I decided to end the relationship, many here may know our case is in Warsaw embassy waiting for an interview. We got problems last meet in Moscow in July, we resumed talking later and I feel not good. I don’t think I need a heavy family life which I think I need to kill loneliness. I have some concerns.
1. Bring and raise her and her daughters will take me extra 4000$ monthly, not including trips back to Russia annually and financial support to her mom, why not spending such money on myself? Almost enough to buy a good sugar baby and change every 3 months.
2. I thought my life with her would be different from my previous marriage because my ex wife is a very successful professional and I was ignored in life completely and my Russian girlfriend will not goto work and should give me good care and companionship, our first meet was the best month in my life and I was very happy about that, but later meets proved all women are the same, they want to be head of household and make the rules in the family and control everything, she always put her kids on top of me and ignore me, she spent 3 days trying to book a Airbnb apartment in San Petersburg rather than giving me good care and attention, I was not happy and no trip to San Petersburg at all. So all women are the same, they are good at the very beginning and then will Change, my American girlfriend gave me great sex the first months and then lost patience and then we broke up and after sometime we make up and then she gave great sex again, so we should not be married at all, everything will change after marriage.
3. I love dancing, clubs, bars and fine restaurants and drinks but she said that’s for younger people only, I will lose those hobbies after marriage I think, what we do in family life? Besides she doesn’t speak English, so after sex which she also wants to control, what we do?
So I will keep my simple single life, she already complained I am lying in bed too much, don’t fix my teeth quickly, marriage means breaking your comfort zone, I am too old to change I think, so just dating and no marriage would be the best to do