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From the sound of his previous post, he's given it a couple of more months to try and make it work. I believe you should try and make it work, but if you can't then you can't. Maybe marriage counseling? Anyways, I'm not here to judge, as I'm not aware of the full situation. I know marriage takes 2 People to make it work. Unfortunately, we have to sacrifice things to be with the people we love; but that's what love is about.
Exactly.
OP's previous thread on same topic ----->>>> http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/583919-regret-marrying-k1-pinay/#entry7989574
Your search skills are good
I feel bad for his wife....
What makes you feel bad for my wife?
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My wife has her ead/AP combo card. We are in the process of AOS. Can I pull the affidavit of support and she goes home and we end the marriage?
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Interesting thread. Glad it worked out OP
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Do not confuse the tourist visa with the k1. Your fiancé, as well as my wife, are from countries that are considered "high fraud" countries. Very rarely does anyone from the Philippines or Vietnam get a tourist visa. If you had researched the topic, you would have seen that pursuing a tourist visa was a waste of time and money. That being said, the k1 is a simple visa to obtain if you follow the guides and read about information specific to your embassy which should be available in the Vietnam regional forum. Don't let the failed tourist visa application Influence you with your k1 visa application.
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Granted my wife is from the Philippines which is an easy embassy, but this forum is a gold mine of information. Anyone that can read can be successful with their k1 by following the guides and flow charts. There are several forum members who have a wealth of knowledge and will help you for free. Additionally, there are regional forums with people that know the ins and outs of particular embassies. Don't waste your money. Save it for the AOS.
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I would inform USCIS that you are my together and will not be marrying. After that, move on as you have no more responsibility towards her. At what day number did she leave?
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My wife and I plan on going to the dmv in Tuesday to get her a state ID. We have the ead combo card. We are in Nevada. I will post what happens.
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How about a spouse visa? By the time they approve your case, your fiancé's deployment would be done and you would save $1,070 usd in the process.
And you would have the ability to work right away.
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It shouldn't be a problem.
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Sorry to hear op
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Hello,
So I'm married and have a child with someone from a foreign country he got his visa last year and now has a 2 year green card.
Well we are having so much problems and there were many occasions where he specifically stated that the only reason he married and came to USA was to earn money and education.
I want to get a divocre. But will I have custody of my son? And will my husband get to stay here even though we are gonna be divorced by the time he have to renew his green card.
What are some of the problems you claim you are having? What country is your husband from? Maybe you are experiencing cultural differences? All you seem to care about is deporting your husband who you brought here.
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I can't believe I read the whole thing(joke from a commercial). Congrats op
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there is nothing to congratulate. I will need to reapply and go through the whole process again because uscis says it is not there fault. Im ready to leave the USA, this is a way to messed up process and the financial losses of not being able to work and destroying my career by not being able to work are to huge
Just calm down. I am sure the usps will be able to find it. You have the rest of your life to work. Enjoy being with your partner. Remember, they went through a lot to have you come here. What kind of career do you have?
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To pay $80 month, you must not make that much
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Why complicate things? Just get married by the justice of the peace and call it a day. I don't know why people insist on creating hardship for themselves? You are in a delicate situation with the k1 visa and in dealing with USCIS. Just get it done in 90 days. You don't have to reinvent the wheel.
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Wow, oh wow. I am curious as to which country the op is from?
Who cares about what school the child goes to? Op, you are in possibly the worst situation a person can be in and you are worried about what school your child goes to. And all these other posters are only focusing on that.
Your family definitely threw you under the bus by not telling you your fiancé was pregnant by another man. Who does that? Your family is making my family look like saints. The minute you found out about the pregnancy, you should have packed your bags and went back home. Right there, your relationship was doomed. From that moment on, you lost all your self esteem and became a door mat and punching bag. Your wife is obviously a person without character and morals, so how do you expect to have a productive, healthy life with a partner like that? I have heard about some messed up situations in my time on earth, but this takes and eats the cake. Cheating is one thing, which I wouldn't forgive, but having another man's child while you are in the process of coming to the USA. No way.
Is baby daddy even contributing financially to his child? Not that this is the issue at hand, but definitely a consideration. Or his he just sticking his nose in to exacerbate the situation?
And your family's deception and secrecy is unbelievable. Who doesn't tell their family member who is immigrating that his wife/fiancé is cheating and having another man's child? Appalling behavior to say the least.
Newsflash. Your wife has done probably the worst thing a woman could do. Add to this the fact that you are coming to a foreign country trying to build a new life.
The problem is that you have zero self esteem or self worth. How can you expect to have anything in life if you allow people to keep feeding you garbage sandwiches and you eat them while saying thank you in the process?
Until you develop some standards for behavior, you will continue to be everyone's doormat. There isn't a forum in the world that can help you with the problems you are experiencing.
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I'm not saying it is wrong. I am just questioning how the act alone of exchanging something is considered enough to be a valid marriage. In most places you would need some type of legal document to go with it. If they had done that here they wouldn't be considered married.
You are thinking like an American. Our customs have nothing to do with Ghana. Sadly, most Americans think their beliefs and laws apply to the rest of the world. They don't.
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Canada has different emissions than the USA. The USA makes you "federalize" the car. It can cost $1,000's. Leave the car in Canada. It is not worth the hassle. I was reading in here of a person who couldn't bring a car in from Canada because it didn't have a TPMS installed. Too much hassle. We have plenty of caravans in the USA
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You need to show that you are in a real marriage. You and your husband may know that you are but USCIS doesn't based on your evidence. You need to be on all the bills and have a joint account with your husband.
I want to pull affidavit of support before AOS approved
in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits
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My reason for wanting to pull the affidavit of support is to protect myself. I am not happy in my marriage and neither is my wife. She has been here almost a year. In the beginning, I kept saying once she gets ead, job, phone etc, she will be less homesick and happy. Unfortunately, that is not the case. My wife doesn't communicate her needs and wants effectively. She doesn't communicate at all. Unless you consider the silent treatment and sulking for days at a time communicating. When I try to communicate my needs and wants, all I get is silence and a blank stare or a pillow over her eyes or her on her phone. Contrary to a few months ago, where I wanted her to work to pay for her ticket home, I am volunteering to pay for it now. I don't feel as though I am getting enough in return for what I am giving. My wife is working, she has a new iPhone and we agreed to have her contribute some of her earnings to pay for some of her/our expenses. Her 1st reaction is to send money home. I told her she can do that after she contributes to our home. This of course results in sulking and silent treatment for 2 days. I feel as though I have given it my best shot and without pointing fingers, it might be time to pull the plug. I don't want to stay the course because at this point I can walk away. If she gets the 2 year card, it will be more complicated to get divorced and she will be gaining rights that will put me in an unfavorable position. There is no reason to risk this for a marriage that I am not happy with. Additionally, my wife thinks the Philippines is better and I am tired of trying to sell her on why it isn't. If she likes the Philippines better, she should go back there and pursue an opportunity there.