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Took both girls to there interview today. The interview took 5 minutes for 18yr old and 3 minutes for the 10 yr old. The 18 yr old was sworn in and asked the questions on her paperwork and they just wanted to see her old passport. Then she was told she was approved for her 10 yr gc. The 10 yr old was asked her age, date of birth, what grade she was in and asked for her old passport and said she was approved. Did not ask to see anything else. 
 
The interesting thing was when I asked if she needed my paystubs that I got the rfe for. She said everyone is getting an rfe for that. But said no they are approved. 
 
The only question asked of me was why we waited five years and she said no problem that you are correct that you need to due it before they are 21. 
 
The co was very nice and professional. 

Apparently people missed the part that this was started under the Obama administration and it will be some time before it goes into effect. It is up for public comment right now. It is also amazing that no one bashed Obama when his administration started this program with a few high fraud countries. But that was ok and I would be willing to bet if it were the Obama administration broaden this policy no one would be bashing him like Trump is getting. So if you are going to bash anyone shouldn't it be Obama administration for starting this policy. I am not a Trump fan but let's call a spade a spade. And what does gun laws have to do with immigration. 

Apparently people missed the part that this was started under the Obama administration and it will be some time before it goes into effect. It is up for public comment right now. It is also amazing that no one bashed Obama when his administration started this program with a few high fraud countries. But that was ok and I would be willing to bet if it were the Obama administration broaden this policy no one would be bashing him like Trump is getting. So if you are going to bash anyone shouldn't it be Obama administration for starting this policy. I am not a Trump fan but let's call a spade a spade. And what does gun laws have to do with immigration. 

caliliving,
Why is it weird, did you not see that we have a daughter and she has three daughters so why would it be weird. She earns 9 dollars and hour and could not afford a place let alone qualify for any benefits.
She lives in her own reality and that she believes what other people tell her. She knows I will provide for not only our daughter but hers. What she did not understand and probably will never understand is that she had responsibilities and decided she wanted her freedom more than thinking about her own daughters.
I love my daughter 110 percent and I love her daughters and would never let anything happen to them regardless how I feel about her.
Since we are not divorced or legally separated and I have guardianship of the two since one is 20, wouldn't it be better that I continue to make sure they receive proper medical and dental care when needed. That they are able to attend school functions, I can not help that she choice to do what she did but I can certainly make sure they are well taken cared of.
Weird, no because she still considers this her house even though my name is on the rental contract and being married still I feel obligated to the girls.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

TRAVEL CLEARANCE FOR MINORS
A travel clearance is a document issued by the DSWD to a Filipino child (below 18 years of age) traveling abroad alone or with someone other than his/her parents.
WHO NEEDS A TRAVEL CLEARANCE?
A minor traveling alone to a foreign country ; A minor traveling to a foreign country accompanied by a person other than his or her parents. WHO DOES NOT NEED TRAVEL CLEARANCE?
All minors other than those cited above, for example: A minor traveling to a foreign country with either parent or with his or her solo parent or legal guardian; A minor traveling abroad whose parents are in the Foreign Service or living abroad or are immigrants, provided he/she is holding a valid pass such as a dependents visa/pass/identification card or permanent resident visa/pass/identification card which serves as proof that he/she is living with parents abroad and their travel does not constitute child trafficking. WHAT ARE THE REQUIREMENTS IN SECURING A TRAVEL CLEARANCE?
A. For a minor traveling alone to a foreign country for the first time
Duly accomplished application form Photocopy of the Birth Certificate OR the passport of the  minor A written consent of both parents or the solo parent or the legal guardian permitting the minor to travel alone to a foreign country As appropriate, a photocopy of the marriage certificate of the minor’s parents or a photocopy of the certificate of legal guardianship of the minor or in the case of solo parents, a photocopy of the solo parent identification card from the Municipal Social Welfare and Development Office or a photocopy of a certification from the Local Social Welfare and Development Office of being a solo parent or Tallaq or Faskh certification from the Shariah court or any Muslim Barangay or religious leader or in the case of an illegitimate minor, a certificate of no marriage (CENOMAR)* from the National Statistics Office (NSO) or in the case of a deceased parent, a photocopy of the death certificate *Issuance of CENOMAR will take 1-5 days for cases of uncommon
surnames and 1-15  days for common surnames.
* Issuing office of CENOMAR is the National Statistics Office not the Local Civil Registrar.
5.    Two colored passport size photos of the minor taken within the last six (6) months
B. For a minor traveling for the first time with a person other than the parents or legal guardian
Duly accomplished application form A photocopy of the birth certificate of minor A written consent of both parents or the solo parent or the legal guardian permitting the minor to travel to a foreign country with a specific person other than them As appropriate, a photocopy of the marriage certificate of the minor’s parents or a certificate of legal guardianship of the minor or in the case of solo parents, a solo parent identification card from the Municipal Social Welfare and Development Office or a certification from the Local Social Welfare and Development Office of being a solo parent or a court decree of separation, annulment or divorce, or Tallaq or Fasakh certification from the Shariah court or any muslim barangay or religious leader or in the case of an illegitimate minor, a certificate of no marriage  from the Philippine Statistics Office (formerly National Statistics Office or NSO) in the case of a deceased parent, a photocopy of the death certificate * Issuance of CENOMAR will take 1-5 days for cases of
uncommon surnames and 1-15 days for common surnames
*Issuing office of CENOMAR is the National Statistics Office not the Local Civil
Registrar
5.    Two colored passport size photos of the minor taken within the last 6 months.
6.    Photocopy of the passport of the traveling companion
“The social worker may require additional documentary requirements during the assessment of the Travel Clearance application to make  sure that no child shall be trafficked and that the child’s best interest and welfare is ensured”
C. In case of illegitimate children who is traveling abroad accompanied by their biological father, they are still required to secure a travel clearance certificate as parental authority is vested only to the mother of the child, per Article 176 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
IS THERE A VALIDITY PERIOD FOR A TRAVEL CLEARANCE?
A DSWD travel clearance is valid for a period of one (1) year from the date of issuance and shall be valid for multiple travels within the validity period, provided the conditions under which the travel clearance was issued have not changed. If a change in condition occurs like a change in traveling companion, a new travel clearance must be obtained.
HOW MUCH IS THE PROCESSING FEE FOR A TRAVEL CLEARANCE ISSUED TO A MINOR?
The DSWD shall collect a processing fee for each travel clearance issued to minors traveling abroad under the following options:
Php 300.00 with validity of one (1) year. Php 600.00 with validity of two (2) years. WHERE CAN ONE FILE THE APPLICATION?
The application for travel clearance, together with the supporting documents required shall be submitted/filed at anyDSWD Field Office.
Application forms maybe obtained from any DSWD-Field Office or maybe downloaded from the website www.dswd.gov.ph. [click here to download application form in MS Word Format]
On the appointed date, go to the nearest DSWD Field (regional) office which processed your application to submit the original copy of your supporting documents and pay PhP300.00 per travel clearance certificate. The travel clearance certificate will be obtained thereafter.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

caliliving,
Why is it weird, did you not see that we have a daughter and she has three daughters so why would it be weird. She earns 9 dollars and hour and could not afford a place let alone qualify for any benefits.
She lives in her own reality and that she believes what other people tell her. She knows I will provide for not only our daughter but hers. What she did not understand and probably will never understand is that she had responsibilities and decided she wanted her freedom more than thinking about her own daughters.
I love my daughter 110 percent and I love her daughters and would never let anything happen to them regardless how I feel about her.
Since we are not divorced or legally separated and I have guardianship of the two since one is 20, wouldn't it be better that I continue to make sure they receive proper medical and dental care when needed. That they are able to attend school functions, I can not help that she choice to do what she did but I can certainly make sure they are well taken cared of.
Weird, no because she still considers this her house even though my name is on the rental contract and being married still I feel obligated to the girls.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

To answer some questions, I do support her daughters 100 percent. Apparently people do not understand how the immigration process works. After serving my wife the papers and her not wanting to sign them and again with her telling me it all about hers kids. I decided to hold off and let the immigration process take it course.
The three girls are great, plus we do have our own daughter. My little one is upset at mom because for the past 2 years we have yet to spend more than a few hours a week at the house we moved to at her urging. Knowing that mom would leave her daughters alone I thought it would be better not to leave them and so they continued to stay with me and me providing them. Why should they pay foir what there mother does. I love them dearly so I decided why not let this run its course.
See if I did actually go through with the divorce then she could file on her own, because the divorce did not go through due to unsigned paperwork on her part I decided hey sooner or later the decision will come and then reality of the fact will hit her.
So by playing by the rules she can not challenge the decision or file with out my signature.The ruling is final now and she has no recourse because she failed to realize that she needed to be divorced and now that option is gone with this final ruling.
It is very said for the girls and our daughter, it is said when the little one ask why didn't mommy stay at our house when we moved I wished we did not move.
There will always be people to say I went around it the wrong way but I do feel her her daughters and our daughter, unfortunately if the divorce went through and she was granted a 10 year green card I would be on the hook for her and still am but she is the one with the deportation order not me.
Why not be patient and let her daughters see her mom in a true light than to cow tie and hand her a possible victory, why not let them ask her why I they were treated the way they have been for the last 2 years and let them see how much I loved them and how I have been there for them all along.
I did not ask to move she wanted to move and never once spent a night in the new house or at night with her daughters. Love is very strange do i hate her no I do not, but unfortunately she wanted to listen to her so called friends and decided they were right and I was wrong.
Over the past year since this ordeal started i was lucky to only see her 1 to 2 hours a week and that was mainly when I brought our daughter to see her at her place of work. Also, for me I did not have to deal with her and I let her tighten the rope herself.
For my daughter's sake I do not fight and I chill because that is what my little one tells me to do every visit. She will say daddy, remember mommy will try to get you uposet you just need to chill. no argue daddy. So, I do not argue and now it is time to move on knowing that the it was not me, I just let this run its natural course and by being patient I made sure there was no room for appeal.
In regards to VMA that is off the books. The three older girls signed letters stating that their mom only is at the house when they are there and very rarely when I am there. Secondly, it is on record that I never fought\, hit or did anything to her or the girls. I will say there mom brought them up to be truthful and honest and they them selves could never understand why their mom does what she does. So for you vma people sorry. It simple does not apply and because the final deportation order has been issued it can not be used. Look it up.

I am only on the hook for the wife and oldest since we did not apply for green card for the other 2. Yes they were taken in a court deposition and notarized. Tomorrow after her interview the process server will be on hand to give her her walking papers as she leaves the building. I paid an extra 100.00 for them to wait for her to leave interview.
She must really be in panic mode right now. She had the 8 year old call to remind me that mommy has interview. I feel very sorry but you only can take so much. Mommy only joke you daddy, mommy said you are sending me to crappy country. But I want to stay here. It tears you apart but no more. I waited patiently for this interview date and now she can see how serious I have been. Her friend called this afternoon telling me she asked her why I can refuse to go. She replied back did you actually believe he was going to take much more.
I guess her other friend that gave her the original advise did not realize she had a 2 year green card and that an interview was going to be required. Oh, well not my problem anymore.
Then after she comes home she will be served with temporary restraining order and she will not be able to come within 250 of the house.
So, yes you do need to protect yourself I agree 100 percent.

My day is kind of sad, for one you think you know the person ie 9 plus years. You provide for that individual faithfully over that same time span then you find out it was all for nothing. No bitterness, no hatred just sadness for her daughters. I truly believe she had her kids at heart but she went about it the wrong way. When I tried to put her on the right track she just never got it and I ended up where I am now.
I spoke to her friend who called me. He friend said she doesn't understand why they asked her so many questions. Apparently the interview lasted 3 hours. She told her friend she did not understand why they asked her if they thought she felt threatening, if i had ever assaulted her, if I had ever caused harmed to her girls. She told her friend she said no to all the questions because I have always been very nice to them and took care of them. She said they asked her why she came to the United States and again she stated was to give her kids a better life.
Her heart was for them and not me and now the kids are the ones that end up getting the short end of the stick. They were uprooted, brought to a new country and had to adjust and now they will have to return. So, this makes it a very sad day for me. One would think I would be jumping up and down with joy but there is no joy in what I had to do. You only can take so much...
Her friend said that she cried most of the night not for herself but for her kids for she just wanted them to have a better life.
I thought I would be delighted with the out come but I am not. :( :( :( :(

My day is kind of sad, for one you think you know the person ie 9 plus years. You provide for that individual faithfully over that same time span then you find out it was all for nothing. No bitterness, no hatred just sadness for her daughters. I truly believe she had her kids at heart but she went about it the wrong way. When I tried to put her on the right track she just never got it and I ended up where I am now.
I spoke to her friend who called me. He friend said she doesn't understand why they asked her so many questions. Apparently the interview lasted 3 hours. She told her friend she did not understand why they asked her if they thought she felt threatening, if i had ever assaulted her, if I had ever caused harmed to her girls. She told her friend she said no to all the questions because I have always been very nice to them and took care of them. She said they asked her why she came to the United States and again she stated was to give her kids a better life.
Her heart was for them and not me and now the kids are the ones that end up getting the short end of the stick. They were uprooted, brought to a new country and had to adjust and now they will have to return. So, this makes it a very sad day for me. One would think I would be jumping up and down with joy but there is no joy in what I had to do. You only can take so much...
Her friend said that she cried most of the night not for herself but for her kids for she just wanted them to have a better life.
I thought I would be delighted with the out come but I am not. :( :( :( :(

My day is kind of sad, for one you think you know the person ie 9 plus years. You provide for that individual faithfully over that same time span then you find out it was all for nothing. No bitterness, no hatred just sadness for her daughters. I truly believe she had her kids at heart but she went about it the wrong way. When I tried to put her on the right track she just never got it and I ended up where I am now.
I spoke to her friend who called me. He friend said she doesn't understand why they asked her so many questions. Apparently the interview lasted 3 hours. She told her friend she did not understand why they asked her if they thought she felt threatening, if i had ever assaulted her, if I had ever caused harmed to her girls. She told her friend she said no to all the questions because I have always been very nice to them and took care of them. She said they asked her why she came to the United States and again she stated was to give her kids a better life.
Her heart was for them and not me and now the kids are the ones that end up getting the short end of the stick. They were uprooted, brought to a new country and had to adjust and now they will have to return. So, this makes it a very sad day for me. One would think I would be jumping up and down with joy but there is no joy in what I had to do. You only can take so much...
Her friend said that she cried most of the night not for herself but for her kids for she just wanted them to have a better life.
I thought I would be delighted with the out come but I am not. :( :( :( :(

My day is kind of sad, for one you think you know the person ie 9 plus years. You provide for that individual faithfully over that same time span then you find out it was all for nothing. No bitterness, no hatred just sadness for her daughters. I truly believe she had her kids at heart but she went about it the wrong way. When I tried to put her on the right track she just never got it and I ended up where I am now.
I spoke to her friend who called me. He friend said she doesn't understand why they asked her so many questions. Apparently the interview lasted 3 hours. She told her friend she did not understand why they asked her if they thought she felt threatening, if i had ever assaulted her, if I had ever caused harmed to her girls. She told her friend she said no to all the questions because I have always been very nice to them and took care of them. She said they asked her why she came to the United States and again she stated was to give her kids a better life.
Her heart was for them and not me and now the kids are the ones that end up getting the short end of the stick. They were uprooted, brought to a new country and had to adjust and now they will have to return. So, this makes it a very sad day for me. One would think I would be jumping up and down with joy but there is no joy in what I had to do. You only can take so much...
Her friend said that she cried most of the night not for herself but for her kids for she just wanted them to have a better life.
I thought I would be delighted with the out come but I am not. :( :( :( :(

My day is kind of sad, for one you think you know the person ie 9 plus years. You provide for that individual faithfully over that same time span then you find out it was all for nothing. No bitterness, no hatred just sadness for her daughters. I truly believe she had her kids at heart but she went about it the wrong way. When I tried to put her on the right track she just never got it and I ended up where I am now.
I spoke to her friend who called me. He friend said she doesn't understand why they asked her so many questions. Apparently the interview lasted 3 hours. She told her friend she did not understand why they asked her if they thought she felt threatening, if i had ever assaulted her, if I had ever caused harmed to her girls. She told her friend she said no to all the questions because I have always been very nice to them and took care of them. She said they asked her why she came to the United States and again she stated was to give her kids a better life.
Her heart was for them and not me and now the kids are the ones that end up getting the short end of the stick. They were uprooted, brought to a new country and had to adjust and now they will have to return. So, this makes it a very sad day for me. One would think I would be jumping up and down with joy but there is no joy in what I had to do. You only can take so much...
Her friend said that she cried most of the night not for herself but for her kids for she just wanted them to have a better life.
I thought I would be delighted with the out come but I am not. :( :( :( :(

I am only on the hook for the wife and oldest since we did not apply for green card for the other 2. Yes they were taken in a court deposition and notarized. Tomorrow after her interview the process server will be on hand to give her her walking papers as she leaves the building. I paid an extra 100.00 for them to wait for her to leave interview.
She must really be in panic mode right now. She had the 8 year old call to remind me that mommy has interview. I feel very sorry but you only can take so much. Mommy only joke you daddy, mommy said you are sending me to crappy country. But I want to stay here. It tears you apart but no more. I waited patiently for this interview date and now she can see how serious I have been. Her friend called this afternoon telling me she asked her why I can refuse to go. She replied back did you actually believe he was going to take much more.
I guess her other friend that gave her the original advise did not realize she had a 2 year green card and that an interview was going to be required. Oh, well not my problem anymore.
Then after she comes home she will be served with temporary restraining order and she will not be able to come within 250 of the house.
So, yes you do need to protect yourself I agree 100 percent.

I am only on the hook for the wife and oldest since we did not apply for green card for the other 2. Yes they were taken in a court deposition and notarized. Tomorrow after her interview the process server will be on hand to give her her walking papers as she leaves the building. I paid an extra 100.00 for them to wait for her to leave interview.
She must really be in panic mode right now. She had the 8 year old call to remind me that mommy has interview. I feel very sorry but you only can take so much. Mommy only joke you daddy, mommy said you are sending me to crappy country. But I want to stay here. It tears you apart but no more. I waited patiently for this interview date and now she can see how serious I have been. Her friend called this afternoon telling me she asked her why I can refuse to go. She replied back did you actually believe he was going to take much more.
I guess her other friend that gave her the original advise did not realize she had a 2 year green card and that an interview was going to be required. Oh, well not my problem anymore.
Then after she comes home she will be served with temporary restraining order and she will not be able to come within 250 of the house.
So, yes you do need to protect yourself I agree 100 percent.

I am only on the hook for the wife and oldest since we did not apply for green card for the other 2. Yes they were taken in a court deposition and notarized. Tomorrow after her interview the process server will be on hand to give her her walking papers as she leaves the building. I paid an extra 100.00 for them to wait for her to leave interview.
She must really be in panic mode right now. She had the 8 year old call to remind me that mommy has interview. I feel very sorry but you only can take so much. Mommy only joke you daddy, mommy said you are sending me to crappy country. But I want to stay here. It tears you apart but no more. I waited patiently for this interview date and now she can see how serious I have been. Her friend called this afternoon telling me she asked her why I can refuse to go. She replied back did you actually believe he was going to take much more.
I guess her other friend that gave her the original advise did not realize she had a 2 year green card and that an interview was going to be required. Oh, well not my problem anymore.
Then after she comes home she will be served with temporary restraining order and she will not be able to come within 250 of the house.
So, yes you do need to protect yourself I agree 100 percent.