verified that there would not be a fee increase January 1st before he sent my fee bill causing another month delay. I am just depressed, sad , sick, my asthma is driving me crazy, hormonal... you name it. I want him with me. I am terrified some other dumb #### thing will go wrong.

And then he just told me that when he was in the service 8 years ago he did some dumb #### things when he was enlisted and I am afraid he will somehow get in trouble for that 8 year old ####### ( he was eventually honorably discharged and now he works for city government, I am just stressing about every retarded thing imaginable and getting upset and stressed, emotional and nervous... You name it.. I dont know how much is immigration and how much it is being a 40 year old pregnant woman with my hormones raging and flying around.

My car broke down again on Saturday in the rain at night in front of Olive Garden. I ended up back at the hospital Sunday ( thats when they saw the heartbeat) and now I am in a loaner from the mechanic and my car STill is not fixed. I just want a hug. Or my house cleaned by someone else. Or oh hell I do not know, a bathroom remodel.

I think I have gone insane

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If it makes you feel any better my husband just cleaned up a spill on the living room carpet with bleach. Who does that???????????

Congrats on the baby and hope you feel better.

*Hugs*

:lol::lol::lol:


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If it makes you feel any better my husband just cleaned up a spill on the living room carpet with bleach. Who does that???????????

Congrats on the baby and hope you feel better.

*Hugs*

moody! there you are! :dancing: where have you been!


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Hang in there girl.I know you are stressed out and about at your wits end.The pregnancy hormones getting the best of you.And an attorney that is falling down on the job.WE are here so don't feel alone.Take Care and I am sooooo very happy the little one is growing and doing well.God Bless

Maranda (L)


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I think it is a bad day for everyone today.

Just hang in there.....hugs to you!!!!


Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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hang in there! Hopefully things will get better soon.

If it makes you feel any better, I too got slammed by the fee incrase. I mailed my $380 money order only to be told by NVC last night when I alled for status update that it incrased and they rejecte d my payment. Sepnt half an hour last night on the phone with 3 diff. people and they had to call another dept to find out (after they told me 2 diff stories) that I am unable to just send them a $20 money order along with the 380 one. I have to get a brand new money order!!:(

GGRRR


June 14, 2007 Sent I130 to Vermont Service Center via USPS overnight

June 15, 2007 Confirmed on usps.com that VSC has received packet

June 29, 2007 Check cashed by USCIS (hey they opened my packet!)

June 30, 2007 Received NOA1

July 7, 2007 I130 touched

July 9, 2007 I130 touched

July 10, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 24, 2007 I130 touched

Aug. 26, 2007 I130 touched (stop feeling up my husband's case and get him over here, yala!)

Oct. 1, 2007 On my way to Palestine

Oct. 5, 2007 I130 approved, transferrerd to NVC YAY!!!!

Oct. 16, 2007 Return to US, ranks one of the saddest day of my life:(

Oct. 27, 2007 Agent form/AOS bill received from NVC

Nov 1, 2007 Overnighted AOS payment to NVC

Nov. 29, 2007 Received AOS form from NVC

Dec. 20, 2007 overnighted I864 packet to NVC

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hang in there


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10/05/2006 filled :)

05/03/2007 interview -> AP -> hell -> AP -> 9 months of AP Hell - 2 home visits :(

01/26/2008 visa in hand with a typo :(

02/03/2008 2 weeks more of waiting.... Visa in hand...... :)

2/20/2008 on US soil :)

2/21/2008 marriage :)

AOS

03/12/2008 Sent AOS/Work/Travel

03/16/2008 shows delivered chicago

4/12/2008 check cashed :)

4/13/2008 NOA's for all 3

4/18/2008 bio letter

4/29/2008 bio appt.

5/06/2008 RFE 2007 tax return

5/07/2008 returned RFE overnight

5/08/2008 received-lees summit

5/12/08 case updated online/RFE received

5/27/08 checked the website for the third time today -says AP and EAD approval letter sent 5/24- it was not updated online till today - and no e-mail update either

5/27/08 emails sent in afternoon AP and EAD approvals

5/29/08 AP touch

5/29/08 email EAD card production ordered

6/02/08 AP in hand

6/03/08 email EAD card mailed

6/05/08 EAD card in hand :)

7/28/08 AOS letter received

9/02/08 AOS interview

9/10/08 card production ordered email :)

9/17/08 welcome letter email and snail mail arrive same day

9/19/08 Greencard in hand :)

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Better days are coming. I promise. (F)


Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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If it makes you feel any better my husband just cleaned up a spill on the living room carpet with bleach. Who does that???????????

Congrats on the baby and hope you feel better.

*Hugs*

um.... well last time I talked to him by phone he said something to make me upset, then upset me more.... and everything is making me upset right now..

I am hungry

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( thats when they saw the heartbeat)

Hey, everything will be fine.

You know what should keep you strong now? This little, helpless heartbeat to which you are home and shelter now....! :)

Be good to yourself .....! (F)


07-25-07 petition sent

08-07-07 NOA1

01-23-08 NOA2, 182 days after filing

02-11-08 medical

03-04-08 interview in Frankfurt---approved!

03-11-8 Visa in hand --- what a heck of a procedure for this little sticker ;-)

06-16-08 flight to IAD

07-11-08 Wedding in Santa Barbara, CA

08-07-8 AOS package sent

08-10-08 AOS package delivered to Chicago lockbox

08-14-08 check cashed

08-13-08 NOA1 for EAD,AP,AOS

09-03-08 Biometrics appointment

10-02-08 Case transferred to CSC

10-16-08 EAD and AP approved

01-26-09 AOS approved w/o interview

01-31-09 PERMANENT RESIDENT CARD RECEIVED

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If it makes you feel any better my husband just cleaned up a spill on the living room carpet with bleach. Who does that???????????

Congrats on the baby and hope you feel better.

*Hugs*

awwwwww now that is the type of thing you will laugh about one day .... probably not in the near future but someday!!!


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