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yup she says I married him on Saturday the 8th and he forced me out of the house on the 9th.
however she has no one in Texas and she managed to buy a plane ticket (her cousin) to come to NYC.
I met her in a K1 FB group and I believe she states someone on there and her cousin told her she can adjust without spouse which I told her she couldn't.
the reasons she gave me for abuse were:
1-hes only a plumber
2-he made her eat American food
3-and he wouldn't let her sleep because he wanted adult time.
I never heard he forced her to have adult time or to eat.
I told her I would post so she can see I am telling her the truth but shes not listening to me and wanted to come stay in my home.
I cannot have an illegal person in my home especially since im doing everything right in my own relationship and don't want it to jeopardize me and my case.
my husband also says since he's from DR (and knows how woman there can be) he doesn't want her in the home....god forbid she try and say he did something to her since she claims abuse so easily.
and he wants no problems with our marriage.

this is true I have told her the same. I met her in a FB K1 group and she's a very pretty girl and her husband is older but also a very nice man from the looks of things.
I am an outsider just trying to let her know her options.
I unfortunately am limited into helping her anyway because I am going through my own K1 journey lucky for me my spouse did not leave in a week.
I am afraid of associating too much with her as she wanted to come stay in my home since she has no where to go.
and I cant help her I cant subject my case to help her.

You don't need this kind of friend. Leave her alone to her mess.
If she genuinely loved him she'd stay with him even if he was unemployed (as I did when my husband was laid off). I would have been delighted with a plumber's wage when my husband was out of work. Even now in work he makes less than a plumber, I'm sure. Surely she knew he was a plumber before she came to the USA. It's hardly a shameful secret.
If she didn't like the food, she should tell him. Marriage is about communication, not mind-reading. Obviously she wasn't doing the cooking then? So she wasn't working (because K-1s can't work) and wasn't contributing to household chores either. Sounds like she had a pretty good life with him.
Sure he wanted "adult time" all night every night. That's what happens when you haven't seen each other for a long time. That would settle down. And surely she could sleep during the day while he's out plumbing since she wasn't working or cooking. What else was there to do all day while he's working?
Don't get involved with someone trying to break the law. It won't end well for you. If you found her on Facebook you can find other friends. She's not the last friend on earth so you don't need her "friendship".

this is true I have told her the same. I met her in a FB K1 group and she's a very pretty girl and her husband is older but also a very nice man from the looks of things.
I am an outsider just trying to let her know her options.
I unfortunately am limited into helping her anyway because I am going through my own K1 journey lucky for me my spouse did not leave in a week.
I am afraid of associating too much with her as she wanted to come stay in my home since she has no where to go.
and I cant help her I cant subject my case to help her.

this is true I have told her the same. I met her in a FB K1 group and she's a very pretty girl and her husband is older but also a very nice man from the looks of things.
I am an outsider just trying to let her know her options.
I unfortunately am limited into helping her anyway because I am going through my own K1 journey lucky for me my spouse did not leave in a week.
I am afraid of associating too much with her as she wanted to come stay in my home since she has no where to go.
and I cant help her I cant subject my case to help her.

yup she says I married him on Saturday the 8th and he forced me out of the house on the 9th.
however she has no one in Texas and she managed to buy a plane ticket (her cousin) to come to NYC.
I met her in a K1 FB group and I believe she states someone on there and her cousin told her she can adjust without spouse which I told her she couldn't.
the reasons she gave me for abuse were:
1-hes only a plumber
2-he made her eat American food
3-and he wouldn't let her sleep because he wanted adult time.
I never heard he forced her to have adult time or to eat.
I told her I would post so she can see I am telling her the truth but shes not listening to me and wanted to come stay in my home.
I cannot have an illegal person in my home especially since im doing everything right in my own relationship and don't want it to jeopardize me and my case.
my husband also says since he's from DR (and knows how woman there can be) he doesn't want her in the home....god forbid she try and say he did something to her since she claims abuse so easily.
and he wants no problems with our marriage.

First you said he threw her out on the street. Then you said she left and then took money and left. She came here believing all she had to do was marry him, claim abuse, and she could still adjust. Guess she'll be finding out the hard way. Make that 11 million +1 illegal immigrants in the country.
Yes, please stay away from her.

This is very sad because if she stays in this country after her visa expires then when she is caught illegally without green card and get deported back to her home then she is most likely going to be banned from the USA of ever coming back here....but what i think happened is that she met this older man who was stable financially and she was young and most likely was not attracted to him sexually but saw her only way here....it happens all the time but we are only hearing one side to this story...but she must know that if everything is not done according to the laws of the K1 visa then she is at risk of being banned from the USA for fraud because the K1 visa is a conditional (promise) visa and everyone here knows that....for her AOS has not even been done and processed yet and your friend is at risk of being banned if caught...marrying a US citizen is not all she needs to do in order to be here in the states its a process and she stopped at the beginning level of the K 1 visa...and she can't use DUI as a way out because that was discussed in her K1 interview im sure because she knew that before marrying him and the immigration lawyer will look at that as well...but if he give her money for clothes then you have to wonder because a person that verbally abuse their spouse or mate they usually do not take interests in how they look or dress....hope all is well

If she's got a lawyer let him/her figure it out. It shouldn't be your place to help her game the system.

Once again history repeats itself, uses the K1, and after a short time want to separate, the government should see it with a cheat, people who are CR1 wait months for rediscover their families.

It's hard for her to adjust without any proof of Domestic Violence. USCIS has heard all these stories,probably, thousand times.

Exactly what's on my mind until I saw your post. Plain case. These are the people making it difficult for genuine cases or partners to get visas. All that hard work from the petitioner in vain.

It sounds to me like she is the one abusing her husband and gaming the system. I've seen cases where the immigrant partner all of a sudden acquires new vocabulary in domestic violence law. Clearly there are lawyers out there making money on these.
But then again if he wanted sexual reward to which she was not fully consenting, that may make him look very bad in the eyes of the law too. It's hard to separate reality from fiction when her motifs are so obviously unrelated to actual marriage. She should go back to DR before her I-94 expires and drop the whole thing. It's deeply disturbing.

There will always be someone somewhere that will say "you can do this" or "you can do that' to give the person a false sense of hope.
Forced to eat American food?
Wasn't allowed to sleep?
He abused her because he once had a DUI?
A lot of BS being spewed

Sounds like a classic case of "green card girl". Sorry, but this story is pegging out my BS meter.

OP has finalized the divorce before the ex went back home.
So both are considered Single now.