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i thought i was the only one looking crazy around my family and friends!! lol!!!
when is he coming? you said this date? did you file the paperwork right? so is he coming this month? ok this month? hey is he coming yet? SHUT UP!! lol.....

Let me try 'this' another way, ok ?
Hey ! Damara ! the OP has this topic, 3 years old topic now, and recently it seems that you want to dig in on stuff that's already been covered. I mean, come on - on a 3-year topic, don't you think he's gone through enough emotional turmoil, come out the other side of it, and doesn't need this type of comments?
I think so, really !
So, I do mention, on a 3-year-old thread, to show 'the other side' really isn't needed, and the manner in which you write about 'the other side' seems too acerbic for common conversation,
and
as such - I ask - can ya stop about it? Simply stop posting in this thread? Yes, I'm asking - just because !
Thanks so much, and Thanks in advance !

Thanks for updating, am certain you have been scheduled. Try some more. Good luck.
I understand it better now. Not to worry, you would be with them soon, if you are not in April, May is around the corner. Hang in there. We have made it this far. Good luck

Hey January NVC fillers...this should be our month:)
I've already started looking for a job haha

I wish I could like your post a million times, DutchmansLady!!!
Soloenta, sweetheart, please don't think you have driven everyone away. Everyone loves you so much, and you should know that! Look how many people came back to check in on you, some even months after they have completed this process. You have made a difference and have touched the hearts of so many people. You are truly a special kind of person, that despite your own heartbreaking setbacks, are still able to support and encourage others, not allowing what has happened to you make you bitter or resentful to those that pass through this nightmare of a process with little difficulties. I think many people are not sure what to say to you right now to comfort you. I think a lot of people's natural instinct is to express their sympathies, then allow you some space to process everything as no one wants to upset you more. I also think this thread has become quiet as of recently due to many people finally getting through the NVC process. I can't speak for everyone else, but I can say, that for me, what has happened to you has impacted me more than you would ever know. Having just received our case complete, I am beside myself with joy, yet at the same time, I can't help but feel wrong for it. How can I be happy and feel relief, when you, my sister, are suffering in such great anguish? This has left me with intangible melancholy.
While it may be quiet now, don't worry, I am sure it won't be long before a new group of frustrated spouses will arrive. Just know, there is no pressure for you to continue this thread if you don't feel up to it. I think we would all understand it you withdrew yourself for a while. To be honest, I am very surprised you are still here and up for this after what you have just been through. Yet another reason you are such an amazing woman! If only I had half of your strength and courage! I don't think I would be strong enough to continue to do what you do if I was in your situation. You are a true inspiration to others!

We just received an e-mail from NVC to pay AOS AND IV fee, it is still has not been invoiced, we will wait until we can access it, hopefully soonest, I prefer electronic processing. P.D 24th Septemeber, 2013.

Welcome to the marriage!
I know precisely what you are talking about.
And I also know that you are thinking you are 100% correct, and she's 100% wrong.
But that's not the case...it's because men and women think differently and have different need.
If this is the only major issue in your marriage, with some education, coaching, and counseling,
I think you can improve the situation.
First, women are too emotional and men are too logical. This is what starts the communication gap.
Second, men cheats far more than women, so she's not crazy and statistics would support her jealousy.
Third, men thinks working hard and bringing paycheck home should automatically make wife happy,
but many women has hunger for being loved as well. Do you think she feels loved by you?
I'm not talking about you answering for her, but have you checked what her answer would be?
Fourth, you can significantly reduce the jealousy attack if you can make her feel loved.
Fifth, until women can feel they are loved, it doesn't matter who you move on to,
likely you could be back in the same situation.
Lastly, there are many good books on this topic.
Try getting her a book on how men think, and also get yourself a book on how women think.
Once both of you understand the core difference of "too logical men" vs. "too emotional women",
you can understand and care for each other better.
Good luck.

Congrats Phillip,
Please drop by to answer some of our questions. Good luck on the rest of your journey.

Hello Padistine,
Welcome to Visa Journey, in this visa forum a lot of your questions have been answered. I would start by giving you this link i hope it helps in getting your receipt notice, you would be needing it through this process until you get a case number from NVC. https://egov.uscis.gov/e-request/Intro.do;jsessionid=abcu2mPBO3BUla4YAIkTu. You can also follow this link for other Vermount fliers http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/524021-vermont-october-filer-for-f2a-spouse-of-green-card-holder/
That is not correct, CSC has been approving cases way before case become current, am sure VSC would start approving cases as soon as September 2013 case become close to current or current. Vermount service centre is known for being very slow.
One step ahead shows he is getting close to be reunited with his family. Nobody expected that F2A would be current in 2013, someone already has an interview date PD June 7th 2013, So March VB 2015 would advance upto 7th June and maybe beyond.
Use this link to make an e-request. https://egov.uscis.gov/e-request/Intro.do;jsessionid=abcu2mPBO3BUla4YAIkTu Good luck

Perhaps changing your gym is in order. If she is uncomfortable and jealous then if you care about her it would be helpful to work through it with her. Jealousy is very hard to deal with. But it sound like she is feeling insecure and would like some reassurance from you even though she isn't using those words.

Could you find a men only gym?

All i can see here, it is that he doesnt have the money for a big wedding, he wants get marry with you, but he doesnt want a big wedding.
You say that you dont want just go to the corthouse and get marry for the paperwork, but let me tell you something if for you it is more important a big wedding that be with you love, then the person who has the problem here it is you.
If you love him, you just get marry without celebrating.
Big wedding isnt important, the important thing is be with the person who you love.
You have the problem with the wedding because you want a big wedding, if you love him just get marry as he says : go to the courthouse and sing a paper, a marriage is between 2 people, a lot of people or a big celebration arent needed.

my question is, why are you on an immigration website asking dating advice?

Hello Sarah,
Nobody deserves to be treated like this, get help immediately. Protect yourself and your kids, they should not be exposed to this. My prayers are with you.