Tell your wife this is a VERY bad idea. Look at it from the immigration officer's point of view - you're trying to convince them you have a good legitimate marriage and yet you were married for 10 years, spent no time together during that decade, then divorced, then got engaged to marry again. How does that look like a good case for a relationship based visa?!? It will hurt your case, not help it.
Your only option is to start living your lives as a proper married couple. Visit each other regularly, as often as you can. Gather evidence of time together. And then apply further down the line once you have a solid foundation.
And be prepared to answer a lot of questions when you do come to apply. Most of us are finding it very odd that you've not seen each other, and to be frank, the reasons you've given don't make any sense. What is the actual reason you haven't seen each other in person for x number of years? How often do you speak on the phone or video call?