lil mama

Nothing financially together as I wasnot residing there and have no usa address. Marriage certificate was included in list.

Pictures during relationship and from wedding , rings , copy of I94 shows how many times I traveled into usa per month to see him, marriage certificate. Text messages and call lists.

Yes I am not the resident so he has to apply in his state of jersey

Not yet he was refusing to do it until recently and claims he will be also sending in a letter to cancel spousal visa.

Exactly I'm not going to lie at consulate and say marriage is good. I followed the protocols and filed the spousal visa and returned to canada until visa would be approved. The abuse happened before the spousal visa could be approved and therefore I was not cohabitating with my husband. It's a stipulation I had no control over and all I can do is try to plead my case. I unfortunately suffered the abuse prior to being able to live together. But luckily got away from him and had a place to go for safety. Case is at USCIS and not NVC

Exactly I'm not going to lie at consulate and say marriage is good. I followed the protocols and filed the spousal visa and returned to canada until visa would be approved. The abuse happened before the spousal visa could be approved and therefore I was not cohabitating with my husband. It's a stipulation I had no control over and all I can do is try to plead my case. I unfortunately suffered the abuse prior to being able to live together. But luckily got away from him and had a place to go for safety.

Due to the fact the spousal visa was filed in oct 2020 after the marriage and states I am unable to until approval.

We were not cohabitating as to not affect the spousal visa filed. Now to address your comments. "I didn't have to come visit him and put herself in that situation" Do you think I knew he was going to be abusive and look into a crystal ball before coming. Another pointless comment and I really am questioning your reasoning. "I was not forced to endure it" So because I had an option to leave it didn't happen or makes it ok? These types of comments are very unnecessary. I still endured it. It doesn't make it okay or not valid if the abused person has a place to go. This is absolutely ridiculous I'm looking for people who have had similar experience and not people's opinions.

Intentions and information are two different things!

Abuse was in usa yes but I did not file any police report I have pictures and messages of him admitting it and apologizing saying it would never happen again.

Married Oct 2020 Filed oct 2020 still in process not at nvc Last visit January 2021 Due to covid restrictions it was harder to come and see him. Prior I was there monthly for 10 days at a time. We filed spouse visa in October 2020 after wedding and I returned to canada as it states in application I needed to. January was big blow up and I left back to Canada as I had no place else to go in the US and had to for my safety. I was not aware of the vawa until 2 days ago so am wondering due to unforeseen circumstances am I able to apply as the requirements are you are to be living in the states. This was not possible due to the filing of the spouse visa. I had planned a life in the US and had planned a future with him as well as opening a buisneess there. I am not green card shipping as one person put. I feel I would face undue hardship and need to know if I am able to convert the spouse visa to a vawa. He said he will be filing for divorce and canceling the spouse visa.

Married in October filed in October. Abuse was over time but last time I was there in January 2021 was the last big one.

October it was filed and I had no place to go in the usa. My daughter who is a US citizen lives with me in canada and I had to return home.

Yes spousal visa was filed I responded in previous comment asking if it can be changed to vawa?

The plan was yes to live there. I returned back to Canada under the presumption I had to.