~happyndinlove~

one troll ejected.

You could try this:
http://paganism-wicca.yoexpert.com/magic-and-spellwork/how-can-i-use-a-neighbor-banishing-spell-to-get-ri-1307.html

I would start parking all my vehicles in front of her house for a few weeks so maybe she would clue in to how inconsiderate it is, but from how you've described her, I doubt that would work.

Odd that someone who just joined a few days ago and has made 9 borderline insulting posts, including the 2 here.

We decided to go Rambo!

We decided to go Rambo!

Honey, you may have improved your questioning skill, but your listening still needs a lot of work.

Again.. You are arguing semantics and at this point - handing me the W.
The underlined part of your quote is the basis of my argument. Thanks for making it easy for me.
( & I never stated 1 time meeting would cause a denial. Please don't twist my words or put words in my mouth)

Not every1 is you Hank. & IMO - not wise to assume every VJs process will mirror yours. Better to give full & fair disclosure than take a chance.
It's easy to say - Zero issue - what if ..after reading your Zero issue...OP gets lax on building relationship evidence. (& then) Walks in without sufficient evidence supporting ongoing relationship. Would it still be a Zero Issue? Newbies now & in the future lean heavy on a visa veteran's advice. Why not do it right the first time than have to do it again? I'm not a fan of RFE...
So let me ask you 2 Q's - Did you provide any evidence of ongoing relationship during your process? & Do you think it is important to be ready for possible scrutiny?
(btw...you noted I used the word - could...right? ...You retyped it so you must have)

Did you notice the ?..? It was a question not a suggestion. Don't twist my word.

I did read your entire post. I did not misinterpret your post.
Didn't you notice the question marks at the end of each phrase? I asked questions hoping to garner clarification.
You clarified. Thanks.
(There are so many threads (in this forum) regarding the "money topic", I have lost count.)
2 more questions please.
1) Are you (simply) stating...that you love your fiancee and you accept the responsibility of helping her family?
2) Does your relationship (with your fiancee) require helping the family as a relationship thriller/killer?

You now need the CFO if you're married to a foreigner and applying for or renewing a passport. I'm not sure why, maybe they thought some were sneaking out without going through the CFO, or its assumed you will be leaving because you're getting a passport.
"As Filipinos going abroad as fiancé(e)s, spouses or other partners of foreign nationals, you are required to attend the CFO's guidance and counseling session in order to secure the Guidance and Counseling Certificate (GCC) and the CFO sticker. You need this certificate to renew or apply for a new passport at the Department of Foreign Affairs (per Department of Foreign Affairs Order Nos. 11-97 Implementing Rules and Regulations for Republic Act 8239, "Philippine Passport Act" and 28-94). "

Real relationship should have the element of trust. Prenup can be interpreted of not having trust to your partner. As a woman I would be offended with it and it may cause bad vibes to your application. Real relationship is real happiness. Good luck!

If she's the one for you and you'd never leave her and will worship her forever...then why even bother?
Unless, you have doubts?

Let's stereotype American women. There are many Filipina women who are scammers, cheats, gold-diggers and liars.That's not my opinion, but something factual.

It appears they do
Philippine Prenuptial Agreement 101
Preparing a prenuptial agreement in the Philippines is relatively easy since Philippine laws do not require the agreement between the future spouses to be registered in a government office to be binding between the parties.
However, in order to be assured of the authenticity of the agreement, it is a good idea to execute the prenuptial agreement in a public document. Also, as security for the properties which may be affected by the agreement, and in order to bind third parties, Philippine law requires the recording of the prenuptial agreement in the Local Civil Registry where the marriage is celebrated, and at the Register of Deeds of the province where the affected property is located.
In the Philippines, the term prenuptial agreement is used interchangeably with premarital agreement or ante-nuptial agreement.
Under the Family Code of Philippines, the prenuptial agreement, which must be in writing, should be executed prior to the celebration of the marriage, and signed by the future spouses. Any modification or amendment thereto may only be allowed before the celebration of the marriage.
Manila Visa, however, stresses that both the Local Civil Registry and the Register of Deeds will not allow the registration of the prenuptial agreement unless the marriage has been celebrated for the logical reason that the said agreement shall take effect only after the celebration of the marriage.
Manila Visa further explains that if the marriage settlement does not specifically provide which law shall govern the property relations of the future spouses, the general rule is that Philippine laws pertaining to the law on property shall govern all the properties involved.
This rule, however, does not apply in any of the following instances:
a) Where both spouses are aliens;
b) With respect to the extrinsic or formal validity of contracts executed outside the Philippines pertaining to properties situated outside the Philippines;
c) With respect to the extrinsic validity of contracts, which, although executed in the Philippines, pertains to properties situated outside the Philippines.
Under Philippine laws, all provisions stipulated in the prenuptial agreement in consideration of the future marriage shall be rendered void if the marriage does not take place. However, all the other stipulations which do not depend on the celebration of the marriage shall be considered valid and binding.
In the actual drafting of the prenuptial agreement, Manila Visa advises clients to attach in the agreement a list of all the assets, liabilities, approximate current income, expected gifts and inheritances, and all the other separate properties of both parties prior to the celebration of marriage in order to avoid confusion later in the marriage.
“Separate Properties” of the spouses may be defined as all their separate real or personal properties, whether consisting of rights, titles, or interests to said properties, wherever they may be located, prior to the celebration of the marriage.
In the same manner that all the separate properties of each spouse brought into the marriage shall remain in their full ownership during the marriage, all the debts and obligations incurred by a spouse prior to the celebration of the marriage shall accordingly remain to be the responsibility and obligation of said lender/borrower spouse.
Other collateral provisions, such as support for the children or the daily expenses of the family, and other related matters agreed upon by the parties may likewise be stipulated in the prenuptial agreement provided it is not contrary to law or public morals.
If one of the parties has children from a previous marriage, the future spouses may also provide a stipulation in the prenuptial agreement so that certain assets shall be reserved for the welfare of the children.
Manila Visa, however explains that under Philippine laws, the welfare of the children from a previous marriage is already protected by reserving the assets of the previous marriage for the benefit of said children. Thus, such a stipulation in the prenuptial agreement becomes necessary only if the future spouses decide to grant upon the said children additional properties other than what is provided for by the law.
Any form of agreement or contract is allowed and there is no prohibition or requirement as to the external or formal validity of the contract, as long as there was no duress, undue influence, or vitiated consent upon any of the parties, in the execution of the agreement.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/328357-h0tels-in-manila/

ALL of the above!?
Some people have this "I got here before you did so therefore, I am way above ya" attitude.

Since the hotel question pops up every now and then so, I thought posting this thread migh help.
Here's a list of the HOTELS near St. Luke's and US Embassy, Manila.
I hope for this thread to be pinned.
* Bayview Park
* Boulevard Mansion
* Casa Bocobo
* Casa Nicarosa
* Cherry Blossoms
* City Garden Suites
* CityState Tower
* Diamond
* Eurotel
* Executive Plaza
* G-Hotel
* Gran Prix
* Hostel1632
* Hotel Frendy
* Hyatt (Deluxe)
* Hotel Kinberly
* La Corona
* Las Palmas
* Le Mirage De Malate (and their) Baywatch Tower
* Lotus Garden
* Mabini Mansion
* Malate Pensionne
* Malvar Hostel
* Manila Hotel
* Manila Manor
* Manila Pavilion
* Midland Plaza
* Miramar
* Palm Plaza
* Pan Pacific
* Pearl Manila
* Pearl Garden
* Pearl Lane
* Riviera Mansion
* Rosas Garden
* Rothman
This might help current and future members identify their "wants and likes".

Since the hotel question pops up every now and then so, I thought posting this thread migh help.
Here's a list of the HOTELS near St. Luke's and US Embassy, Manila.
I hope for this thread to be pinned.
* Bayview Park
* Boulevard Mansion
* Casa Bocobo
* Casa Nicarosa
* Cherry Blossoms
* City Garden Suites
* CityState Tower
* Diamond
* Eurotel
* Executive Plaza
* G-Hotel
* Gran Prix
* Hostel1632
* Hotel Frendy
* Hyatt (Deluxe)
* Hotel Kinberly
* La Corona
* Las Palmas
* Le Mirage De Malate (and their) Baywatch Tower
* Lotus Garden
* Mabini Mansion
* Malate Pensionne
* Malvar Hostel
* Manila Hotel
* Manila Manor
* Manila Pavilion
* Midland Plaza
* Miramar
* Palm Plaza
* Pan Pacific
* Pearl Manila
* Pearl Garden
* Pearl Lane
* Riviera Mansion
* Rosas Garden
* Rothman
This might help current and future members identify their "wants and likes".

Well...It's good you recognize that.
Love is not marriage.
Just bcoz a person loves another...does not always green light marriage. Much more to the marriage equation.

Some of the best advice I have seen on this site. Lets hope he is smart enough to listen and act.

(Based on your explanation)
Start with this...,

Follow with this...,


(if needed) Repeat until you burn a memory stamp deep in your psyche.
Cheating is cheating and is never acceptable. Lawyer up and make a quick clean break.
(Oh and)...Get your game face on. Play both sides of the ball. Anticipate the worst. Protect yourself and show no mercy.
Good luck.

As you discovered, the ex is more than just an "old friend."
She was cheating on you, she got caught, and now she's lying about it. Case closed.
I have a zero-tolerance policy with partners who are cheaters and liars. For me, the trust that's been broken can't be repaired.

Yes she does, fortunately I have a smart wife. She would be very able to handle that. It is good you taught your wife what to do when you abuse her.