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    Married4Life13 reacted to Transborderwife in Feeling Overwhelmed   
    If it was abusing it it would not be legal. USCIS has deemed it a perfectly legal process and many VJers have gone through aos without issue.
    OP you choose whatever route you think is best.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Transborderwife in Feeling Overwhelmed   
    Wrong. Perfectly legal to stay and adjust providing that it was not the plan on entry. It is not abiding his visa to AoS otherwise USCIS would not allow it.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Unidentified in Things went badly for us, she wants to leave after being here 1 week   
    I don't know how good your relationship is but if you're relationship is good then sending her home because she's been homesick for a week seems like an extremely rash decision. Everyone experience homesickness, it's a big step to leave your home country. Talking to her, taken her out to do fun things to keep her mind of off the homesickness would have been a better strategy.
    But yeah, it is your call of course. And she will only need her ticket and passport to go home. Let the embassy in her home country know she won't be using the K1.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to belinda63 in Husband withdrew I-130 before I got admitted to USA but, I am here   
    Please also remember that as soon as you have the first hearing in the divorce he will probably get back the house and you will be on the street. The house is his, you have no right to it. You married after he bought it and you have contributed not one cent to the marriage. He will most likely not have to pay you a penny since you have been here more than one year living off of him. So be prepared to be on the street with only what you brought with you.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Jawaree in Husband withdrew I-130 before I got admitted to USA but, I am here   
    God don't like ugly. give the man & his mom their house
    and go to your country, that was a devious thing, obviously
    dude have some decency showing up at the airport to get U &
    2 days later U R a thorn in his side...eventually the Justice
    system will see thru you. Don't come back here bragging &
    trying to get pointers for your games
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Caryh in Husband withdrew I-130 before I got admitted to USA but, I am here   
    If I recall this correctly, she was held by CBP on entry, then released into the custody of her husband until such time that the legality of her entry could be sorted out. I think her husband would have been better served had he never bothered to pick her up and allow her into his home. It appears to have been a nightmare for him ever since.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to sadavis5 in Husband withdrew I-130 before I got admitted to USA but, I am here   
    So you were reporting abuse and he wasn't even there?
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    Married4Life13 reacted to belinda63 in Husband withdrew I-130 before I got admitted to USA but, I am here   
    If I remember your case correctly you have no grounds for an abuse waiver since you threw him and his mother out of the house and got a restraining order. And had him arrested on false charges. And he never laid a hand on you.
    For the divorce waiver you must have proof of a relationship that existed after you entered the US. You have none since you threw him out of the house.
    Add to that the fact that he notified USCIS prior to your entry to the US that he did not want you here and he was filing for divorce.
    So could you give more details on what, exactly, you plan to use as evidence?
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Harpa Timsah in Horrible Houston Experience   
    You think it is discrimination but I think that you want to see it. All couples must prove that their relationships are real, and Tunisia is a high-fraud country. Many straight couples have been grilled and tested, and sent for multiple interviews. It can happen. That is the thing with equality; now it can happen to you too.
    Leaving without an AP automatically cancels the application. It states it very clearly on the NOA1s for the I-485. You should fire your attorney for not telling you this. Good luck.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to 2ndMessiah in Potential fiance is already married   
    Has the OP tried "shopping" in the domestic market.
    Plenty of new and nearly new models available without contractual issues.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Boiler in Potential fiance is already married   
    The brutal but more logical option is to keep looking.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Hypnos in in immigration custody at this momment plz help   
    Find an amazing lawyer; you are beyond the scope of a DIY forum.
    Don't get your hopes up.
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    Married4Life13 got a reaction from CowBoE in Is civil surgeon and/or vaccine shots in US covered by health insurance?   
    If you have a medical flexible spending account you may be able to use that. I have one and when I called the company they advised the complete visit will be covered.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to nobbie in Citizenship, but I am kinda leaving soon   
    Do you really want / need to become a US citizen, remember if you do you will be obliged to file US taxes forever and ever. if you are going to live in Germany then why bother.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to usc85 in OMGOMGOMG expedite request approved!!   
    Hi, the medical appointment is obviously up to the hospital. We haven't done our DS-260 yet, but gave the hospital a copy of the expedite approval email with my wife's NVC case number. That number just has to be written on the medical report, so they want to make sure it's accurate. From what I've read online, the medical results are valid for 6 months, so you're good to go now, as long as the hospital/clinic accepts whatever evidence you have of your case number.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Harpa Timsah in Help! Getting married after the 90 days   
    You asked, so what have we got... 3/12?
    Everyone makes mistakes from time to time, but a very new member, making mostly mistakes, it just makes the right information muddled and doesn't help anyone.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to Ryan H in Wife's mental problems are making things too difficult.   
    The last thing you should do is start the spousal visa process. Agree with an earlier poster, get her the help she needs (if she'll even let you).
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    Married4Life13 reacted to benjicher in Not Good news "Glitch crashes global US passport, Visa operations"   
    I did it. Hired a bunch of hackers to take it down. The good news is that when they get it up and running, you'll all have interviews within 4 weeks.
    Kidding.
    But, I keep wondering when we're going to get pissed off enough to take real action. I got back to the US yesterday and my Senators and Rep will be hearing from me every day until something changes at State and HS.
    Please, stop taking it in stride when they tell you oh, well there are delays, you have to wait, etc. The administration is 100% responsible for the delays that are happening. People are in the streets to protest for the rights of non-USCs (not debating that here)--where are the Americans protesting because US families are being pushed behind non-USCs?
    It is time to get pissed off and in the streets.
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    Married4Life13 reacted to OLee in Dealing with negative people   
    I understand you perfectly well. Been there. The same happened to me. Except my closest family and probably one friend support me and are happy for me. I was confused at first as most of my friends turned their backs to me though at the beginning they were extremely "interested and excited". It hurt a lot, especially because I was sure our 10-25 years old friendship is strong and we are inseparable.
    I talked a lot with my now husband (we knew each other for 8 years, 3 full years were completely together, so there was not a surprise to anyone) cried a lot on his shoulder, I couldn't understand what's going on, why people started rejecting and ignoring me. He came up with one suggestion I will try to tell you in my own words: I am very sociable and positive person, all my life I was being liked and loved by my friends, but I never had a good personal life, my past relationship was a disaster and my friends were extremely supportive. None of them were divorced but me. They kind of felt sorry for me. All of a sudden I am happy! I am in love! My friends seemed to be excited, but deep in their hearts none of them believed it would work (foreigner, American, lives far away, etc.). They started inviting us to the parties or just simple coffee and snacks, everybody "liked" him. And again - BANG! I am getting married! She is happy! How so? It looks like they couldn't cope with my happiness. Probably add a dose of jealousy too.
    Stay cool and keep being happy. Your (an I hope - mine) friends will change their mind after a while if they were real friends. If not, just think that you had no friends, but you will find some new ones in the near future. Keep your chin up and don't get easily influence by negativeness.
    All the best to you!
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    Married4Life13 reacted to NoeliayRonny in We got Expedited and Approved!! My Words of Advice   
    This all feels surreal, but our Visa is issued and will be in our Hands this Thursday. My love will POE on 7/28 with me at JFK. My Journey took a total of 9 months, if it wasn't for VJ I wouldn't have been able to do this, thank you to all that have answered my questions and I am here to help the best that I can. I want to give a special shout out to my girls, Nat, Carmen, Yoly, Chris, Dani, Mery, Teny, Yanil, Gabby, Alba, Dee, Laurie, Lisa, Lili, Ana, Lani and Vane. We have kept each other sane and supported each other through the hardest of time without this group of ladies. I wouldn't have been able to stay emotionally connected to this. The journey is long but if you build your support system strong you can do it. I can't wait to begin OUR next chapter with my Love. Good Luck to everyone and remember persistence and patience is key!
    Omg and My Queya can't wait for our hubbies to meet in the NYC!!
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    Married4Life13 reacted to JIJourney in Quitting and Starting All Over Again   
    From someone with Armed Forces background, tough love is very common within. I have been on these forums for a long, long time and I believe this is one of the reasons all the veterans and even the new guys here really respect my opinion because I give it a different perspective. To starting anew to being where me and my fiance are now, we are very humbled. It is normal to feel like quitting, but just give yourself a pep talk and hype yourself up! We have helped many on these forums and seeing happy couple faces and families is what makes all of this worthwhile. You can ask anyone and they will tell you that we will tell you straight to the point and give our best opinion. Good luck on your Journey and if you need anything let us know!
    Come on just do it! No questions asked. This is getting done!
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    Married4Life13 reacted to dixi27 in Quitting and Starting All Over Again   
    i havent seen my fiance since february 8 and i am 6 months pregnant if i can take it anyone can,trust me
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    Married4Life13 reacted to 100JH in NVC Filers - July 2014   
    Please think before you hit the enter button. Many people come here for a reason which is to learn more. Please add fact, value, insight and experience. Measure twice and cut once. It is getting to be overwhelming and unbearable. If you want social commentary? That is what the PM function is for. Chat all you like via PM. Do we really need to read every thought that enters your mind?
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    Married4Life13 got a reaction from nicholemariev in NVC Filers - July 2014   
    Glad you found it! After paying I just clicked on every button until I saw it
    Good luck!
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    Married4Life13 reacted to JohnR! in Is wife entitled to some of my tax refund money?   
    She is your wife and mother of your kids. I would say she became entitled to anything she needs the moment you said 'I do'.
    Legally she is probably entitled to at least ½ of everything you own.
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