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JonathanC13

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    JonathanC13 reacted to NikLR in Partner might be cheating... what to do?   
    Good to know it's a false alarm. Bad to know you were both suspicious of each other.
    Remember how much communication had to go on to have the LDR? Well keep it up. Honest communication builds trust and respect. Do what you need to do to make sure that communication is there and try to trust each other and your love for each other.
    There was some really heartfelt moments in our wedding ceremony that I still think about because as we all know, this journey isn't easy and just because you move, it isn't over. This isn't verbatim, but it's the general idea along with my own thoughts at the moment: A marriage is always an unfinished painting but more lovely with each layer that's added. So when you're not sure, look at your ring. When you need a reminder, look at your ring. When life is hard and you may not want to try anymore, look at your ring. Why? Because that ring is the physical embodiment of the commitment you swore to uphold to that other person and them to you. I wouldn't care if the ring was made of tinfoil, it was the fact that he put it there, with all his heart, to love me for better or worse, in sickness and in health, through the good times and the bad, for exactly the person I am and will be. I made the same commitment to him. I love him for all of the things that make him who he is. That doesn't mean he's perfect, but then neither am I.
    Talk to each other, don't spy on each other.
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from trbasat in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Thank Darwin!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Azsara in can i request a second drug test?   
    If they asked for a drug test at Knightsbridge you must have admitted smoking it in the past. So admitting previous drug use AND THEN testing positive for it does not bode well for you.
    You need to either stop smoking it or if you are being truthful with us you need to find new friends
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from 2ndMessiah in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Thank Darwin!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Peter_Pan in Decison denial (merged)   
    Either out of date, or not free to marry.
    I think the OP should learn some grace and apologize for snapping at people who were just trying to help. No one here has to put up with that childish behavior.
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    JonathanC13 reacted to clairegie in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Congratulations Jonathan!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to J & L in They approve atheists too!!!   
    well... nice to know!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to lost_at_sea in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Congratulations.
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    JonathanC13 reacted to a+j in They approve atheists too!!!   
    LOL, congratulations!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to 2ndMessiah in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Congratulations.......
    As a fellow godless heathen welcome to the US and good luck getting your head around American Christianity.
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from J & L in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Thank Darwin!
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from cc13 in They approve atheists too!!!   
    Thank Darwin!
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Avery Cates in What do you think?   
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    JonathanC13 reacted to lost_at_sea in Warning to those supporting your fiance or spouse!!   
    I quite enjoy the idea that I'm a ticking time bomb. Should ensure he makes me tea every morning, just in case.
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    JonathanC13 reacted to christeen in NOA2 APPROVED IN 19 DAYS   
    Unfortunately, I have seen this over the years... When there is a big backlog, they start to process the most recent files mind-blowingly fast to manipulate the numbers so it shortens the posted wait times... I have a feeling that there are going to be a few more of these "anomalies " in the coming weeks (so the wait times drop on paper) before they start working on the backlog I earnest. Yes, it sucks and it NOT fair in the slightest and Should,not be done! But it is how the system disfunction's currently.
    The silver lining is that after they clear some super "short termers" getting approved they start to make real progress on the older cases... These anomalies are usually a predecessor for real progress...
    Now, Don't hate on the applicants, it's just one of those luck of the draw things and Should not diminish the support they receive from this VJ community.
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from cc13 in Emergency Situation   
    I suspect she got turned back at POE for having scruffy hair
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Nich-Nick in how did you move your things?   
    Six bags on the plane between us then shipped many boxes.
    Shipping threads in the UK forum if you want to read some experiences.
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/447653-moving-all-my-stuff-from-the-uk-to-usa/
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457074-please-help-so-frustrated-trying-to-find-uk-moving-company/
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/443900-excess-baggage-air-freight-and-batteries/
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/424711-shipping-from-scotland/
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/410230-packing-your-uk-life-away/
    And the granddaddy thread http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/128548-yes-its-another-shipping-thread/
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from B_J in Emergency Situation   
    I suspect she got turned back at POE for having scruffy hair
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Kathryn41 in NOA2 APPROVED IN 19 DAYS   
    Three posts violating the Terms of Service have been removed (personal attacks). I can appreciate the frustration people have when something like this happens but please do not resort to name calling and insulting each other in your frustration. If you can't post constructively, then do not post.
    moderator hat off . . . .
    greenivy, congratulations on your quick approval. Over my years here I have seen a few cases like this - and during my own visa journey there were a few instances. Upon investigation, it turns out that when USCIS is training new staff they will often just grab a petition/application from the most recent applications received that haven't yet made it to an adjudicator's desk. They aren't trying to circumvent the waiting time, just that those are the applications that are just coming up from the mail room and are readily available. It looks like they are training new adjudicators right now so there are going to be a number of petitions/applications processed quickly, and as we have a large membership here on Visa Journey, it is not surprising that some of these quick approvals will go to our members.
    Is it fair? Nope. Is it frustrating? Absolutely. Is there anything you can do about it other than wish the beneficiary of this largess congratulations? Not likely. Many people - including me - have complained to USCIS about this over the years, and yet, it still happens.
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from Harpa Timsah in Emergency Situation   
    I suspect she got turned back at POE for having scruffy hair
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from Justine+David in Emergency Situation   
    I suspect she got turned back at POE for having scruffy hair
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from cdneh in WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH TSC?????   
    We waited 120 days for our NOA2.
    My interview is next month, 131 days from our NOA2 date.
    I'd recommend a nice smelly candle and some whale-song
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    JonathanC13 reacted to TR&ZY in Do the TSA target the cases of visa applicants?   
    Ha ha... I get those cards too :-) I'm going to put my collection in my check in bag when I return to China next month =p
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    JonathanC13 got a reaction from Tosh Love in Do the TSA target the cases of visa applicants?   
    I may be veering toward needing some tin-foil millinary but having been fortunate enough to be able to visit my fiancee a number of times in recent months I seem to have accrued a rather impressive collection of TSA "We checked your bag" cards. Of my last eight flights I have had my case searched five times.
    Has anyone else noticed this, or am I just lucky?
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    JonathanC13 reacted to Sam and Fen in Do the TSA target the cases of visa applicants?   
    There were just checking your bags for Fish and Chips.
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