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    Need advice

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

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    4 hours ago, JeanneAdil said:

    Sounds plasible

    Here in  Tennessee where we both are, the state has centers called pain management that handles all psychotic drugs /  not by regular doctor.

    u should have been advised about her  condition and medications.   I would check my house thoroughly.

     

    the following statement defines psychosis  and if she was taking any drugs ,  herself,  that bought on her illness,  it is possible she slipped him dose or doses .  easy to do if he eats some foods you don't eat . 

     

    Psychosis may occur as a result of a psychiatric illness like schizophrenia. In other instances, it may be caused by a health condition, medications, or drug use.
    Possible symptoms include delusions, hallucinations, talking incoherently, and agitation
     
    Nashville has 4 big mental health centers that are arranged in the 4 corners/  so one of them will be close to u / get him there if he didn't go before he left and feel free to explain  what happened 
     
    Take care and God bless u 
    Remember a Good Moroccan man is a real good man and we're lucky to have found one

    I knew she had "some" issues, but I also found out that certain meds made her a bit weird. I also truly believe that she was taken other stuff that was narcotic. Nonetheless, she was also bipolar, multiple personalities, etc and I understand why. The day I left to the airport to go back to Morocco, she stood in front of a photo of me and him and was talking to it. Everything she did was on my RING camera. I was totally shocked to see her go from one mood to the next. I can't begin to tell you the many mood swings she went thru for 7 straight hours ! Whatever she did, if she did, to my husband was bad. He never cried in front of me, but he did and I swear to you it was heart  breaking to watch him go thru this delusional and paranoia episode. That killed me to witness. Sending him home did some good I will say but I still worry. I asked him to go get his blood checked to see what was going on, but he refused. It was like watching a bad trip on drugs. 

     

    What I witness the last month or two when he was here was something that I never want to see again. This is not the man I married. The depression was deep. The psychotic episodes he went thru were real to him. I want to be there to support him in every way possible. I know he would do it with me. I just want him back home and we will go thru this together. As far as my sister, i have very harsh words and thoughts of her and never want to see her again. We have several messages between us about the time that has passed and he was actually afraid to come back but now he wants to and I will do whatever it takes to bring him back to the man I know he really is. 

     

    Again thank you. I will buy his ticket and be there when he gets off the plane. 

    Need advice

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

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    18 minutes ago, Ontarkie said:

    He just needs to get back home. 

     

    JeanneAdil mentioned that he might not have started in a good place.

     

    From what you said about the sister you didn't and still don't know. I would be worried that she  drugged or poison him. With the comments she made about him and his religion along with her own mental illness.  I know it is a stretch but you did not know her. Then your husband  suddenly started losing weight and his mind in just a few short months. If he felt you were injecting him in his sleep, or your family was following him. I would be worried about drugs/poisonings. Too late now to run blood work, but search your house high and low. Some drugs can stay in your system for awhile and that might explain why he felt he was being followed. 

     

    Please be careful and make sure you keep an eye on your husband's health when he gets back. 

    I totally agree ! He mentioned that he saw her near his coffee and some other things. I never doubted him but she is gone now and I have been praying that his health come back. I just know that he wants to come home now and start his life back. I want us to move forward and together find solutions. 

    Need advice

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

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    1 hour ago, JeanneAdil said:

    In your post u do not say what u wanted for yourself

    Are u going to insist he get help from qualified personal?

    and help pay his share of bills instead of u supporting him financially?

     

    Think hard about what is best for your family 

     

    I allowed my sister, who I never met, come to stay with us last year (she left after a few months)

    If he broke down within a few months from your sister's ill mouth,  he had some underlying issues 

     

    sorry for what u go thru , very sorry but if his religion is important to him,  read about Islam and understand a Muslim man is expected to support his wife and praying is important /  Allah is in control is what my Adil says

    look for a support group (maybe 2 )  one for  his mental health and one that is comprised of Muslims 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I am total in support of my husband and will always be in support of him. I know his worth, and his value. There is no question as to what we have. There was concern when he had a breakdown, but I have never once told him to get over it, I have been supportive of his health and issues. He is better and ready to be back with me. I never made him feel like he was less than. I went through this with him. What I do want to know is if he got a ticket and came back would there be issues of him entering the states. He has maintained his accounts with the bank and the home so the ties here are strong. I am sure immigration would like to know why the overstay in Morocco. Just I need to know the what ifs so that I can prepare things.

    Need advice

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

    Posted

    Thank you for the replies and apologies for the deleted words - although I did really use foul language, nonetheless I will remember to use caution when I write. However my question still remains unanswered. My husband has been out of the country since January 4, 2023. We have not filed any paperwork on why he has overstayed. He wants to return to the states, which that is all I want as well. What would he need to do to come back since he still has ties to the US? If he were to purchase his ticket and fly back would there be any issues?  Am I even posting in the right forum?

     

    Thank you in advance

    Need advice

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

    Posted · Edited by TBoneTX

    Hello all ! 

     

    Its been a while since my last post but I really need some help here. 

     

    My husband came to the US just before the pandemic got really bad (January 2020) and we started our life together. My husband worked, paid taxes, stayed out of trouble. Life was good. I allowed my sister, who I never met, come to stay with us last year (she left after a few months) but during her time her, she really ###### with my husbands head. Let me explain to sum it up. The 3 years my husband was here, life was good. Yes my husband was missing home and we had made plans to return for a visit. In November 2022, my husband started changing mentally. His whole personality just flipped. My sister didnt make things better always talking out her [deleted] and saying negative things about his religion and all kinds of #######. Anyway skip the BS, my husband because a whole different person. His health started changing. He had lost so much weight and his mind started playing tricks on him. He thinks my sister did black magic on him (she's a 5150 btw). Finally after a complete meltdown I bought my husband a ticket back home while I was to deal with getting rid of my narcissistic sister. I mean things got absolutely crazy to the point that my husband asked me what was the injection I gave him in his leg when he was sleeping. Like it got really really bad. Anyway I bought him a ticket to Morocco, drove him to the airport and off he went. He doesnt remember much of his trip. His brother and family told me they saw a dead man in him. His skin was gray, his eyes were black, his weight was gone, like in all honesty he was a dead man walking. He told me that he saw my family at the airports and that people had been following him to his village. I can't begin to tell you how bad I cried over the days of reliving all of his breakdowns, his accusations, etc. 

     

    Fast forward to today. When my husband arrived back home, he saw his mother had not been taking care of the home, herself, etc. She was not in the best of health. He stayed to help and in the same time get back his health, both physically and mentally. He left on January 4, 2023. I arrived in March of 2023 and left April 2023. My trip to the airport was not a memorable one because my husband and I bickered the entire way. We had NEVER fought or bickered. Anyway, I arrived home and we have been in contact with each other and I have been supporting him while he deals with his issues. He has maintained his bank account and he is on the mortgage papers here as well as the bills. He really didnt know if he wanted to come back but yesterday he said he did. His GC is an IR1 and its good for 10 years I believe. Since hes been out of the country since January 4, 2023, but has maintain his ties here, would there be any issues about his return. Keep in mind that no paperwork has been submitted regarding his overstay. 

     

    Help ! 

    Did I mess up?

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    So my husband arrived to the US and his passport/visa was stamped 01/15/20. We have an amazing and bonafide marriage. The first day to file the removal of conditions was 10/17/21. The 90th day ends on 01/15/22 which was the expiration of the GC. I placed the package containing the i-751 and supporting documents in the hands of the mail carrier and I have been tracking the package. I shows that the package left on 01/15/22 and is now in Arizona. 

     

    My lateness was because I thought I had more time, I have been so lost in what day it is, dealing with issues at work, etc. My life has been a bit hectic, but I realized my error and quickly put together the package and out the door it went. 

     

    Question. Is the filing considered late even though it was sent on the 90th day. 

    Should I prepare a letter on why it was filed on the 90th day?

    Should I want to see what they say?

    How long does it take to know if they are rejecting it? 

    Bringing seeds to the US

    in Moving to the US and Your New Life In America

    Posted

    You may want to consulate with CPB.  Some seeds may be harmful in other environments. Its always best to inquire.  I wanted to bring some seeds with me to Morocco but was told that it may not be good to bring them in.  Here is something I found interesting, hope it helps 

     

    https://asktheexpert.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/5420/~/can-i-send-or-take-garden-seeds-to-another-country%3F

    ALL Texas I-130 Filers

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    Wow, Im totally shocked on how fast things appear to be going right now.  So here is whats happening right now

     

    i130 mailed December 31, 2018

    NOA1 electronic notice: January 2, 2019 -                                                   2 days 

    NOA1 hardcopy: January 4, 2019                                                                  4 days

    NOA2 electronic notice: July 24, 2019                                                         203 days

    Electronic Notice From USCIS re DOS/Visa: July 25, 2019                       1 day

    NOA2 hardcopy: July 27, 2019                                                                       3 days

    NVC Case number                                                                                            PENDING

     

    Hoping it continues ! This is a second petition filed for my husband, 1st one was a K1 which was denied at embassy/consulate.  I am praying that all those who are waiting hear something soon !  The wait is overwhelming

    (I-130) Dec 2018 Applicants

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

    Posted

    Got another message.  Im wondering how long I should wait to contact NVC for my case number 

     

    July 25, 2019

    Case Was Sent To The Department of State

     

    On July 25, 2019, we sent your case, Receipt Number SRC1990155xxx, to the Department of State for visa processing. You can find general information on Consular Processing by visiting our website at www.uscis.gov . The website will provide information on what to do next, who to contact, and how to inform us of any changes in your situation or address.

    HELP

    in What Visa Do I Need - Family Based Immigration

    Posted

    As stated before K1 in Morocco is not the easiest.  Doing the marriage visa is the best route.  I wish I had done the CR1 in the first place, then my husband would most likely be here already.  Best to take everyones advice seeing they do have some credibility here.  Good luck in your journey

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